booksrite001:

However, the whites seem to be better with parenting and beating a child isn't part of what they do.

booksrite001:
Our culture remains our culture.
However, the whites seem to be better with parenting and beating a child isn't part of what they do.

As we emulate them,....

dairykidd:

Who told u the whites are better Anyways, this one u shared all my conversations with Blackivy27 is she ur girlfriend or what exactly are u trying to get because the move got my attention... So?

Blackivy27:
You noticed it too??

dairykidd:

Yeah i did, what's the deal with him/her. Like a monitoring spirit

booksrite001:
Our culture remains our culture.
[s]However, the whites seem to be better with parenting[/s]and beating a child isn't part of what they do.

As we emulate them,....

Blackivy27:
Her, she got my attention quite easily.

dairykidd:
Lots of virtual trans on NL, u never really know who is what

dairykidd:

Who told u the whites are better Anyways, this one u shared all my conversations with Blackivy27 is she ur girlfriend or what exactly are u trying to get because the move got my attention... So?

booksrite001:


Westerners gets very close to their kids and they often detect their unique skills and strengths right from tender age. The same doesn't happen majorly here.

What is this thing you have with Blackivy27? Tell me.
Now for the attention, have you tried out the app in my signature?

missjo:

I wonder where you people get this impression from

dairykidd:


Yeah their society was structured that way but still there are a thousand ways to discipline a child without being physical..

I checked ur app & its cool.. And that thing why is it important to u

dairykidd:

I checked ur app & its cool.. And that thing why is it important to u

booksrite001:
Our culture remains our culture.
However, the whites seem to be better with parenting and beating a child isn't part of what they do.

As we emulate them,....

booksrite001:


It's important to me because I believe every nairalanders should have this experience.

dairykidd:


Not that.... The thing u think i have with her. Why is it important to u?

Yohans:

How are they better at parenting than blacks?

booksrite001:


it's a guy you're referring to. So leave the mata

booksrite001:


This is more than an impression. I am sure you'll see this reality if a survey is conducted.

missjo:

Lol,dear i have been lucky to experience both the 'west' & Africa and I still do on occasion.
What you claim is surely an impression,i live the reality.

dairykidd:


Lolzz She's a guy... lawwd have mercy
NL is a really crazy place to be these days

booksrite001:


We continue to drop heritage, culture and values and adopt the western. Very few tribes stick to persisting the culture. Take for instance our language when they move abroad.

Everything changes. Now, you see child rights ngo rising, brutality has reduced.

booksrite001:


So don't tell me you're in love already

booksrite001:
Our culture remains our culture.
However, the whites seem to be better with parenting and beating a child isn't part of what they do.

As we emulate them,....

omoharry:
Ya as they don't see any big deal when their children them to shut up and use other fowl languages to express their frustration toward their parents..Majority of these white children have no respect for their parents or elders..if that is the kind of parenting you want they so be it. I prefer the African upbringing(though not the one done in excess) but proper upbringing using both the carrot and stick approach and at the same should be given the opportunity to express them self over dispute. These was how we were brought up back then ..it has made the generation born in the 70s , 80 and early 90s better people.

calgaryFriend:


Don't believe everything you see in the movies.
The African way of raising a child is still better than the Western way, the best is Asian culture of upbringing.

That is why Africans excel when they go abroad, the culture of discipline but like I said, Asians still have the best way of raising a child, although it is a little brutal but that is why they are excelling , extremely disciplined, hard working and goal oriented.

desvi:
https://www.nairaland.com/5373240/father-beats-daughter-death-akure

omoharry:
Ya as they don't see any big deal when their children them to shut up and use other fowl languages to express their frustration toward their parents..Majority of these white children have no respect for their parents or elders..if that is the kind of parenting you want they so be it. I prefer the African upbringing(though not the one done in excess) but proper upbringing using both the carrot and stick approach and at the same should be given the opportunity to express them self over dispute. These was how we were brought up back then ..it has made the generation born in the 70s , 80 and early 90s better people.