dingbang:
but trust me, there’ll come a time when they’ll develop a sense of insecurity, knowing you can walk out on them at any time and end everything.

This could prompt them to start acting up, projecting their insecurities in their attitudes, especially when you’ve not given them any form of assurance that they’ll end up getting married to you. Ladies are always the victim in this case.

Chickychic:

I agree.
I believe the partner too is supposed to be giving and not what he gets so if that's the case, I suppose to receive and he suppose to receive too, meaning its should be vise versa at equal percentage or even if the percentage is not equal but there should be receiving in the first place but I don't see it at all in these generation.

It's mostly someone is saying "I LOVE YOU " just for a/some specific things you have and when it seems that thing is being taken away the person flees.

So tell me again why is relationship or marriage not scam?

LuciferChristi:
Benefits of marriage to women:

*Poverty alleviation
*Companionship (most of them have no true friends after 25 & become clingy)
*Escape from frustration, family/societal pressure etc
*Confidence boost (marriage makes most women feel superior to their single counterparts)
*Security (
*Motherhood (still possible without marriage but most women are hypocrites who see single mothers as inferior/immoral)
*Insurance (If all else fails, women fall back to their marriage as their only achievement in life)
*The natural instinct to breed & raise a family (especially extended)



Benefits of marriage to a man:

*This section is currently awaiting updates

Chickychic:
I thought I Am the only one scared of marriage.
Worse of it is that most men are not worth it.

Bluezy13:
Until you are mature enough to get married, you won't understand the importance of marriage.

When we were kids, we never wanted to grow up, when we grow up, we wouldn't want to grow old, when we are aged, we realize it was just necessary to pass through the stages, that nature demands it.

It is normal to be scared and doubt the importance of marriage. It is youthful exuberance. You'll later realize you were only being childish.

Partnerbiz3:


Oga you are engaging in ostrich evasions and evading the question.


You mean you can't cite a single reason to convince him?

None at all?

You can do better, I am waiting...

AngryNigerian22:
you are right just like most women are not worth it either

Chickychic:

Thank you for identifying yourself. I aired my view without quoting anyone. You could have done so without quoting me but you choose to show me how you behave. Thank you for that.

Also I know some ladies are not worth it but when the head is bad, it affects the neck but when the neck is good, it doesn't accept a bad head.

Just like your name up there, I can see you really are an angry Nigerian accept my condolence

Chickychic:

Thank you for identifying yourself. I aired my view without quoting anyone. You could have done so without quoting me but you choose to show me how you behave. Thank you for that.

Also I know some ladies are not worth it but when the head is bad, it affects the neck but when the neck is good, it doesn't accept a bad head.

Just like your name up there, I can see you really are an angry Nigerian accept my condolence

UnclePrincipal:


You are not making sense at all. This is a public forum gaddamit. if you don't want people to interfere with your opinions then don't post them here. You posted a gender biased opinion and someone does the same and it got you provoke. you are also part of those ladies he's talking about. is this how you will be responding to your husband ? smh!

AngryNigerian22:
what are you even typing

Chickychic:

Of course you can't comprehend