| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
MissWrite:
I don't know why people were blowing a fuse over that comment. Everyone who gets proposed to likes to think of themselves as Rapunzel in a tower getting "rescued" by her knight in shinning armor. It is a romantic notion. They also like to think that they're turning a frog into a prince. So, rescue missions abound; it doesn't matter how old you are, or if you're a man or woman.
Guys on social media are working tirelessly to lower a woman's self-esteem. Well done;but, you're going to need powerhorse for the extra shifts you need to pick up.
A woman in her thirties has likely got self-esteem (and maybe money, and a direction); it is the girls in their twenties that are the real target here: before they let themselves become 'evening newspapers', some of them may have the desperation to consider some of you. A woman in her thirties has probably learnt to rely on feature stories to sell the paper. They are fresh in the evening and the day after. They won't be appreciated by everyone as it takes a person with specific interests to be swayed by a feature story, but it'll increase the chances of real compatibility.
Very well said. Only in Africa or is it Nigeria or more specifically a pathetic representation of Nigeria called "nairaland" do you see small boys running around with disturbing mentality. Meanwhile, EVERYDAY all around the world, loads of Prince Harrys' are finding their Megan Merkels' and getting married.
Marry when you are ready if that is in your 30s, 40s, 50s, then so be it. Better to be single AND happy then married and miserable. EOS. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by victorian(f): 7:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
kunleweb:
No i am not. I'm just the guy who stumbled on this thread and saw one of the cutest and freshest face i'v seen on this forum in a while. I need such calmness in my life, hence my interest. So, are you single? Check my handle , my Bbm is there . Add me up. I don't like chatting on public forums , before a random stranger from nowhere on nld will claim they know my biography from the day I was born till date . As if they were the ones who gave birth to me  And thanks on the compliments. |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by kunleweb: 7:44pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
victorian:
Check my handle , my Bbm is there . Add me up.
I don't like chatting on public forums , before a random stranger from nowhere on nld will claim they know my biography from the day I was born till date . As if they were the ones who gave birth to me
And thanks on the compliments.
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| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(m): 8:01pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
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| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by victorian(f): 8:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
kunleweb:
Hmm, I cant access my email. Sending pm? Is not advisable. Are u on Bbm? |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by kunleweb: 8:19pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
victorian:
Hmm, I cant access my email. Sending pm? Is not advisable.
Are u on Bbm? Not on PM Please drop me a note, musbuq@gmail.com |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
victorian:
Only in your dreams u will read my newspaper
People online can whine and wail from now till eternity ,. am not moved . I know what I want in this my precious life and no one can nag me or bully me to do otherwise .
Am as stubborn as a mule to bullies ! Lol
I love where I am, I love my relationship and what have achieved so far .
So wailers can keep wailing . Am fresh tomatoes 
Ko kan aye mehn! :DD
And in real fact , guys do beg to date me .. I don't brag, its the truth . So u begging me for a date won't surprise me , upon the mouth u dey make here online .
na wao why u uploading ur pix here? hope u know they will use it to troll u. |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Rescue mission? Lol |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by kunleweb: 8:45pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
MariaLavina:
Rescue mission? Lol Sick mentality was what came to my mind when i saw the topic.  |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by victorian(f): 8:48pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
lefulefu2:
na wao why u uploading ur pix here?
hope u know they will use it to troll u. That's true! Will remove it Thanks dear. 1 Like |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by victorian(f): 8:48pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
kunleweb:
Not on PM
Please drop me a note, musbuq@gmail.com OK, sent . |
| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
victorian:
That's true!
Will remove it
Thanks dear. yw |
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| Re: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by kunleweb: 11:56am On Sep 20, 2018 |
COOLDK:
This was inspired by the other thread.
So many times guys blame ladies of body counts and been miserable, forgetting the fact that without them (guys) in the picture, there will be nothing like the said body count (It takes 2 to tangle)
I am not trying to justify ladies, but a larger percentages of them are highly emotional when it comes to love and romance. So many times they thought they have found the true one, but this true one is just after the body and when achieved, we all knew the rest of the story.(Many are guilty of this).
This cycle goes on for the unlucky ladies as they decided to move on with their lives, but the lucky ones got inspiration and wisen up from their initial flaws and look before leaping with the next guy. Even this next guy is not guaranteed (as we always outsmart them, except the extremely gifted and talented among them).
Guys! Take a look at it this way, How many girls have you slept with? (I knew many are doing the maths right now). How many of them do you broke up with using flimsy excuses or no valid reason(s)? . Deep inside and right from the onset, many guys knew he will never end up with the lady but still take due advantages of her (even when this lady possesses wife qualities and show genuine emotion and care). This is because women a created to be weaker/soft minded compared to men folks.
Now I put it to you guy, WHAT IS YOUR OWN BODY COUNT? Average of 10-15 right? So What is your justification?
You cant be wayward all your life and expect to end up with an untouched virgin! It doesn't work that way.
There is always a pay back for all the atrocities we all once committed in one way or the other (either male or female). Asked the various married men around if they will tell you the factual truth. (They all have what they battled with in their women)
The more you dig around, the more loop holes you are creating for yourself to regret at a latter date. And the fact is, so many times we all look back and wished we never did some certain things we've done!
Even if you married ladies age 20s, a happy life is not guaranteed. Likewise child bearing, perfect home, good romance or fruitful union can never be boast of. (except by His divine mercy).
Marrying a lady in her 30s might be a blessing to many if well connected emotionally and have many passions of live in common (perhaps, I've seen some 30s looking 20s. If not told, you will never believed). Chances of arguments, fights, lack of understanding are slim because you both have a broader view of life and can manage situations more maturely and perfectly.
Marrying her in 20s is considered best though, but what happen if the said lady turn out to be a torn to your esophagus and not only your back? What happen if she lacks composure? What happen if her level of maturity is nothing to write home about and kiss and tell everything to her mother or family? What happen if she keeps getting fatter and fatter and look 35 while she is 20something after birth?
Will you also concluded you have made the wrong choice and started sleeping around with younger and sweeter looking girls?
The fact remain that, as guilty as the ladies are so the men . Though there are exceptional cases (but few) where the guy/lady is not wayward but end up with a wayward fellow.
MAY WE NEVER GO ASTRAY
AND IF WE ARE ASTRAY ALREADY, MAY WE PICK OURSELVES AND FIND THE COURAGE TO MOVE ON. God have mercy |
