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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by cvibe2: 3:13pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Another one confused by flash on instagram. Married for glitters now realising all that glitters is not Gold. I can bet that all the attention she is getting by random men on social media is affecting her focus. I stand to be corrected. Sweetmelanin have you called your husband aside to discuss this issue you brought up? 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by saajus: 3:16pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
It's because most women are not emotional stable. Even the so called strong women in the society. That's why the first mission of a husband is to make his woman emotionally strong. Unfortunately, we have some weak men nowadays; men of nowadays are the one asking their wives to change their look, color, size, etc. I wish they know how emotional damaging those demands are. There are many ladies that want to get married but most of them are not ready for it. Even if you marry Prince Charming, who told you he won't has potbelly, bald hair at a particular time of the marriage. Cine: |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by ademoladeji(m): 3:16pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
BeeBeeOoh: Baddest on point!!! Miss u bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bennymark(m): 3:17pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: It's a good reason, I pray it gets better, marriage is all just a scam, I am about getting married, and I understand very much it's just for procreation, because the lady never makes me happy (she is a good person though) 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Cine(m): 3:19pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Daeylar: That's what built our civilisation. 1) It's not that women chose to stay it's that they had no choice. The same went for men. They were shamed to stay in marriages that they no longer wanted to be in. That's how generations of children are raised. Not all homes were bad. 2) Not all domestic violence were perpetrated by men. It's a fact that most domestic violence is actually committed by women. Spitting, slapping, temper tantrums, throwing things, not to speak of emotional abuse. It's just that men are much stronger than women. So when they do it everyone talks about it. Can you imagine a man going to the police because his wife slapped him. 3) Happiness happiness happiness. Women will never be happy. The biggest problems with marriages the world over are a womans happiness. Women are happy for all but 2 minutes and then theyre unhappy again. #happy is literally on every other female insta post. All women want is happiness but they don't realise they'll never ever find it. 8 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by TechGod(m): 3:22pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
As a young single guy, you will just be living your life having fun, and these confused girls will come and be forming love, they will make you lose contact with all your female friends and finally after marrying them and trying your best to provide for all their financial needs and at same time be a good husband to them, they will bring their lazy ass online and start talking about passion and how unhappy they are... May God forgive you people, what a heartless being... 10 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by linqzs: 3:28pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Guitarlife: Must you suffer because your mother suffered? Get sense na 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by pocohantas(f): 3:32pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
dominique: 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 3:38pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
ademoladeji:Miss u2 padi mi, u come leave ground komot nah Hope life is treating u good? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: It is natural to feel that way. Marriage does not exist in nature. It is a human construct to maintain order. Naturally you are supposed to move on, but now he 'owns' you, cos he paid the bride 'price'. As arrogant as that statement might sound it is the sad truth. Changing your name after marriage is called Change of Title, like when you buy something from another. The purchase price is called Bride Price. So you are his property. That is how sad it is. His children belong to him, cos he owns you, that is why the kids take his name, so please stay. In nature animals fucck who they love, and when the love is over, they move on, and find new mates to fucck. I am married too, but if I was not married now, I would have scored baby mama and keep my sex life and happiness active with women I love and when I dont love again I pay off. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Benny93: 3:43pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:... knowledge is power, how can you handle a problem when you don't know or understand the root of dat problem. see my dear, seek for knowledge on the aforementioned situation. it is written were know council my pple fall but were there is multitude of councilors there is safety. jst buy books of anointed men of God that relates to ur plight n also go for counseling...there is always a solution to every problem. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by emonkey(m): 3:46pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
What are you waiting for ? Divorce him now and I assure you that you don't yet know the meaning of unhappiness. Foolish girl. Better discuss the matter with him and take yourselves on a second honeymoon to a romantic place. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by yhusiee(f): 3:55pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Did you attend some sort of marriage course before marriage? Do you try to put your selfish interests aside and focus on him? Finally and again, I ask, HOW OLD ARE YOU? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by sweetmelanin(f): 3:59pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
coolcatty: We are new in marriage. Would love to have children but poor sex life is a hindrance. And NO i am not cheating. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by sweetmelanin(f): 4:02pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
boiz2men: I have NEVER cheated and have no intention of doing so. I would rather walk away than have an affair. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by OBAGADAFFI: 4:04pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: I think you should meet a marriage councillor. Filling for divorce isn't easy . Except you want to remain single after separation, the probability of finding happiness in another marriage is slim. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by obyno5(m): 4:07pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Happiness brings fulfilment...but happiness is temporal because it depends on circumstances around us. Joy is permanent and reflects happiness. Your husband cannot give you joy because it's beyond him. Marriage is a commitment based on love. Commitment to those vows you willingly made at the alter to your husband. Find love and happiness will follow you. Guess you already know the source of love...! 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Toks2008(m): 4:08pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: Build the passion. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:how old are you ? does he have small penis ? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
I wish i studied law especially divorce law, I would profit from the likes of you. As long as there's unhappiness in marriages esp in cases like yours my pay cheque is secured. Then again though your statement got me shooked "fondness" for love, these days i feel nothing for anyone, anyway wish you all the best if there's no kids you can leave if you want as long as you can face societal backlash but the question is how do you fix this issue so that it doesn't become a re-occurring thing in future relationships. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
dingbang: So are you! You have a problem. She has a problem that's why she created a thread asking for solution. You don't need to tell her she has a problem. she knows! Your problem is not knowing that is the reason the thread was created. I have a problem too! What concerns me? nothing really concerns me in your matter. Am I the one you were referring to? No So, what is my own in your matter? I really don't know. its called Ameboism! We all have problems! Some ppls own is reading my comment and laughing and Shaking their Heads, spoiling their mouths for me. What concerns them? I don't know either. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by spiritedtete: 4:27pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by spiritedtete: 4:31pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: Aunty look here Forget those fairy tale marriages.... it's get boring as time goes on... however... after another 20 25 years... you will be glad you married your so called brother. If you are looking for fulfilment in marriage then you are in the wrong place. What makes you happy is you become the person you have always wanted to be. Marriage or no marriage. And yes if it is sex that is the problem.... you can talk and walk your hubby on it... but believe me most marriages loses its sex drive after two years... Then maybe after find away to reconnect. Maybe 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Amberon11: 4:37pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Who knows her personally here? Some of you though. dotcomnamename: |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by eterisan(m): 4:38pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
tamethem: Funny dude. My kind of guy. Even me I have a problem. Just imagining how this babe go nights in same house with her husband that spent so much for them to marry and they don't Bleep. Her details are sketchy. She should elucidate. Why is she no longer aroused by him? Does he perform well if eventually they try? What turns her on? Is sex a priority for her at all? If no why did she marry? If yes why ain't she getting it? Well what's my own. God forbid say I marry this kind of woman. Let me come and be going. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by abdullkabar(m): 4:40pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sorry if I will offend anybody I wonder whenever I see topics like this,do you know at a time he got tired of you? he might presently even be but he married you Marriage is for life(somehow),you see him everyday and him you,granted will be taken,tired you will. Its a normal thing to everybody probably he is too available to you,and if he doesn't,I bet the topic here would have been a different one We are beginning to lost it,even to our children 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by boiz2men(m): 4:41pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: I'm so sorry but your story is hard to believe. How do you just stop loving your spouse just like that? Is this guy rich? Are you from a not so OK (financially) home? Do you now have a business or a job unlike before you married? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by caprini1: 4:43pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:Have you tried watching x rated movies together? 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by AgentGoat: 4:44pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
There is something you are not telling us 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by abdullkabar(m): 4:44pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
sorry if I will offend anybody I wonder whenever I see topics like this,do you know at a time he got tired of you? he might presently even be but he married you Marriage is for life(somehow),you see him everyday and him you,granted will be taken,tired you will. Its a normal thing to everybody probably he is too available to you,and if he doesn't,I bet the topic here would have been a different one We are beginning to lost it,even to our children or maybe the drama is out,you need a bit of drama,fight,quarells,hate..I no say mk una kill una self oo,but all this things are reality of life,and once you try to remove them by forming carefully love,you kill the real reality my tenet tho,what do I know |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by DCLXV1(m): 4:48pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
Best thing ive ever read online in recent times! Thumbs up bro. [qquote author=oglalasioux post=69177957]How did you get into such union in the first place? To escape poverty? To be at par with your mates? To smite an ex? Marriage has always been for the wrong reasons since Adam. No marriage has ever been successful; except those governed by religion and stone age cultures and tradition.[/quote] 1 Like |
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