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Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by ogashman(m): 11:31pm On Jun 10, 2018
there is this lady I ve been friends with for some months now..three months precisely. the memory from our first meeting was bad due the circumstances surrounding it and this made me initially have a very bad impression about her,but this later changed.


as Time went on,we started getting on well and this transcended into we becoming real close.in the course of our friendship,I told her I like her all in a bid to get wat I want and leave.but she said she has a boyfriend which I never saw as an issue because I never wanted any long term thing with her.he stays in a different state.


I told her I had no problem with that,and this was because I wanted a fling with her and nothing serious.
the guy calls her regularly even when she is with me.he does the calling most times.

she visits me often,cooks and cleans the house and yes we do have sex.

the main issue now is that I discovered that I have fallen in love with her.she too professes love for me.
I ve told her how I feel abt her which she knows and that I want her for myself alone. but she is using what I said abinitio against me which is that I don't have issues with her having a boyfriend.

she always reminds me of that whenever I tell her I would like to have her to myself.

however since we met,she has not visited the guy as she has been giving him excuses.


do u think I ve a chance at getting her to be mine and probably make her forget about her bf?
or is she jus putting her eggs in two baskets in case of any eventuality?


p.s;our affair is not clandestine,people around know us together.
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by Nobody: 11:40pm On Jun 10, 2018
Mtchewww!
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by Mercurypanther(m): 11:45pm On Jun 10, 2018
Iranu akamu....
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by phililp(m): 11:46pm On Jun 10, 2018
This is absurd!,
She had a boyfriend, u bleeped her behind her boyfriend and then now u want her all to uself.
And want to belief no other guy wud Bleep her because u think you are thanos abi

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Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by ogashman(m): 11:51pm On Jun 10, 2018
kimbraa:
Mtchewww!
easy sis
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by mcdreeezy: 12:19am On Jun 11, 2018
I feel sorry for the other guy.
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by consultancy: 12:46am On Jun 11, 2018
what makes u think a woman u had sex with while she was in a relationship wouldn't do same to you with other men. see ur mouth like you want her all to yourself

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Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by Surfboard(m): 12:48am On Jun 11, 2018
Karma will be real when you have her to yourself and someone comes to do to you, what you've done to the boyfriend.

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Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by RobinHood147: 4:10am On Jun 11, 2018
Oyinbo say; You can never monopolize a good thing.


As I dey see you this OP, you’re a greedy fellow. Na only wan dey knack apako.

Better thing na for everybody o boy.

The kitten is not yours, Na just your time. Use am well!
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by AdaAde(f): 7:37am On Jun 11, 2018
Foolish children..... Mtcheeew
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by IamPlato(m): 8:39am On Jun 11, 2018
...

Some People Will Come Here Saying Girls Are sluts...

But I Want You To Know That She Didnt Fvck herself.

Op i Hope You Will Be Okay With It When Your girl Friend Does Same To You...

You Better Be Okay With It
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by VERDA: 8:54am On Jun 11, 2018
phililp:
This is absurd!,
She had a boyfriend, u bleeped her behind her boyfriend and then now u want her all to uself.
And want to belief no other guy wud Bleep her because u think you are thanos abi

Lool....did the guy offend you?
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by VERDA: 8:59am On Jun 11, 2018
IamPlato:
...


Some People Will Come Here Saying Girls Are sluts...


But I Want You To Know That She Didnt Fvck herself.


Op i Hope You Will Be Okay With It When Your girl Friend Does Same To You...


You Better Be Okay With It

Bro your comment about her "not f**king herself" does not really make sense,I would not go as far as calling her a slut but she had a bf and decided to sleep with the guy,the other guy from his write up is single,with his flaws of course.Na their problem sha.

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Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by cyndy1000(f): 9:02am On Jun 11, 2018
here is the advice. Have her all my yourself n watch her fall for another guy she meets by then you have grown fond her so much.


Karma is Real..... Some serves you chilled ones very quickly!
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by IamPlato(m): 9:27am On Jun 11, 2018
VERDA:


Bro your comment about her "not f**king herself" does not really make sense,I would not go as far as calling her a slut but she had a bf and decided to sleep with the guy,the other guy from his write up is single,with his flaws of course.Na their problem sha.
...


He Was Single But Wanted Somebody's girl...



I Know The Way You Would React If It Was other Way Round
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by lenghtinny(m): 9:30am On Jun 11, 2018
What goes around comes around angry

The sex must have affected the active part of your brain. How can you expect loyalty from a girl that forgot about her present boyfriend to cheat with you at the drop of a hat?

I'm sorry to say this but she can never be yours cos she belongs to nobody and everybody.
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by VERDA: 9:41am On Jun 11, 2018
IamPlato:
...


He Was Single But Wanted Somebody's girl...



I Know The Way You Would React If It Was other Way Round

If you go back and re read my comment you would see where I criticized the guy.....I am not justifying any of them,they are both wrong, my only reason for responding to your comment was that you seemed to be justifying the ladies actions.
Re: Help A Brother Know His Stand Pls by Nobody: 9:57am On Jun 11, 2018
the only little way anyone can have someone to him/herself is only 70% in marriage sometimes 100% relatively talkless of relationship. there are no guarantee in any relationship. expect the unexpected and keep fingers crossed... dont assume too much or expect too much from ur partner until he make that vital step of taking u through the aisle

commitments and interest changes with time like the weather.

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