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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 5:57am On Jul 09, 2018 |
This thread is the result of having numerous boyfriends before one finally decides to settle. Mtscheww... 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by ireneidiva(f): 6:36am On Jul 09, 2018 |
dotcomnamename:Family privacy? Do you know her or her husband? 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by cococandy(f): 7:06am On Jul 09, 2018 |
The only sensible post on this thread Edited. Okay there were more mature posts after yours bukatyne: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 7:55am On Jul 09, 2018 |
JellyBean190:all these retired runs girls.... The poor man is somewhere slaving away to bring in food for his family not knowing the person he paid bride price on is scheming to divorce him based on some kinky desires . So divorce is this cheap , I can bet my July salary that the poster grew up in Lagos. There is something fundamentally wrong with the mindset of most young ladies raised in Lagos. Because thier parents are always away due to demands of work and traffic I have realised that most ladies raised in Lagos lack the adequate grooming to make good wives and most dont even understand the role of wife and mother. I am saying exactly what I have realised and noticed and if you grew up in Lagos dont argue with me because you can probably not realise this deficiency, I'd like someone raised somewhere else disprove me. Goodluck to our young men. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by rapheal5(m): 10:29am On Jul 09, 2018 |
D tin is u can never satisfy a woman what else do u want some ladies be like what my husband want is sex whenever his around isn't friendly or jovial I don't get happiness in my marriage now you have everything that makes u happy in a man u married to but still complaining about not been sexually attracted to him.. U only have 2 problem either u don't feel sex with him like ur ex or u just discover u re older than him...but u can bet it u will come back beg him if u choose to move in with another man to satisfy ur sex urge Cuz man ain't d same u will get what u want from another man but u won't find happiness... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Preciouzword: 11:56am On Jul 09, 2018 |
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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by dokkyelele(f): 12:27pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
sweetmelanin: Then be the one to create it. Be the passion Be the lover Be the one to love Make it work Make it happen The internet is there......get tips Get style and new skills to have sec Just do it...... Kiss him Romance him Off his cloths Lick him Suck him Lick him again Suck him again Ride him and Bleep him Morning Day and night Tell him U want him everyday Just make it happen After you have done all these PM me. I have something else personal to share with u only Good luck 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Blonchilli(m): 1:10pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Lirqur:You have sense 1 Like
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Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by declaro(m): 1:13pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Pataricatering: Where on earth will she get happiness from? Happiness can never be complete in a union. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by unmask: 1:39pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Olabimz:so you want her to be unhappy for the rest of her life? There should be a line we draw when we realise that the morally right thing to do might actually seem immoral. I certainly wouldn't want to be in her man's shoes.... I would rather we get divorced |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by shaybebaby(f): 2:27pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:Did you ever chemistry at any point in time? If you did, you need to search yourself and determine what changed. Is he content with a passionless marriage I. E unbothered about the lack of intimacy? How open are you with each other regarding your sexual needs? Do you even know what pleases you sexually? Do you know your body? Do you guys have the same attitudes towards sex? If you are no longer attracted him, what are the things that you find unattractive? It seems you have a lot going for you in this marriage, might be time to think outside the box on the passion thing. You could discuss an open marriage with him. Or find a way to enact your sexual fantasies with him (party, dogging etc, whichever one rocks your boat) My point is if you are the naughty sort of girl, unleash her but include him. And also find out his fantasies. You got your man girl, now go on and be as bad you both want to be TOGETHER. Obviously, if you still can't find a way to be on the same wavelength sexually, then you may have to go your separate ways. Sha don't have kids till things are resolved between you two. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by kushme: 4:01pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Cine: My senior bros, I respect you Sir.. Forgive my language, so fuckin' on point.. Thank you |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 7:38pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
cococandy: I nor dey there o! OP is silent. Hope this is not a stunt thread sha. How are you & family? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Gettreadyy(m): 9:06pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:encourage ur hobby to go to the gym |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Prognose: 9:12pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
sweetmelanin:Take the marriage as a sacrifice dammit. You are happiest when you make others happy dammit. Making yourself happy is selfish. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Prognose: 9:15pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
bukatyne: Hey not bad. Sounds like a lot of work though. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 9:17pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Prognose: In practice it's not. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Prognose: 9:18pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
bukatyne: Are u married? |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 9:21pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Prognose: Why |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Prognose: 9:23pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 9:36pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Prognose: @Bold: Post clearly mine opinion on resolution of her issue; can't be invalidated. @question: yes to marriage and yes to most suggestions especially a mindset of pleasing him and having review sessions. These things can fast become a part to you. The work is not doing them; the work is getting your partner to respond to them. Fortunately/Unfortunately, nobody can change another person. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Prognose: 9:39pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
bukatyne:Well dangit. You're cool. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by cococandy(f): 11:48pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
bukatyne:we are fine dear. Thank you |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 5:10am On Jul 12, 2018 |
shaybebaby: Open marriage is not popular here. Discussing it with a partner might even trigger negative reaction. Yet, its the solution to some of the relationships that are devoid of fulfillment. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 6:33am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Neddyogu: How do you expect them to test the waters before plunging in, when they were practising "no sex before marriage"? People create their own cells around themselves! |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by shaybebaby(f): 6:42am On Jul 12, 2018 |
donjobill:It's not mainstream in most places but yes, we are in agreement. It depends on the mindset of the people involved but as with everything else, comes with its own pitfalls. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 6:56am On Jul 12, 2018 |
shaybebaby: The pitfalls could be considerably narrowed down if both partners are broadminded, honest and truly love each other. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by shaybebaby(f): 6:59am On Jul 12, 2018 |
donjobill:Yup, but realistically how many people can honestly put aside their ego and social conditioning to accept a different form of love? Not many I'm guessing. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 7:02am On Jul 12, 2018 |
shaybebaby: Not many! I concur. Only the open-minded & bold who are few. |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by bukatyne(f): 8:11am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Guitarlife: And somehow the young men who are brothers to these ladies who lack martial grooming due to inadequate parental supervision are good husbands materials ba? If you claim the OP has a twisted mentality of marriage, then you are on the other side of the coin.... One needs to pray hard that one's relatives meet neither of you. Strange how this deficiency doesn't affect ladies brought out in Abuja, P/H etc. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by Nobody: 8:34am On Jul 12, 2018 |
bukatyne:You did not disproove my theory though, lets be objective about this I did not say all I said most and yes I am right. The problem in recent in marriages particularly in our cities lays credence to that fact. You wont argue that more marriages in the cities especially Lagos are wobbling compared to towns. You need to be less emotional about this, the issue of the men is a different issue entirely but believe me a home with a bad husband and a good wife has better chance of surviving compared to a home with a bad wife and a good husband. Women are the home makers, it pains me cos most ladies do not realise this. |
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