with a woman/man you once dated would you be ok with the union?

MissRaine69:
with a woman/man you once dated would you be ok with the union?

Sure why not?

Ha. I can't really say. But I don't think i will like it. But, who cares?

Nah.. @all

AloyalNigerian:
Ha. I can't really say. But I don't think i will like it. But, who cares?

You split up ...so what’s the claim to that person?

MissRaine69:

You split up ...so what’s the claim to that person?

Actually, there's none.

But still, that feeling now, that feelings deep inside. I can't explain.

Sure got no problem with that a dog doesnt go back on his vomit They can get married i careless will even attend their weeding

Sure got no problem with that a dog doesnt go back on his vomit They can get married i careless will even attend their weeding

My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

hmmmmmm ur story got me speechless

my rational self says no qualms.
But my sentimental self? Would be hoping they break up eventually.

in my 2decades plus on earth I don't think I have ever had an ex so I am not suppose to be here!

Yeah.

kenddys:
in my 2decades plus on earth I don't think I have ever had an ex so I am not suppose to be here!

And yet you posted a comment. Pointless as a chocolate fire god!

Rigel95:
my rational self says no qualms.

But my sentimental self? Would be hoping they break up eventually.

At least you recognise that kudos to you

chris2face:
Sure got no problem with that a dog doesnt go back on his vomit
They can get married i careless will even attend their weeding

Sigh

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

It was cathartic I am sure. I have not talked to my best sister-friend for nearly a decade because she wanted to date my brother and I told her it won’t end well she went ahead and dated him anyway and he was exactly what I told her he would be. Somehow it was my fault I did not convince her enough

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

You're still hurt and feel she made the wrong decision hooking up with him.

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

Why do I have this urge to meet you in person. You do well sounding like a good bestselling author. Maam, I would love have a private chat with u if u don't mind. I will send a PM.

ghostwritter:

Why do I have this urge to meet you in person. You do well sounding like a good bestselling author. Maam, I would love have a private chat with u if u don't mind. I will send a PM.

Lol. It sounds like a tory story but it's real life

Thank you for inflating my ego

I'm no writer, basic coma I no fit place em right and I'm in England

Thanks anyway, and I wish you a good morning and a joyful day ahead.

KingRex1:

You're still hurt and feel she made the wrong decision hooking up with him.

I just know she could do better than him... she was turning 25 and her virginity was itching her to loose it but she was saving it for marriage.

MissRaine69:

It was cathartic I am sure. I have not talked to my best sister-friend for nearly a decade because she wanted to date my brother and I told her it won’t end well she went ahead and dated him anyway and he was exactly what I told her he would be. Somehow it was my fault I did not convince her enough

I'm confused... did she tell you it was your fault or was she too ashamed to be around you since your brother isn't going anywhere? I think it was the lata

LivingFree:


Lol. It sounds like a tory story but it's real life

Thank you for inflating my ego

I'm no writer, basic coma I no fit place em right and I'm in England

Thanks anyway, and I wish you a good morning and a joyful day ahead.

k,
Wishing u the very best dear.

I don't think any of my friends would go for my ex. Maybe new friends tho

MissRaine69:
with a woman/man you once dated would you be ok with the union?

I have no problem with that.

I'd give them my blessings anytime.

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

Ur best friend has my respect!!!!
She is the original slayqueen......

LivingFree:
My best friend from school, we met when we're 11, married my ex boyfriend who I introduced her to. I dated the guy when I was 23/24 and turned down his marriage proposal because he was broke and uneducated. So we ended the relationship since I wouldn't marry him.

He approached my bestie and she hid this from me. She actually broke my heart by telling me "she and I can't be friends because I'm a bad influence and she's trying to be a good Muslim woman". I was the bad girl, I smoked, clubbed and didn't wear a headscarf. (I think he told her to drop me)

I found out a couple of years later, (my brother told me she gave birth, and married so and so) I wasn't invited to the wedding obviously, even though we promised to be eachother's bridesmaids

She apologized nearly 8 yrs later for ending our friendship and for judging me but I still haven't met her children or rekindled our friendship. She is still has my heart and will be my best friend but... from a distance.

She made a man out of him though. She put him through school because she was already a graduate. I am angry because she sold herself short! She deserved better than him but... who am I to say that.

I wish them all the good in the world. I just wish he didn't take my blood sister from me. -We made a blood bond in school- a childish act (we pricked our finger with a pin and rubbed the blood)- this made us 'blood-sisters-


The memories, op! Look what you made me type

Your best friend just earned my respect 100%.

That's not just a woman that knows what she wants, but also knows how to refine it to her utmost taste.

Sad how your relationship with her panned out but that's life. Hubby will always come before bestie now as far as she's concerned.

LivingFree:


I just know she could do better than him....

How do you measure a man's worth?

LivingFree:


I just know she could do better than him... she was turning 25 and her virginity was itching her to loose it but she was saving it for marriage.

You can't be sure of anything when it comes to matters of the heart, esp if you're a third party. Wish them a HML

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MISSRAINE69 I'M SURE THIS QUESTION SHOULD BE FOR THE GIRLS ONLY.. BECAUSE MEN HARDLY HAVE "BEST FRIEND". WE HARDLY DO THAT "A PAIR OF" THING. WE'RE ALWAYS WITH "THE GUYS".

SO INSTEAD OF BEST FRIEND, WE HAVE GUYS AND MAIN GUY.
BEST FRIEND IS MEANT FOR GIRLS AND PRIMARY SCHOOL CHILDREN IN GENERAL.

I beg to differ

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MISSRAINE69 I'M SURE THIS QUESTION SHOULD BE FOR THE GIRLS ONLY.. BECAUSE MEN HARDLY HAVE "BEST FRIEND". WE HARDLY DO THAT "A PAIR OF" THING. WE'RE ALWAYS WITH "THE GUYS".

SO INSTEAD OF BEST FRIEND, WE HAVE GUYS AND MAIN GUY.
BEST FRIEND IS MEANT FOR GIRLS AND PRIMARY SCHOOL CHILDREN IN GENERAL.

So why do men have best men at weddings instead of main guy?
Men do have best friends ..you can argue about that as much as you like but I have heard men refer to someone as “my best friend” more than once or talk about a “best friend”. Perhaps in your circle is not the norm but it is certainly is that norm elsewhere