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She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Kelvin125(m): 6:02am On Jun 02, 2018
Dear Nairalanders my name is Sunday, I live here in Abeokuta. Please I need a good advice from you. There is this girl I met last year ending. We had sex around mid November last year. At the beginning of February this year, she came to my house telling me that she has not seen her period and she suspects she is pregnant. Initially, I thought she was actually testing to know my reaction. I asked her who is responsible and she said I am the one. At first I showed her a sign of happiness and told her that if she is actually pregnant and I'm truly the father, then I will marry her because I don't indulge in any form of abortion. From that moment, I kept on asking her to tell me the truth if I'm really responsible. She swore by everything that I'm the one. I suggested pregnancy test but she told me that when she gets back to where she was staying, then she would go for it. After that she went back to where she was staying and we never communicated because she said she lost her phone. Middle of this May, she came back with the pregnancy telling me she had been looking for my contact but could not find it. To cut the long story short, I kept on asking her to tell me who is responsible and she kept on saying I'm the one. I insisted on a paternity test to confirm I'm the one. On the scheduled day, as I got to there house, she saw that I meant going for the paternity and told me that she wants to tell me the truth. She told me the whole story how she was lured to have sex with a stranger during Christmas time and the guy is responsible for the pregnancy. She saw her period after my sex with her but failed to see it in the month of January. She now begs me to marry her claiming she loves me so much. She is from a very poor family and I consider her conditions and what the family will pass through. My question now is should I marry her out of sentiment knowing fully the child is not mine?





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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Localamos(m): 6:13am On Jun 02, 2018
This is super story....

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Cutehector(m): 6:19am On Jun 02, 2018
Seventy two demons of stupidity have entered your body..

Demons I cast you ... Be goooonnnnne!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Anigreat: 6:24am On Jun 02, 2018
shocked






Because she's from a poor family, you used the opportunity to exploit her.
you and the other guy who impregnated her, are all mad.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by xedyl(m): 6:36am On Jun 02, 2018
Anigreat:
shocked







Because she's from a poor family, you used the opportunity to exploit her.

you and the other guy who impregnated her, are all mad.

He's Madding gan. grin

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by QueenSuccubus(f): 6:39am On Jun 02, 2018
grin

Here's my thought..u don't have to be the biological father of the unborn child if u truly want to be a FATHER..The only thing is she cheated on u while u are with her so that's the red flag.. How can u be so sure she would not sleep around again? undecided

But, let's be honest here.. Ur not really going for the peternity test, are u?...I understand u wanna bluff her & it worked grin grin grin

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Donkalio(m): 6:40am On Jun 02, 2018
Assist her, but dnt marry her.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by ednut1(m): 6:45am On Jun 02, 2018
Gals of nowadays ehn. Different dicks every cycle
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by tunjilana: 6:48am On Jun 02, 2018
Kelvin125:
Dear Nairalanders my name is Sunday, I live here in Abeokuta. Please I need a good advice from you. There is this girl I met last year ending. We had sex around mid November last year. At the beginning of February this year, she came to my house telling me that she has not seen her period and she suspects she is pregnant. Initially, I thought she was actually testing to know my reaction. I asked her who is responsible and she said I am the one. At first I showed her a sign of happiness and told her that if she is actually pregnant and I'm truly the father, then I will marry her because I don't indulge in any form of abortion. From that moment, I kept on asking her to tell me the truth if I'm really responsible. She swore by everything that I'm the one. I suggested pregnancy test but she told me that when she gets back to where she was staying, then she would go for it. After that she went back to where she was staying and we never communicated because she said she lost her phone. Middle of this May, she came back with the pregnancy telling me she had been looking for my contact but could not find it. To cut the long story short, I kept on asking her to tell me who is responsible and she kept on saying I'm the one. I insisted on a paternity test to confirm I'm the one. On the scheduled day, as I got to there house, she saw that I meant going for the paternity and told me that she wants to tell me the truth. She told me the whole story how she was lured to have sex with a stranger during Christmas time and the guy is responsible for the pregnancy. She saw her period after my sex with her but failed to see it in the month of January. She now begs me to marry her claiming she loves me so much. She is from a very poor family and I consider her conditions and what the family will pass through. My question now is should I marry her out of sentiment knowing fully the child is not mine?
Are u mad...the best u can do for her if she is poor and u feel like doing charity is to give her some cash or setup something for her...Marry kwa...u get mama wey dey pray for u so ?

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Nobody: 7:01am On Jun 02, 2018
Anigreat:
shocked







Because she's from a poor family, you used the opportunity to exploit her.

you and the other guy who impregnated her, are all mad.

Your brain is due for servicing. Its leaking oil.

Between someone whos considering marrying a lady pregnant for another man and someone who brought another man's pregnancy to lie that its for you because you have money who's exploiting who?

Your mumu is dope

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Gerrard59(m): 7:06am On Jun 02, 2018
Donkalio:
Assist her, but dnt marry her.

Why should he assist her for a condition he's not responsible for?

That said, the post comes across as a cooked one, poorly cooked.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by ojotobiloba1(m): 7:21am On Jun 02, 2018
Op, some post don't need to be posted whatsoever, There re millions of young and faithful ladies out dre and u wanna marry out of pity, you better don't start what u won't finish... My yoruba people will say, Ile to ba n toro, omo ale ibe ni ko ti da gba (In a peaceful home, seems the bastard child there isn't grown)... Take heed bro because she is gonna cheat on u once u marry her.. It's ljke a leopard who never change its spot

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by segebase(m): 7:22am On Jun 02, 2018
I love this movie..... when is the part 2 coming out
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Headlesschicken(m): 7:30am On Jun 02, 2018
undecided Thunder fall on you my friend.....

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Kelvin125(m): 7:41am On Jun 02, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin

Here's my thought..u don't have to be the biological father of the unborn child if u truly want to be a FATHER..The only thing is she cheated on u while u are with her so that's the red flag.. How u gonna be so sure she would not sleep around again? undecided

But, let's be honest here.. Ur not really going for the peternity test, are u?...I understand u wanna bluff her & it worked grin grin grin





though the test is expensive but I want to carry it out. But the psychological approach worked. Talking about being faithful later, as she is desperate, she agrees to all the conditions I have given to her so far
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Jayboi(m): 8:04am On Jun 02, 2018
OP is a kind hearted man. U can go ahead bro.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by eezeribe(m): 8:09am On Jun 02, 2018
Somebody is either a weakling or suffering from low self esteem or both...
Somebody is looking for a wife he could convert to a house maid...
Somebody doesn't have it easy with women and is therefore clingy even with a leftover...
Somebody himself might also be from a poor family like the pregnant lady...
BIRDS OF A FEATHER MUST FLOCK TOGETHER...

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by donstan18(f): 8:10am On Jun 02, 2018
Kelvin125:
. She now begs me to marry her claiming she loves me so much.
It's either she loves the MUGUNESS in you or she loves you because you are rich.

Don't be deceived, she should start loving the father of her child if she's a responsible woman.

Her poverty state shouldn't be a reason to marry her, help her financially if you care, but don't marry her because of the reasons below.

She's a liar and very deceitful.
She's promiscuous and her faithfulness won't be assured.
She's desperately loving you because of her condition.


Please please and please, if you want peace in you life, stay clear from her. But help if you're wish to.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by delugajackson: 8:18am On Jun 02, 2018
Lord, lord. This guy's got a big heart, this guy's got a really big heart. Belle no be your own, you wan go claim am? You deserve a medal, man. You are in rare form. Ladies and gentlemen, this is the father Abraham of our time. Keep on accepting belle that is not your own, you hear? Very soon you will become a father of many nations. Mumu.

You don't marry out of sentiment. Marriage is not what you log in and log out when the tables turn. It's a journey of a lifetime. In years to come, when you finally get a moment for yourself, you will realize how foolish you've been for raising another man's child.

There's never a place for a cheating partner in a relationship. I say you toss her lying àss out the window and let that bítch star-gaze from outside.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by donstan18(f): 8:25am On Jun 02, 2018
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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by donstan18(f): 8:26am On Jun 02, 2018
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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by saintol(m): 8:39am On Jun 02, 2018
Stop watching that movie too much. The federal ministry of film watchers warns that watchers of such movie are liable to have heart attack and die untimely.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Holysucker(m): 9:34am On Jun 02, 2018
What kind of fvckery is dis? what did I just read? infact op how do u want ur thunder? fried or roasted?

Rubbish
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by GuntersChain(m): 9:45am On Jun 02, 2018
you asked her who is responsible? meaning you are not the only one eating from the cookie jar. invariably there was and never trust in the relationship. abeg make i go read my book of bible story about mary and joseph, then i can give a cogent response.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Abeos(m): 10:35am On Jun 02, 2018
Kelvin125:
though the test is expensive but I want to carry it out. But the psychological approach worked. Talking about being faithful later, as she is desperate, she agrees to all the conditions I have given to her so far

Don't take desperation for faithfulness, I bet she'll hardly change
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Nofav0rs(m): 11:50am On Jun 02, 2018
Is that killabeauty of nairaland? Shame!
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Frankicent(m): 12:07pm On Jun 02, 2018
Bros you so foolish.... How can a grown man like you this like it's your 1st time with a woman...

Never marry a woman who's carrying another kid. If she Bleep a total stranger and got pregnant. Trust me when she get married to you she will fuxk your gateman...

Bros dey think of the future. Am sure you above 26+ and you thinking like 19...

My advice just support her she should go find her stranger to father the kids....

No go hold for mud ooooo... Bros think ahhh.. I tire for all this old man way no get scope at all.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by annford: 12:16pm On Jun 02, 2018
Never date or marry someone out of pity. if you know you would never see yourself judging, condemning or suspecting her in the future, then you could go ahead and marry her. can you stand being scorned or laughed at by people or even your family members for marrying her? is there any possibility of her cheating on you again in the future? would she love you always and not see you as a fool for accepting pregnancy that you knew nothing about? is she the only "poor" girl in the world that you'd want to marry so as to erase poverty from her life? think your actions through before you take any step.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:33pm On Jun 02, 2018
What you need is deliverance not advice.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by Teaser0904(f): 2:23pm On Jun 02, 2018
Op let me tell you the truth,your village pple yaf kidnapped your destiny tey tey.Go and beg them.You are so stupid for even talking to her after she went behind you and Bleep another dick.Use you head guy,a girl who loves you wont Bleep another nigga. undecided undecided
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Man But Begs Me To Marry Her by kmaster007: 2:32pm On Jun 02, 2018
buhari is doing her family big time... don't let her trap you wit black shadow

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