He's insecure. Despite provin 2 him dat my luv dnt cheat. @ufo. I wil try nd pour hot oil on his face.

Ujujoan:

Have you tried banging his head with a frying pan

u and this ur frying pan sef. did u hit a guy lately?

His urterance is killin d zeal

then dump him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

His urterance is killin d zeal

I don't think he is insecure. He just myt be up to no good.

Is he really your fiancee or are u guys just in a r/ship

Good question.

Hmm! He proposed wit a ring infact we ve started a counseling class 4 intendin couple in my parents church.

^^ How long did you guys date?

Has he always being this way or did he suddenly change?

I wil cal it emotional frequency. He has bin doin it (cheatin nd stufs) but he do ask 4 4givnes nd i always because of d luv. 2yrs rlatnship!!!

Well you should't be complaining then!

I mean you knew all along he was a serial cheat and there's nothing that scares a cheat more than being cheated on. Besides why do you even bother with checking his phone when you know what you'll see?

Since you 'love' him, go ahead and marry him then and deal with it!

Should U choose to go on, Brace urself for more heartaches.

Na wa oh, the things we let these men get away with!

I tot he wil change nt dat i was searchin his phone,i wanted 2 c d pix on his phone

^^^ And what on earth made you think he'll change!

From the first time you 'forgave' him, you gave him the permission to keep doing it and if you guys get married tommorrow and he cheats, makes sure you forgive him oh, or else he'll say you've 'changed'! 

Come to think about it, you fell in love and stayed in love with him just the way he is. Why would you want him to change?

Ur not the first girl to "think he will change." U probably won't be the last.

U did well to have forgiven him but allowing him drag that grace thru the mud over and over again is just wrong.

U ar right av learnt my lesson. Av done som stupid tins dat i shudnt av done 4 som1 lyk him. What a pity on my side!

B4 i find it difficult 2 open my heart 2 odas. Bt nw i tink he has given me a stone heart

Ujujoan:

He's not insecure, just a controlling SOB!

Yeah he wants to call all the shots like being a boss. . .

Gudgurl:

I wil cal it emotional frequency. He has bin doin it (cheatin nd stufs) but he do ask 4 4givnes nd i always because of d luv. 2yrs rlatnship!!!

Sweetie the sad truth is once a cheat is always a cheat. If he cheated on u in the past what makes u think he'll change? Except u want to be a prisoner in ur own house wit him calling all the shots I say dump his cheating ass. He starts wit phone now what will he do when u're married? Then he'll start selecting the people u visit, what to wear, and stuff. . . He might even decide to take ur phone, what would u do then. . .