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Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 10:26am On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:
Well we didn't hear the man's part of the story
Only u and ur sister
So we need the man's part
Then we will know the truth
As for stabbing the man by the sister
We still don't know the truth if the man was beating them both as she claimed
So its a one sided story cool
Women are not to be trusted when they spin a story
what is dis one saying? which part? Such a demonic man like d@, don't u narcissistic abusers such as d man has demonic traits, always playing d victim in front of people 2 gain their sympathy; while in fact they re d abusers?
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Ziggylady(f): 10:26am On Aug 02, 2018
allcomage:
Loan lesson no.1 in Nigeria. People hardly keep their financial promises these days. Don't be emotional no matter who is involved, unless you want to write it off later if not, collect colerteral far above what you want to lend out. If you don't take these measures you can be killed on your money. This generation of nigeria is very wicked.



In Nigeria,there are two things you shouldnt do..

1)borrow people money expecting them to payback
2)Take a loan for ANYONE


I only borrow my colleagues money cos i can easily get it back when salaries are payed.Even at that,it is just one or two i do that for...If you ask me to 'borrow you 20,000Naira for instance,i will simply 'dash' you 3,000 or 4,000 and tell you not to bother paying me back because the average Nigeran means 'dash' with no intention of paying back when they say 'borrow'..I learnt the hard way and will never fall victim again.

As for loan,i wont even take up a loan for my husband except i have the means and is willing to pay it back unilaterally,because most men WILL NOT PAY BACK THE LOAN,thereby getting their spouses in trouble and causing marital distress..better to be safe than sorry.

No sane person takes up a loan for another,no matter who the person is.

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Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 10:32am On Aug 02, 2018
newdawn2017:
what is dis one saying? which part? Such a demonic man like d@, don't u narcissistic abusers such as d man has demonic traits, always playing d victim in front of people 2 gain their sympathy; while in fact they re d abusers?

Smh
As long as we don't support u witches we are abusers grin grin
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Martin0(m): 11:05am On Aug 02, 2018
Daeylar:

Sure. smiley
OK, been a long time, I want us to get back together.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Daeylar(f): 11:11am On Aug 02, 2018
Martin0:

OK, been a long time,
Yeah smiley
I want us to get back together.
Hiaaannn shocked get back together kwa? Ayam not understanding grin
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Martin0(m): 11:20am On Aug 02, 2018
Daeylar:
Yeah smiley
Hiaaannn shocked get back together kwa? Ayam not understanding grin
Don't sound 18 to me please!
And don't feel shy to speak, nobody will arrest you here!
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Daeylar(f): 11:39am On Aug 02, 2018
Martin0:


Don't sound 18 to me please!

And don't feel shy to speak, nobody will arrest you here!
What

Anyways
Don't get snippy with me!
Don't

Keep that attitude to the side if you give me a mentioñ next time kiss
Bye kiss
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by Martin0(m): 11:49am On Aug 02, 2018
Daeylar:
What
Anyways Don't get snippy with me! Don't
I'm not! And never will be!
Keep that attitude to the side if you give me a mentioñ next time kiss Bye kiss
ummmm OK ma'am!
permission to use offline!
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Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by diamondvil(f): 11:51am On Aug 02, 2018
oluwamile:
if only the dead can talk�
did anybody die in dt story? read well before commenting.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by oluwamile(m): 12:35pm On Aug 02, 2018
diamondvil:
did anybody die in dt story? read well before commenting.
and who says i dnt knw,cnt i write wateva i like again?
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by oluwamile(m): 12:37pm On Aug 02, 2018
nazablossom:
Attempted murder oga, pay attention to details undecided
and who says i dnt knw,cnt i write wateva i like again?
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by MummyTehillah(f): 12:45pm On Aug 02, 2018
sulakishop:
Use him for money ritual and pay back, thank me later

You are hash.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by sulakishop(m): 1:20pm On Aug 02, 2018
What about the husband?

MummyTehillah:


You are hash.

Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 4:22pm On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:


Smh
As long as we don't support u witches we are abusers grin grin
Alert! Gaslighting narcissistic abuser spotted, Ladies steer clear.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 5:02pm On Aug 02, 2018
[quote author=newdawn2017 post=69926335] Alert! Gaslighting narcissistic abuser spotted, Ladies steer clear. [/quote
Stupid air head
So after making the alert u think I am looking for ur sorry ass girls on nairaland
Go change ur pad angry
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 5:03pm On Aug 02, 2018
newdawn2017:
Alert! Gaslighting narcissistic abuser spotted, Ladies steer clear.


So after making the alert u think I am looking for ur sorry ass girls on nairaland
Go change ur pad angry
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 5:06pm On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:



So after making the alert u think I am looking for ur sorry ass girls on nairaland
Go change ur pad angry
I don't use pads.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 5:07pm On Aug 02, 2018
newdawn2017:
I don't use pads.

Then u must be using rags or tissue tongue
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 5:09pm On Aug 02, 2018
[quote author=tiredoflife post=69927639][/quote]U'll never be anything more than gaslighting narcissistic abuser d@ u re. I pity any woman d@ will be stupid enough 2 come in2 an intimate relationship with u. I well knw ur sisters & mom re in trouble due 2 dis personality of urs
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 5:12pm On Aug 02, 2018
newdawn2017:
U'll never be anything more than gaslighting narcissistic abuser d@ u re. I pity any woman d@ will be stupid enough 2 come in2 an intimate relationship with u. I well knw ur sisters & mom re in trouble due 2 dis personality of urs


Smh go change ur pant.
Its dirty angry
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 5:39pm On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:


Smh go change ur pant. Its dirty angry
i am not wearing a pant right now.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 5:40pm On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:


Then u must be using rags or tissue tongue
nope! I really see u re tired of life, die then! go right ahead, common, go on 2 death.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 7:01pm On Aug 02, 2018
newdawn2017:
i am not wearing a pant right now.

Can I see
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 10:51pm On Aug 02, 2018
tiredoflife:

Can I see
Come & see it then lol! tongue
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 8:35am On Aug 03, 2018
newdawn2017:
Come & see it then lol! tongue

Just pull the pant down small na abeg
I will just rob it on top
I won't enter grin grin

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Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by frozen70(f): 9:57am On Aug 03, 2018
If the wife can take a loan of that huge amount for her husband

How come they leave in Lekki and how do they pay their rent, is it that when the rent expires they collect loan to pay for it

Why not relocate to a lesser area of rent payment and use the excess to sort themselves out
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 5:20pm On Aug 03, 2018
tiredoflife:


Just pull the pant down small na abeg
I will just rob it on top
I won't enter grin grin
kwakwakwakwakwa... losl abeg nor kih me with laugh. I remeber dis method guys use 2 bleep a girl back in my growing up years. But u knw my dear, matured men still use dis childish juvenile method uptill now o! 2 me d method is revoltingly disgusting, I see such men as not mature & not man enough.
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 6:42pm On Aug 03, 2018
newdawn2017:
kwakwakwakwakwa... losl abeg nor kih me with laugh. I remeber dis method guys use 2 bleep a girl back in my growing up years. But u knw my dear, matured men still use dis childish juvenile method uptill now o! 2 me d method is revoltingly disgusting, I see such men as not mature & not man enough.

Hahahaha it still works oh trust me
In the heat of the moment wen the guy don suck Bobbi
And d gal too dey in the mood
So it doesn't work for u na because u never enter gear
Seems I like u already
Do we move to WhatsApp
I won't mind kiss
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by newdawn2017(f): 9:49pm On Aug 03, 2018
tiredoflife:


Hahahaha it still works oh trust me
In the heat of the moment wen the guy don suck Bobbi
And d gal too dey in the mood
So it doesn't work for u na because u never enter gear
Seems I like u already
Do we move to WhatsApp
I won't mind kiss
lol, how do we go abt it here? everyone will see my number .Good eve dear & how re u?
Re: My Husband Has Refused To Pay Back A N5m Loan I Got For Him – Wife by tiredoflife(m): 5:34am On Aug 04, 2018
newdawn2017:
lol, how do we go abt it here? everyone will see my number .Good eve dear & how re u?

I am fine
Dear
This is my number 08066482808

Send me a message on WhatsApp
Be glad to have u as a friend beyond nl

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