oluite:

I know a family,the woman was very heavy during the wedding.She had miscarriage and several other miscarriages after that infact afta over 15 year of marriage.They still dont have a child.
I also know a lady who wanted to get married and was told she needs to validate her fertility.She took in,the man is nowhere to be found and she's a single mother with a 10year boy.
I have learnt in dis life dat wat may workout for some1 mite not work u.Dont play God with dis life.Only prayers n God's mercies will help one.

4llerbuntu:

why are all u pple getting your knickers in a twist? it works both ways now.

as a woman do you want to get married to a man who cannot impregnate you?

so whats sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander!!!! unless of course as usual, there is a ulterior motive, or you are just plain scared the past may catch up. simples

Outstrip:

Shine my eyes for what. [b]Nobody [/b]marries to have babies. That is not what marriage is for. Anyway to each their own. Somehow people tend to end up with what they allow so why should I worry about someone elses decision. The fact is that any woman who married you when you make such a request is simply desperate. No real man wants to marry a desperate woman. Period

I know marriage is for companionship, sexual gratification and for child bearing thus, I wonder why so many people who have contributed believes marriage is solely for child bearing.

Therefore, I would suggest people should seat down and think very well and above all, marry for the right reasons. Some people because of their desperation to get their wife pregnant before marriage end up having bastards as children because the woman in a bid not to loose the man who for one reason which actually may not be a serious problems could get some other men impregnate them.

Shine my eyes for what. Nobody marries to have babies. That is not what marriage is for. Anyway to each their own. Somehow people tend to end up with what they allow so why should I worry about someone elses decision. The fact is that any woman who married you when you make such a request is simply desperate. No real man wants to marry a desperate woman. Period

kobikwelu:

its not about playing God,

why do most couples check their blood group, genotype, their HIV status and all that stuff before getting married??


its just common sense,

before  you get married, try and eliminate as much uncertainty as possible, and leave the rest to God

this is for a life-time.

Princek12:

Playing God because you want to make sure you are marrying a fertile woman? Are you kidding me?
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Of course couples check blood group,genotype,Hiv status.you can take it a step further and do a diagnosis for infertility(for a woman):blood test,urine test,hormonal test,pap smear,biopsy,an ultrasound etc.
But read closely LIFE DOESN'T PLAY BY THE BOOKS.A virgin might be infertile or fertile.Dats life. Well different strokes for different people.I believe in doing all u can do as a human without offending God n prayers.Everytin is about d mercy of God.

N/B:i dont agree in getting pregnant b4 marriage to prove fertility.i think it's playing God.my opinion.

kobikwelu:

its not about playing God,

why do most couples check their blood group, genotype, their HIV status and all that stuff before getting married??


its just common sense,

before  you get married, try and eliminate as much uncertainty as possible, and leave the rest to God

this is for a life-time.

Princek12:

Playing God because you want to make sure you are marrying a fertile woman? Are you kidding me?

dayokanu:

But childbearing is VERY important for some people including Dayokanu

@Dayokanu, I never said it is not important what I was saying is that it shouldn't be the major reason for marriage but for those who think it is, then so be it.

There is a technology in the world for the past 50 years called DNA testing. It doesnt cost much

Instead of you to say you are randy like a billy goat and you want to have intimacy, you are using validating a woman's fertility. It's no more test-drive again, it's now validating her fertility. Just imagine this toasting line, "baby lemme validate your fertility" instead of you to scream konji dey kill you. Hahahaha. Lmao

That's by the way, jare. . .
What are doctors or gynecologists for? If it's really about wanting to know about her fertility status, why don't you book an appointment with a medical personnel to see if her uterus and even your focal places are in good condition. I won't be surprised how many of them ranting here have a low-spermatozoa count and even need paraga to take on a simple task as an erection

dayokanu:

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Oya stillwater lemme validate your hmm

So both parties should validate, I bet most women too wouldnt want a guy who cant knock them up