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| Pls Advice by Gbemyte(f): 8:56am On Jun 14, 2010 |
Nlanders i nid ur advice, my fiance is keepin bad company. I nid ur advice on hw to tell him to stop visiting his friends "bad wagon" not that they r rogue but they dont av respect 4 ladies. He do slip in one of them' house. Am not comfortable wit it. Thou, av not met them(friends) but base on his gist, wheneva he goes there. his attitude changes emotionally. am not ok wit it. i nid ur advice on hw to discuss it wit him without hurting his feelings. I belif in an adage that says" show me ur friend nd i wil tell u who u ar" |
| Re: Pls Advice by Africanqueen2(f): 9:12am On Jun 14, 2010 |
Hmmm. . . . |
| Re: Pls Advice by 190: 9:18am On Jun 14, 2010 |
OP Simple after a very good meal or s3x Just sit him up and tell him that u are not comfortable with him hanging around his friends, and that if he continues that way u would hit the road give me 48hrs to give u a response~ after which come here back and tell me what happened |
| Re: Pls Advice by Nobody: 9:26am On Jun 14, 2010 |
na wao, every body just need advice for nland  |
| Re: Pls Advice by Gbemyte(f): 9:30am On Jun 14, 2010 |
yes ooooooooo because gud nd bad heads on NL |
| Re: Pls Advice by Gbemyte(f): 9:31am On Jun 14, 2010 |
afrc queen am waitin 4 ur advc |
| Re: Pls Advice by LOVE4BUG(f): 10:02am On Jun 14, 2010 |
African_queen: @African Queen is that you surname? |
| Re: Pls Advice by LOVE4BUG(f): 10:03am On Jun 14, 2010 |
Gbemyte: she's got none |
| Re: Pls Advice by Gbemyte(f): 10:16am On Jun 14, 2010 |
wat abt u @4bug? |
| Re: Pls Advice by tayoast(m): 11:00am On Jun 14, 2010 |
Dialogue. . .Dialogue. . .Dialogue |
| Re: Pls Advice by Africanqueen2(f): 6:41pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
LOVE.4BUG:says who?! Well u have to talk to him POLITELY not COMMANDINGLY. Explain ur fears and give strong and sound points for not associating wit his friends. Remember, they were there before you so u got to tread carefully and wisely. Don't stress it too much and don't argue because of it. Just be cool. . . |
| Re: Pls Advice by Africanqueen2(f): 6:42pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
LOVE.4BUG:says who?! Well u have to talk to him POLITELY not COMMANDINGLY. Explain ur fears and give strong and sound points for not associating wit his friends. Remember, they were there before you so u got to tread carefully and wisely. Don't stress it too much and don't argue because of it. Just be cool. . . |
| Re: Pls Advice by diddysnow: 6:09am On Jun 16, 2010 |
Gbemyte hi there. Well all i can say to this is that you have to be patient because it will take some of your time to convince him about the kind/type of friends he's moving with, you just have to let him realise how dangerous it is moving with bad heads and how that can do to your relationship a harm. Follow this TRIPPLE H system, 1) HONESTY; you have to be honest with your self and with him while handling this matter, be sincere and let know and feel your sincerity. 2) HUMILITY; just be humble at helping him to clear his mind of -ve feelings towards this matter, bring gentleness to his heart. 3) HONOUR; do not talk to him anyhow but with respect so that he will be humble enough to listen attentively to you. ok do not shout athim. WARNING: DO NOT TELL YOUR FRIENDS WHATS GOING ON BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR LOVER BOI AS THIS IN MOST CASES DO NOT HELP SOLVE THE CRACKS IN A RELATIONSHIP, DO NOT TELL HIS GOOD FRIENDS ABOUT HIS MIXING UP WITH BAD HEADS AND DO NOT COMFRONT HIS BAD FRIENDS (THOSE YOU WANT HIM TO STOP MIXING WITH) AS THIS IS NOT POLITE. OK   
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| Re: Pls Advice by james1(m): 6:49am On Jun 16, 2010 |
All his friends cannot be bad company woman:I hope you are not just trying to tear him from friends he probablly knew ever before he met you?if that is the case,then retrace your step,fast;women are notorious for this very bad style of possessing their possessions.if not,lovingly guide him away from the die-hard bad guys,this style works fine with the help of one of his good friends,usually his best. careful,careful.don't forget give us updates here. |
| Re: Pls Advice by puskin: 7:26am On Jun 16, 2010 |
@poster Uv not met his friends and ur already complaining. . . . .my advice is dont conclude anything based on hearsay |
| Re: Pls Advice by Nobody: 7:52am On Jun 16, 2010 |
Anybody want to translate? |
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