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Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by columbus007(m): 11:10pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
MrCork:are you thinking of milf? |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Toks2008(m): 11:11pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
xoxo001: Any mother who refuses to discuss why she believes her son or daughter should not marry their choice should shush. 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:11pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
pesinfada: in as much I support your opinion, but not in all case...my best advise to the OP is ask your mum for her reasons. If it's not sentimental and she refuse to... please be careful, you knew your mum more than anyone in this thread |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Badgers14: 11:11pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
LilSfc: Before thinking about breakup... First ask your mother why she is against your relationship and then put 2 and 2 together. I had similar experiences my self, I asked my mom and the response I got was not satisfactory , I proceeded with the marriage, she did come around after a while. As I type this message, she is here in my house talking to my wife and carrying our child just right now at this moment. Always remember this, we all love our mothers but the bottom line is, we are the ones to stay married with our wives/husbands and not them. Cheers! 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:13pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
MissRaine69: SOME PARENTS ARE THE WORST. MANY TIMES, IT PAYS TO DISRESPECT AND REJECT THEIR OPINION FULL-TIME. THAT THEY'RE YOUR PARENTS DOESN'T MEAN THEY'RE SUPERNATURAL, OR WISER THAN THE LITTLE KIDS IN THE NEXT BLOCK. THEY ARE IMPORTANT BECAUSE THEY BROUGHT US UP AND STUFF AND I FEEL THAT IT SHOULD END THERE SOMETIMES. BEING AN ADULT COMES WITH HAVING A MIND OF YOUR OWN, AND YOU MIGHT NEVER TRULY KNOW PROGRESS IF YOU KEEP SUBSCRIBING TO THE IDEAS OF YOUR PARENTS BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE THEY'RE SPECIAL AND THEIR OPINIONS ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Akpacha(m): 11:13pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
LilSfc:pikin go and concentrate on ur study pls, or u are managing chicken feed salary some where? Pls go get better paying job, get home of ur own. Then ur mum wouldn't tell u whom to marry or not. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Listen to your mum if you have to, but make sure she tells you why she doesn't want you to marry the lady. That way, she won't have this mindset that you'd always do what she says. Those in love don't see some of the flaws in their prospective spouses, others do. If it happens in the future, who will you run to? Your mum, not the nairalanders calling you mummy's boy. At times, we may think we know it all, but those older people have gone through life and knows what's best for us. Go talk with your mum, not nairalanders. 10 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Chinedumsimpero(m): 11:16pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Try to make ur mum love her... Do everything possible.. Talk to ur sisters Tell Dem everything Dey will help Take d girl to ur mum place if the girl can endure ur mum character towards her If she can b kind to ur mum Let d girl be very close to ur sisters and brothers Marry her but if not, d girl will decide Mum is still d first sha |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:17pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: I pray you are not mislead, I guess you should be in your early 20's or just left teenage to sound this way. Guess you don't know what foresight means and value the wealth of experience. Never cast out ideas of the elders 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Chinedumsimpero(m): 11:18pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Most marriage without mum happiness about it doesn't last or have less peace inside it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:18pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1:NOTHING REASONABLE I'M SURE. MOST TIMES, MOTHERS ARE JUST JEALOUS AND UNHAPPY THAT THEIR BELOVED SON IS GONNA LOVE AND PLACE THIS NEW WOMAN ABOVE THEM. YOU KNOW, WOMEN PROBLEMS. SOMETIMES THEY'D BE PRAYING YOUR MARRIAGE FAILS SO THEY CAN SAY "I TOLD YOU SO". THAT'S WHY MANY LADIES HAVE ISSUES WITH MOTHER-IN-LAWS BECAUSE OF UNNECESSARY HATRED AND ANGER. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by MissRaine69(f): 11:19pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1:Evil is human Not for legged or 6 legged Horrible atrocities happened and continue to happen all in the hands of men ...where is God’s superiority then? |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Chinedumsimpero(m): 11:20pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
I love you u dear kimbraa: |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Pitokwe(m): 11:21pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
LilSfc: You are very stupid for coming here to seek for a useless advice.You have fuckedd the girl and want to drop her and you trying to tie it on your mother.Give your mother one thousand reason why u love her. All this childish young men need to grow up.Is it your mother that will stay with her? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:22pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: Well we have experience different sphere of life, I knew my mum she's not like this she's always happy and positive. I won't judge you for your perspective, but don't judge all mother with this perspective. That why I said the OP knew his mum more than me and you. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by tempest01(m): 11:24pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
MissRaine69: MissRaine in being free you wander into the unknown 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by tonio2wo: 11:25pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
LilSfc: I already have a bad impression about you. Anyhow u want to do it, do! She will still feel hurt. It shows u never loved her cos if u do, u will make ur mum see from ur own perspective. And dont forget to marry ur mom when its don! |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:25pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1: SO BECAUSE THEY'RE ELDERS THEY MUST BE WISE? STUPID TALK. YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT 20'S SO I'M SURE YOU'RE ONE OF THOSE FOOLS THAT BELIEVE THEY'RE THE WISEST IN THE LAND BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE. I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU UP TO MAN, MANY TIMES ADVICE FROM FRIENDS AND EVEN YOUNGER RELATIVES PAID MORE THAN THAT OF OLDER PEOPLE WITH THEIR ARCHAIC MENTALITY. THE OLD PEOPLE IN MY FAM BELIEVE YOU DARE NOT MARRY OUTSIDE THE LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREA. IS THAT SOME SHĮT I SHOULD SUBSCRIBE TO BECAUSE THEY'RE OLDER AND "WISE" ? THESE PEOPLE THINK I MUST MARRY A ROMAN CATHOLIC... TELL ME WHY I SHOULDN'T DISRESPECT THEM WHEN I'M NOT EVEN RELIGIOUS. THE EARLIER YOU DEVELOP A MIND OF YOUR OWN, THE BETTER FOR YOU. 8 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:26pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
MissRaine69: My dear, I pray God open the eyes of your heart to see beyond this physical. The spiritual rules the physical that what I'm driving at, and this knowledge is too complex for the ....... |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:29pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: I didn't even point at being wise, Yoruba adage says "a child is wise an adult is wise, that how we build Ile-Ife" if you are familiar to that adage. But don't underestimate the wealth of experience my dear. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by MissRaine69(f): 11:30pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
tempest01:Knowledge is freedom |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by MissRaine69(f): 11:30pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1:Save your prayers. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by jaxxy(m): 11:31pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
LilSfc: I believe parents are wiseor full of wisdom bt not all the time because they are human also. Now ur mum doesn't aprove fine bt did she give u an explanation for dat? I want to believe ur mum saw smtn ure not seeing bt she needs to explain it to u so u can learn or know if it a valid enough reason to end the relationship. However if ur mum has all the say in ur relationship asin mama's boy(no disrespect) kindly let her know dat even tho u care and want the relationship ur mum doesn't seem approve of it and u can't possibly go against her wishes. She has to move on. If she over reacts to then ur mum was probably rite. Ps: i wud like to add to a large extent u don't seem to be sure or knowledgeable enough to of what u want or else u won't change ur mind without a cogent reason. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:32pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1: SORRY BUT YOUR GOD SHOULD OPEN THE EYES OF THE BLIND AND STRAIGHTEN THE LIMBS OF THE CRIPPLED.. I'M FINE. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:32pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: That same reason I'm not judging you, your perspective of life is way different because of your experience. They might lack insight in that part of life but not in all. That why we are grown ups and being able to analyse too. |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by teelord1(m): 11:34pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: He has been doing that for ages. If you faith you can move mountains. Do you support Raine also? There is nothing like spiritual realm... |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 11:35pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
Your mum should never chose for you. If her mother in-law has done this to her through your dad how will she feel? Act like a man ask her questions... Make her know you are a man and not a boy |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by CAPSLOCKED: 11:37pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
teelord1: THE FAITH OF ALL BELIEVERS ON EARTH PUT TOGETHER CAN'T MOVE A GRAIN OF SAND. BUT AN ANT CAN. PLEASE DON'T INVOLVE ME IN YOUR RELIGIOUS NONSENSE CUS I'M NOT A BELIEVER. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Jeferious: 11:38pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
kimbraa:You're the only one here who made sense. The rest are too slow, while thinking they've got brains. I can fight wars anywhere, but not near my home, not to talk of within my own family. It's stupid to start a quarrel with whom you have known from your birth because of someone you met days or months ago. It shows that something vital is missing in the cranium. I understand why the girls are bashing him. They are a selfish lot and would want to mark their territory at the expense of anyone or anything. It is the men that I don't understand. I no go quarrel my enemy over woman, let alone my own mother. Though I must admit that the op's mum owe him some detailed explanation 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
I’m about to report you to the mods now for calling different people b!tch MrCork: |
Re: How Can I Peacefully End A Relationship My Mother Does Not Support? by tempest01(m): 11:39pm On Jul 27, 2018 |
MissRaine69: knowledge is deep...you can never be totally free then |
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