Having boundaries with the way you relate to the opposite sex is very crucial. Wit, out much ado, let me illustrate this with a short story. I was told a story of a girl who was a friend of a guy. This friendship grew for years. They both had an adventure together, study together and visited each other.

However, the girl was confused because of the way the guy hung around now and then. Nothing intimate was going on. Meanwhile, she decides to ask him what the friendship was all about. She asked, “ who am I to you”? The guy shuddered and replies, “ you are my good friend, and I take you like a sister”.

WOW! Wasn’t that surprising? From that day on, she kept him as a brother and a friend too. Nothing more or less.

Now, if she didn’t ask the question, she might end up emotionally attached to this guy and maybe finally get her heart broken.

WHAT TO DO

Have you read the short story above? If not go back to it.

It’s that simple. If a guy is always around you and you do not understand what he might want. If he acts as though he is more than a friend and acts so clingy, get a timeout and ask him the question “ who am I to you”?.Ask him to define the relationship. Whatever he says, stick to it. It’s that simple. No stress

Thanks for your time.
@lalasticlala


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