Pls house advise this lady asap. Pls let's know your thoughts. She needs advice so I decided to share her story here. Pls advice her.

Here is the summary of her story:

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My ex boyfriend wants to marry me but the problem is that he is already married with children to another woman. We dated for over seven years and later broke up. Along the line, he got married after we broke up, to another woman and has kids.

We met again after some years and reconnected our feelings again for each other. He now told me he still loved me and wants to marry me. So I'm now confused and don't know what to do.

Do I go ahead and marry him as his second wife? He has assured me his wife will not interfere with me. And he told me that I will not regret the decision. His is Christian, I'm Christian too. And he is really serious about this. What do I do now because I'm really confused.

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Mtcheew

Have you asked yourself why he's always picking you as "Option B"??

When you do, you will know what to do?

do you really want to be a second wife?

Do not meddle with that man ; have nothing to do with him lest you be found in adultery .

yesterday I saw a statement that "Nigerian women are smart, they just act dumb in other not to be seen as proud "

lilmax:
yesterday I saw a statement that "Nigerian women are smart, they just act dumb in other not to be seen as proud "

How?

Ask his wife for permission!

From experience: Cheating is sweet, but once he settles with you as the 2nd wife, that excitement vanish and he is out again looking for the 3rd.

A word is enuf...

What do mean by interfere? Are you really in love with this guy or are you desperate. There is nothing wrong in being a second wife but just think it through.

Your uburu is dead, onwuru awun piiiii....

Haunty, go ahead and marry him so you can transform your fornication into adultery.
Yimu.

so the guy want break free from the prison of Monogamy?

it's really up to you, I've seen many people from polygamous family and the wives are okay with each other. in fact I know a man who has two wives and the reason why he married the second was the idea of his first wife, she insisted and now their living happily with her second. for over fifteen years now.

but in your case you are a Christian and you didn't come from polygamous family, so if you marry him you might get problem from your family and believe me you don't want to be in a situation where by you are trying to build a family of your own and the family you came from are not in support of it. if will definitely affect your children if your family are not in support, I promise you that.

MajorJeffery:
Haunty, go ahead and marry him so you can transform your fornication into adultery.
Yimu.

Savage

She should better leave another woman 's husband. As for the man, he wants to eat his cake and have it. Oniranu gbogbo

Untill another of yuh ex springs up,n asks u to be his third wife,seems u only have second hand value...

So is the world running out of men that u wanna share a man or youre just too old and ugly to get a man of your own.

Someone wasted 7 solid years of your life, eventually got married to another woman within a very short while I'm sure, now comes back to you with sugar coated mouth and you are even thinking about bn a second option.... Like seriously You should present yourself to your church for proper deliverance..... I'm shocked you gave him audience in the first place

Second wifey things

Wetin all of una dey talk self?we are Africans hereby allowed 2 marry even 10.And mind u even 4 bible I neva c 1 man 1 wife.

.Marriage will soon open this one eye !!

Agboki:
Wetin all of una dey talk self?we are Africans hereby allowed 2 marry even 10.And mind u even 4 bible I neva c 1 man 1 wife.

So being second wife is not a bad thing abi?

myners007:
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What kind of comment is this? If u don't know what to say why can't u shut up. So childish of u

lilmax:
yesterday I saw a statement that "Nigerian women are smart, they just act dumb in other not to be seen as proud "

So what makes you think Nig women are not smart??

If he loves u and u loves him, marry him. Husbands are very limited.

If he loves u and u love him pls marry him husbands are very limited

milemimi93:
If he loves u and u love him pls marry him husbands are very limited

Men are scarce abi? Hmm, hm

Seal33:


Men are scarce abi? Hmm, hm

yeah! Very very scarce.

Some ladies' destiny husbands are at the warfront some are doin life behind bars.

Women are more than men.