dingbang:
So if we demand sex, you must sell your body for a price? Why not say don't worry, its for free, so that we know sex is priceless and we value it.

"Demand" sex??

MarieSucre:


Na so. "Tell a guy ko, tell a guy ni". After you tell him, he will go and tell his friends how "cheap" you are. You should advice your fellow guys instead. Enough of this advice to women.

I don't need to advice anyone.. Everyone is entitled to their way of running a relationship and what I described to you is just how I am. The way I see things when it comes to dating is different.

JONNYSPUTE:
So says an unrepentant OLOSHO. Keep blaming men.

And so says the unrepentant OLOSHO patronizer

The same insue at hand and you are already label olosh for saying the truth. Nawa for una

MrBrownJay1:
as usual, women blaming MEN for prostitution, BWAAAAAAAH!!!

you will never solve the prostituion issue unless you remove the men who pay for it AND the lazy good for nothing women who think it is ok to sell their body for money.

so lets blame them ALL, instead of selfishly just blaming men who pay for sex.

True talk. The two parties are to be blamed. It's definitely not ok for a woman to sell her body for money. But it's the height of hypocrisy and double standards for the men who patronise these prostitutes to still call them names and slut-shame them.

Inasmuch as both parties are to be blamed, I think it's up to the men to put a stop to it. If they all agree to stop patronising them (which will NEVER happen), they will go out of business.

JONNYSPUTE:
So says an unrepentant OLOSHO. Keep blaming men.

Who will she blame? During the codeine crisis, do you blame the codeine or the customers who buy it? Do you blame the manufacturers of codeine for manufacturing such an addictive drug or the customers who carry their two leg to buy it thereby fueling demand?

It's hilarious how you call women olosho but forget that without men buying sex there will be no women selling it. I have lived among religious men who do not even shake women, you cannot see or hear that there are ashewos in their neighbourhood. Mosquitoes do not come if there is no stagnant water or open door. Go and advice your fellow men.

dingbang:
I don't need to advice anyone.. Everyone is entitled to their way of running a relationship and what I described to you is just how I am. The way I see things when it comes to dating is different.

I am happy you know that you're the exception not the rule and cannot be used as a template for what we are talking about here hence irrelevant to the discussion. Take care.

dingbang:
am tired of finding sef..

They no hard to find.Try Allen.

Wow, I thought they are in it for the money!!!

MhisTahrah:
They no hard to find.Try Allen.

lmao.. I don't stay in lagos

dingbang:
well it depends on how you sell yourself. You tell a guy I am not fvcking you because of these things you buy for me..I am only doing it cuz at this moment, I feel like doing it and you just privileged to be present.

Hian!!!

With majority of the crop of guys we have around now who reason from the back of their heads and with the thing in between their legs.

They'd never understand that. The ones that claim to do will abuse your openness and see you as a free sex machine.

MarieSucre:


I am happy you know that you're the exception not the rule and cannot be used as a template for what we are talking about here hence irrelevant to the discussion. Take care.

that doesnt make you think all guys sees every girl as cheap when it comes to sex

MissJoy29:

Hian!!!

With majority of the crop of guys we have around now who reason from the back of their heads and with the thing in between their legs.

They'd never understand that. The ones that claim to do will abuse your openness and see you as a free sex machine.

lol how many men have you met that abused your openness and saw you as a free sef machine?

dingbang:
that doesnt make you think all guys sees every girl as cheap when it comes to sex

This is not an "all guys think or not". Do you or do you not deny it that this is a majority mentality? Do you or do you not deny it that you have personally witnessed men who call women olosho/ashewo? Did you say this then to your guy friends or are you just saying it to me now?

fuckerstard:
Is it demand? Jejely i dey waka go my own with my money sleeping in my pocket on the the streets of ikeja.. Na him i hear one fine yellow babe telling me, bros carry me go your house now. i go do all kinds of play for you.. Just gimme 10K..

That's demand right there..

With all these cosmetics abi na filter sef, it's hard to conclude

Please, what’s the name of the street?

MrBrownJay1:
as usual, women blaming MEN for prostitution, BWAAAAAAAH!!!

you will never solve the prostituion issue unless you remove the men who pay for it AND the lazy good for nothing women who think it is ok to sell their body for money.

so lets blame them ALL, instead of selfishly just blaming men who pay for sex.

Women who believe they should be rewarded for sex is in the majority...that is the mindsey that drives prostitution...mindsets like "My man must tale care of me since i give him sex"..." his role is to hustle and pay my bills " ....etc

MissJoy29:

True talk. The two parties are to be blamed. It's definitely not ok for a woman to sell her body for money. But it's the height of hypocrisy and double standards for the men who patronise these prostitutes to still call them names and slut-shame them.

Inasmuch as both parties are to be blamed, I think it's up to the men to put a stop to it. If they all agree to stop patronising them (which will NEVER happen), they will go out of business.

teamsynergy:

it's men who always bash ladies and tag them ashewo when we all know it takes two to tango

what insult do you give a man who fukc prostitute?!...

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.... exactly! there are none... but i can certainly understand why men would call goldigging women ashewo.

dingbang:
lmao.. I don't stay in lagos

Try that ashawo thread, STDs are real so be careful.

dingbang:
lol how many men have you met that abused your openness and saw you as a free sex machine?

I can see you want to derail.

I think it’s a two way thing, sure there’s a demand for it from men but at the same time, let’s not act like there aren’t women offering it of their own accord for some type of gain. I’m talking about the women who actually have other options, not the ones who only engage in it as a means of survival.

tunjilana:
Women who believe they should be rewarded for sex is in the majority...that is the mindsey that drives prostitution...mindsets like "My man must tale care of me since i give him sex"..." his role is to hustle and pay my bills " ....etc

no matter how you look at it, you certainly CANNOT solve the issue by removing only ONE party.

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what insult do you give a man who fukc prostitute?!...

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.... exactly! there are none... but i can certainly understand why men would call goldigging women ashewo.

I see. No insult for the men who patronise them huh?

MarieSucre:


This is not an "all guys think or not". Do you or do you not deny it that this is a majority mentality? Do you or do you not deny it that you have personally witnessed men who call women olosho/ashewo? Did you say this then to your guy friends or are you just saying it to me now?

what's the meaning if ashawo? Is it not a woman who collects money for sex? Its her job so its not something she hides from and she shouldn't be offended when called such.

MhisTahrah:
Try that ashawo thread, STDs are real so be careful.

lol.. I don't patronize prostitutes.. Never exchanged money for sex and never will

MissJoy29:

I can see you want to derail.

you tell me..seems you now know the statistics of men that call women olosho

This is so wrong.... if you agree with what she's saying, it doesn't mean you should generalize for ladies.

dingbang:
lol.. I don't patronize prostitutes.. Never exchanged money for sex and never will

I must have misunderstood your post then.My sincere apologies. But what did you mean when you said you were tired of searching?I assumed we were talking about the ashii that upped her game.

dingbang:
So if we demand sex, you must sell your body for a price? Why not say don't worry, its for free, so that we know sex is priceless and we value it.

you still don’t value it when it’s free - you say the woman is loose !

Pataricatering:
you still don’t value it when it’s free - you say the woman is loose !

have you had sex with me that you will now judge what I say?

dingbang:
well it depends on how you sell yourself. You tell a guy I am not fvcking you because of these things you buy for me..I am only doing it cuz at this moment, I feel like doing it and you just privileged to be present.

all that one is story abeg ! Men have made women’s sexuality a prize - she loves sea while he gains - so she might as well monetize it ! She does free - prostitute , she doesn’t do free - prostitute ! Same , same !

Deltayankeeboi:
Lol Coming from you. That sounds nice. Is this you being nice. I am trying to imagine that.

You think I make troubles like you do?

dingbang:
have you had sex with me that you will now judge what I say?

no I haven’t had sex with you - it’s pretty obvious that I was generalizing and not talking about you in particular !

MhisTahrah:
I must have misunderstood your post then.My sincere apologies. But what did you mean when you said you were tired of searching?I assumed we were talking about the ashii that upped her game.

no Naah..I meant a stable girl