Orubebe01:

You forgot that not everyone is privileged to have parents who are alive.

Damn......twas supposed to be a harmless joke......i apologize
But u should ask uncles aunties elderly people dat know d traditions of her parents for better and more precise answers
Goodluck

Orubebe01:

hmmm, as an assurance abi, but its not the mother that I want to marry na.

I tire o, 250k.

OP.....It depends o....If na Imo state,, you gat buy a mini-super market go as na first time, compared to when you de go for introduction,, na main market you go carry go.....

Normally,,for the first time,, a carton or two cartons of wine and a smiling official envelope is enough...

soberdrunk:


You are the one that wants to send the young man to an early grave, how can you recommend "250 thousand naira" gold as gift to the mother just for introduction, money for 3 plots of land in Wakajaye Ibadan..........

The heart of a mother is supreme and the young man wants to come victorious he should do what I advise him to do talking about plot of land do you know what it takes to keep a woman

soberdrunk:



Op!! Op!! Orubebe01 !!! How many times did i call you Don't heed this type of advice oooo!! Don't start what you cannot finish!! Do this and watch the whole family turn you to CBN and hang all their problems on your neck........

What does being generous have to do with CBN The generosity of a man to his wife's family is compulsory he don't need to be told what to do before he start his act of kindness

I don't know where you are based.you may go to shoprite or any good wine shop and buy a good bottle of wine not more than 20k,don't give them money its insulting.you may also add stock fish of about 10 to 15k.goodluck

A bag of rice

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Buy fruits

Qwuliqwuli

Kilishi

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Don't portray what you can't defend later.

Buy them G Wagon...and thank me later.

Hold hundred thousand, new notes. It should go to the man, couple with wine. Then buy clothing material for the woman

First impression

Let ur wife 2 b tell u wat they like d most

GuntersChain:
since you are going for the first time, go empty handed. next time you can buy them gift.

QED

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

Gold of 250k? What will he now buy when he marries their daughter?

ihec:
my man no do pass ur self ooo

Word! Op @Orubebe01 needs honest answers and he came to romanceland for suggestions.
Dude, the joke is on you. No one would take you serious here.
If you want to engage responsible adults, ask the MoD to move your thread to family section.

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

Just make it simple this time: Assorted wines for her dad and give the mum some cash in an envelope when leaving the house; anything like 30k - 50k is ok for now. Don't be too flamboyant with cash this period even if you can afford it. Give the siblings a token too.

Goodluck!

Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.

The time for gifts has not yet reached. Go empty handed since this is the first time. Study them, appraise their environment then strategise for subsequent visits

Two she goats,one white and blue striped hen, 7 tubers of yam, a gallon of red oil, half a keg of palm wine, 3 rubbers of rice, half cup of beans and most importantly 3 litres of fuel

But a bottle of wine for the old man,and a nice wrapper for the mother. Don't forget to package like 5k for evelope too.

Go buy them Car �

I don't buy the idea of giving out gifts on the first visit. Just appear humbly and go there allow the parent to study you naturally and there you would get to understand the type of parent she has. Don't allow money to justify who you're to them just be you.

Dude you are going there not for "iku aka". just to meet the parents and let them know your intentions. they nay or may not accept you, so this is not the time to throw money around.

First check if her parents take alcohol if they do, you can buy a carton of alcoholic wine and go there. If they dont get a non alcoholic wine.
Its just a first meeting. if you start by spending very huge amount you will set a very High standard that you may not be able to maintain.


so be humble go with just a carton of wine and seek her parents consent first. They will tell you either to go ahead or forget about their daughter.

2 white cocks, 5 kolanuts, 2 fat goats, 2 schnapps.

Just be real and natural. Don't start what you can't continue doing.So,,keep it real is all that I have got to aay

Ask Google them have the best Answer to your Question......

Thegeneralqueen:
Buy drinks for her dad and a piece of gold maybe like that of 250k for her mum hope it helps

250k gold indeed.
Paupers trying to form class online.

GuntersChain:
since you are going for the first time, go empty handed. next time you can buy them gift.

Thanks jare, I see no reason to go meet her parents with gift on first visit, when it's not her younger ones, except she is having younger peeps in the house, I dont think its cool to go with a gift.

soberdrunk:


You are the one that wants to send the young man to an early grave, how can you recommend "250 thousand naira" gold as gift to the mother just for introduction, money for 3 plots of land in Wakajaye Ibadan..........

abi O

Take style ask your girl ,she might have a clue

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
2 white cocks, 5 kolanuts, 2 fat goats, 2 schnapps.

Is he going to visit a deity?
He said he wants to visit her PARENTS, not her ANCESTORS.