NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My cousin met a guy via facebook 2 months ago and they are engaged now. That u flirt doesn't necessarily mean they'd cheat.

XhosaNostra:
I think he overreacted, but then again you can't tell what someone is truly thinking.

I'm also flirtatious like the girl in question, but there're limits. The limits being, I don't take my interactions to a private domain like private messaging etc.

He should have asked to see her inbox if he doesn't believe that she's honest when she says "It's nothing". If you have nothing to hide then doing that won't be an issue imo.

Wilson125:
Are we suppose to believe u have a limit to how u flirt?

MissRaine69:
If the shoe was on the other foot would this girl be fine with it? I highly doubt it. I hate women with double standards. Your friend has freed himself from a life of headaches and drama. The girl is now free to flirt to her heart’s desire 24/7 with no hinderance.

engrrash:
Hello Nairalanders, what's your take? when a girl you are in serious relationship with love flirting with other guys on social media especially Facebook by replying with words like thanks baby, thanks darling, my boo, thanks dearie etc; anytime she uploads pictures and other guys comment on the pictures.

A friend of mine just ended his beautiful relationship just because of the above and I felt he took it too far. He said he tried to talk to the girl that he doesn't find it funny but the girl kept saying it's nothing, that she's just having fun & it is nothing serious.
is it Worth it?

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JUST TO COMMEND YOU FOR ALWAYS TRYING TO BE RATIONAL, HONEST, STRAIGHT UP INTELLIGENT, AND DIFFERENT WHENEVER YOU CAN. IT'S GREAT TO HAVE PEOPLE LIKE YOU AROUND AND I ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD TO READING YOUR POSTS.

XhosaNostra:


I don't care if you believe it or not, you're not my man.

Wilson125:
oh! That’s a reminder... ur man will not even bliv it anyways..

MissRaine69:

Milady
Did you read what was written? How are the two stories comparable .
Two months?
Does he even know her shoe size?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Their wedding will take place in December. Thats enough time to know such details.

XhosaNostra:


Not if I can prove it. A cheat, no matter how slick they think they are, they always show telltale signs.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
My cousin met a guy via facebook 2 months ago and they are engaged now. That u flirt doesn't necessarily mean they'd cheat.

Wilson125:
The only way he can believe such s u nt flirting at all, not putting limit..

XhosaNostra:


Well, some things come naturally, like breathing. Sometimes you're not even aware you're doing it, it's subconscious/ 2nd nature.
But I do try not to get too carried away, but that only happens when I pay special attention to what I say, in the case of someone giving off a creepy vibe or whatever. It's actually quite a task to tame a flirtatious side. You have to measure your words & TBH, that's boring.

Wilson125:
but will you even get jealous or concern if your man should flirt on social media?

XhosaNostra:


Yes, I would. Why? Because like I said, you don't know what someone else is truly thinking while they're doing what they're doing. It's a complex situation because I know I don't get emotionally involved while I flirt. It's something that I have knowledge of. I trust myself. Now trusting another person is a slippery slope that'll require a lie detector test in order for me to be convinced that they're doing it for the same reasons TBH, I wouldn't date a flirt. I know it sounds like double standards but it is what it is.

Wilson125:
Well i just want you to see that it will be hard for your man to believe that, jst like u wud need a lie detector, The fact that you trust yourself can’t make him trust u.. .

XhosaNostra:


True but oh well.

XhosaNostra:
I think he overreacted, but then again you can't tell what someone is truly thinking.

I'm also flirtatious like the girl in question, but there're limits. The limits being, I don't take my interactions to a private domain like private messaging etc.

He should have asked to see her inbox if he doesn't believe that she's honest when she says "It's nothing". If you have nothing to hide then doing that won't be an issue imo.

MissRaine69:
If the shoe was on the other foot would this girl be fine with it? I highly doubt it. I hate women with double standards. Your friend has freed himself from a life of headaches and drama. The girl is now free to flirt to her heart’s desire 24/7 with no hinderance.