firstly she's not d cheating type over our two years relationship course...... well, she tried a distasteful thing by receiving some gifts from a married man, she lied about d source which she confessed d real source 2 months later, dat deceit and cheating for me, well I forgave her after so much begging.....
4 months later she went to another state to write some exams, she started having an affair with her cousin, I got to know by downloading a call recorder app from play store and placing it on the phone she uses to call, there I heard all there conversation, I showed her and she has started begging me dat she swear, dey have only been romancing on four occasions, no sex, well dat true based on the recorded conversation,.....
now she has been crying and begging she won't do it again, and huuhhhh, I deflowered her two years ago and I promise to marry her as an aspiring footballer when things becomes saucy...
Now as a guy how will I get past dat, I can't stand the thought of the nasty shitts i heard from d recorder, just imagine I didn't set it, I would have been a fool, should I give her another chance and forgive her as she don use swearing, begging and cries tire me

You should forgive her, for your own peace. But forgiving doesn't mean accepting. She is pleading with you not because she felt sorry, but because you are Mr nice guy and to make you stop getting angry at her. She will still do it again, I guarantee you that.

to cheat is wrong and to cheat with a blood relative is just sick! Just know that when you finally marry her you should prepare your mind for the day she will tell you that she slept with her brother.

By the way are you that insecure that you are downloading spy apps into her phone? Both of you need help

912:
to cheat is wrong and to cheat with a blood relative is just sick! Just know that when you finally marry her you should prepare your mind for the day she will tell that she slept with her brother.

By the way are you that insecure that you are downloading spy apps into her phone? Both of you need help

U sef see ur double standard

912:
to cheat is wrong and to cheat with a blood relative is just sick! Just know that when you finally marry her you should prepare your mind for the day she will tell that she slept with her brother.

By the way are you that insecure that you are downloading spy apps into her phone? Both of you need help

naaa,i have never done dat b4,i did dat b'cos I noticed d changes in her when she came back, she doesn't come to my place, she pushes me wen I try touching her hair, something she is even d one who would put her head on my lap b4,in fact there was a day I held her in her waist,she pointed fingers in my face to never try it, dat she isn't a prost.itute
I'm like WTF??.... so I downloaded d app den place it on d phone to at least know what up, dat where I knew she's been romancing and dating her cousin, after she knew dat I knew, she started bombarding me with her yansh just so I can forgive her

Babiod:

U sef see ur double standard

where's the double standard, please?

pansophist:
You should forgive her, for your own peace. But forgiving doesn't mean being with her. She is pleading with you not because she felt sorry, but because you are Mr nice guy and to make you stop getting angry at her. She will still do it again, I guarantee you that.

yeah dat my thoughts also, she will repeat it when she is comfortable, imagine, I had a dream about her affair with her cousin, I called her on phone if anything of such is happening, she denied, now see reality now. .she doesn't want forgiveness only,she wants us to come back together

912:


where's the double standard, please?

U commented on the result the spy app brought and yet u were against him using it the first place.

hkidola00:
naaa,i have never done dat b4,i did dat b'cos I noticed d changes in her when she came back, she doesn't come to my place, she pushes me wen I try touching her hair, something she is even d one who would put her head on my lap b4,in fact there was a day I held her in her waist,she pointed fingers in my face to never try it, dat she isn't a prost.itute
I'm like WTF??.... so I downloaded d app den place it on d phone to at least know what up, dat where I knew she's been romancing and dating her cousin, after she knew dat I knew, she started bombarding me with her yansh just so I can forgive her

I do understand that you suspected that she was cheating but I consider the method used in finding out to be quite extreme. I mean going all James Bond 007 on someone's phone seems overboard for me. I would advise that if the suspension is that high then you should just end the relationship before it gets to the point of you becoming a detective

Babiod:

U commented on the result the spy app brought and yet u were against him using it the first place.

yeah, if you know you know. We can't ignore the fact that he has confirmed that she was cheating on him, however, I feel the length he went to prove that she was cheating really wasn't necessary.

Most people won't even consider begging you when they find out that you bugged their phone and you had records of their phone calls. Which I am sure would include even confidential family discussions with their parents and other family members. That's quite extreme if you ask me

912:


I do understand that you suspected that she was cheating but I consider the method used in finding out to be quite extreme. I mean going all James Bond 007 on someone's phone seems overboard for me. I would advise that if the suspension is that high then you should just end the relationship before it gets to the point of you becoming a detective

only those in war can relate how d battle is, only those who crossed d flooding river can relate how hard it was getting to d other side, 912, if a certain tough scenario haven't dawned on you,you wont know what ur capable of..
A girl u have struggled upon, u loved ur whole life turning her back at u all of sudden, u would try any means at ur disposal to fish out what is wrong .

hkidola00:
naaa,i have never done dat b4,i did dat b'cos I noticed d changes in her when she came back, she doesn't come to my place, she pushes me wen I try touching her hair, something she is even d one who would put her head on my lap b4,in fact there was a day I held her in her waist,she pointed fingers in my face to never try it, dat she isn't a prost.itute
I'm like WTF??.... so I downloaded d app den place it on d phone to at least know what up, dat where I knew she's been romancing and dating her cousin, after she knew dat I knew, she started bombarding me with her yansh just so I can forgive her

With all this she has done you are here asking question.
Forgive her cos forgiveness is bae.
But let the dating stop..

Go get yourself a new girl Mr footballer.

hkidola00:
naaa,i have never done dat b4,i did dat b'cos I noticed d changes in her when she came back, she doesn't come to my place, she pushes me wen I try touching her hair, something she is even d one who would put her head on my lap b4,in fact there was a day I held her in her waist,she pointed fingers in my face to never try it, dat she isn't a prost.itute
I'm like WTF??.... so I downloaded d app den place it on d phone to at least know what up, dat where I knew she's been romancing and dating her cousin, after she knew dat I knew, she started bombarding me with her yansh just so I can forgive her

dude if you know whats good for you, you better push and kick her and her stupid fûcking ass the fûck off


any girl that can sleep with or as she puts it, "romance" her cousin, is capable of seducin g your dad and male relatives


forgive her at your own peril

912:


yeah, if you know you know. We can't ignore the fact that he has confirmed that she was cheating on him, however, I feel the length he went to prove that she was cheating really wasn't necessary.

Most people won't even consider begging you when they find out that you bugged their phone and you had records of their phone calls. Which I am sure would include even confidential family discussions with their parents and other family members. That's quite extreme if you ask me

There are certain things he noticed before doing that.tho am not in support of that too o.we shouldn't blame him,ladies are so complicated.hope u know she would have slept with her cousin neat with the guy not knowing anything or don do am sef.buh is the girl mad ni? ur cousin fa.

samysmoothfresh:



dude if you know whats good for you, you better push and kick her and her stupid fûcking ass the fûck off


any girl that can sleep with or as she puts it, "romance" her cousin, is capable of seducin g your dad and male relatives


forgive her at your own peril

yeah Mr Sammy, exactly my thoughts, yeah.
but ur first statements are funny

Babiod:

There are certain things he noticed before doing that.tho am not in support of that too o.we shouldn't blame him,ladies are so complicated.hope u know she would have slept with her cousin neat with the guy not knowing anything or don do am sef.buh is the girl mad ni? ur cousin fa.

nice one Babiod, she would still go on to sleep with d guy neat I'm d not too distant future if I hadn't known anything cos she will travel again

How many times does a man have to be a fool before he realises he is a fool?
Move on from this focus on your career and when that money comes rolling in she will be on IG/twitter telling that whole world she used to give you money but now you have abandoned her.
Find an all weather woman who has a career and is going somewhere what’s wrong with some of you men?

hkidola00:
firstly she's not d cheating type over our two years relationship course...... well, she tried a distasteful thing by receiving some gifts from a married man, she lied about d source which she confessed d real source 2 months later, dat deceit and cheating for me, well I forgave her after so much begging.....
4 months later she went to another state to write some exams, she started having an affair with her cousin, I got to know by downloading a call recorder app from play store and placing it on the phone she uses to call, there I heard all there conversation, I showed her and she has started begging me dat she swear, dey have only been romancing on four occasions, no sex, well dat true based on the recorded conversation,.....
now she has been crying and begging she won't do it again, and huuhhhh, I deflowered her two years ago and I promise to marry her as an aspiring footballer when things becomes saucy...
Now as a guy how will I get past dat, I can't stand the thought of the nasty shitts i heard from d recorder, just imagine I didn't set it, I would have been a fool, should I give her another chance and forgive her as she don use swearing, begging and cries tire me

You are stupid to have promised marriage because you defiled her Face the consequence

no doubt what she did was wrong but what happened to forgiveness.

MissRaine69:
How many times does a man have to be a fool before he realises he is a fool?
Move on from this focus on your career and when that money comes rolling in she will be on IG/twitter telling that whole world she used to give you money but now you have abandoned her.
Find an all weather woman who has a career and is going somewhere what’s wrong with some of you men?

its naturally not in a man's DNA to act stupid and fall a fool for something more than "twice"


so i'm guessing these guys get hypnotize or it has something to do with them spiritual powers


i maybe wrong though...........................


you a lady so you prolly should know what you ladies do to these guys to change their "DNA"


so tell me

Anything cheating should be red card

I don't even know what to advise you

hkidola00:
firstly she's not d cheating type over our two years relationship course...... well, she tried a distasteful thing by receiving some gifts from a married man, she lied about d source which she confessed d real source 2 months later, dat deceit and cheating for me, well I forgave her after so much begging.....
4 months later she went to another state to write some exams, she started having an affair with her cousin, I got to know by downloading a call recorder app from play store and placing it on the phone she uses to call, there I heard all there conversation, I showed her and she has started begging me dat she swear, dey have only been romancing on four occasions, no sex, well dat true based on the recorded conversation,.....
now she has been crying and begging she won't do it again, and huuhhhh, I deflowered her two years ago and I promise to marry her as an aspiring footballer when things becomes saucy...
Now as a guy how will I get past dat, I can't stand the thought of the nasty shitts i heard from d recorder, just imagine I didn't set it, I would have been a fool, should I give her another chance and forgive her as she don use swearing, begging and cries tire me

pls what is the name of the app, how does it work, will it work secretly on the device?

Sir why are you wasting time

Trust me she might have slept with another man but she still loves you

Sometimes we just want to try out a different guy lol and it’s our little wild fun

nuelyoyo:
pls what is the name of the app, how does it work, will it work secretly on the device?

the name is call recorder, u can google it or check it on play store, it has a red background and a green phone icon. when u download it, go to d app to switch off d notification so it won't alert her when she is calling

Wilfredpat22:
Sir why are you wasting time

Trust me she might have slept with another man but she still loves you

Sometimes we just want to try out a different guy lol and it’s our little wild fun

yeah,but she swear she hasn't slept with any guy,i believe her through her act,if she just tried out her cousin, dat another thing ur saying, but she started dating him while deceiving me, but are u saying I should accept her back?

hkidola00:
the name is call recorder, u can google it or check it on play store, it has a red background and a green phone icon. when u download it, go to d app to switch off d notification so it won't alert her when she is calling

but won't the app icon show on her phone?

Wilfredpat22:
Sir why are you wasting time

Trust me she might have slept with another man but she still loves you

Sometimes we just want to try out a different guy lol and it’s our little wild fun

Try me

nuelyoyo:
but won't the app icon show on her phone?

Dis is what I did, on the home screen, u will just drag d app under a folder where there are other apps so she won't notice, u will only have to do dis only at d time u noticed she might be cheating.perfect bait!

hkidola00:
Dis is what I did, on the home screen, u will just drag d app under a folder where there are other apps so she won't notice, u will only have to do dis only at d time u noticed she might be cheating.perfect bait!

ok, and the file will be saved in the regular file folders I guess?
Don't mind my questions, its just that my girl is also smart with fones, I wish I can get an app that will just be on ghost mode.