*NOTES ON PERSISTENCE

Mandatory “do not rape” warning in here.
99.999625% of the readers here don’t need
this, but if you’re one of the 3 guys who do, if
you’re getting a hard “no” about SEX, while
escalating, then full stop.
If you’re getting a softer “no” about sex while
escalating, you need to proceed more cautiously.
Still work on overcoming resistance, but always
leave an easy out for her to get up and leave
whenever she wants.


Or, if you’re at her place , if she starts
resisting a lot, just ask her, “Do you want me to
leave? I’d like to stay, but if you want me to
go, just tell me, and I will go.” If she says yes,
you can always stand up and start getting
dressed and say, “Are you sure? Because I’m
getting dressed now and if I go we won’t be
together anymore.” Frequently you'll find
yourself grabbed and dragged back down and
you’ll have a much easier time of it after that.


If you have half-descent social intuition about
this, you shouldn’t have much to worry about
(unless you’re in one of those regions where
looking at a woman funny is liable to get you
slapped with a rape accusation... in which case,
it’s time to change locations to somewhere a
little more civilized).


IT’S NOT OVER JUST BECAUSE SHE
SAYS NO!

I mean, it could be.
And there’s a good chance that by the time
she’s saying “no”, you’ve already mucked things
up enough that you won’t be able to turn them
around. If she’s saying no because you
disappointed her already and she’s gone into
auto-rejection , you’ll have a hell of a time
pulling off a reversal.


However, if she’s saying no because she’s still
juggling other concerns (“What about my
friends?”), or she’s more experienced or
otherwise in-control than you are (“I know what
he’s doing... you don’t get to have me just yet,
young pup!”), or likes toying with men (“Let’s
see what he does when I give him the cold
shoulder”), or just wants something different
from what you’re offering (“A late night drink?
Oh please! I thought he was going to tell me we
were going to go back and he was going to make
me shriek my lungs out. Instead, more drinks?
What is he, too scared to be straight with
me?”)... in any of those cases, you’ve
frequently got some options.


Read the situation. Use the option that seems
most suited to it.

And above all, have fun. And make sure that she
has fun, too. Because when she’s having fun, guess what? Right, you guessed it: that’s when all those
vexing “no”s magically melt away



Cc

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Ishilove


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