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This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Barayeks(m): 10:10am On Aug 05, 2018
��� Potential pest here, guys watch out.
I've said if before and I'll keep saying it for as long as it takes to sink in. A woman can never tell a man what a "real man" should or shouldn't do, unless she was a man in her past life or she's a transgender who was originally born as a man. "Real man" is a gynocentric standard set by females who are potential parasites to shame men into doing things that favour them.If you doubt it do a research.
Anytime you her a female say "a real man should..... ", anything that follows always favours them.
What is a real man? A real man is a man who can hold his own. A man who can pay his bills without looking for handouts. A man who spoils his mum and dad rotten for all they've done for him even if they don't need your chicken change �. A man who spoils his nieces and nephews silly because they have the right to feel entitled. Finally a real man is a man who doesn't let broke-shaming get to him because in the end the females who broke shame are broke to stupor and just pissed they couldn't squeeze some money out of you. God bless�

#redpill #mgtow #colourblindEP #nov4th

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 10:35am On Aug 05, 2018
So are you happy to take care of things on the domestic front... answer her question
Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 10:40am On Aug 05, 2018
To be honest everything has be 50/50,that including sharing of bills and sharing of house chores.in the end every body will be happy grin grin

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Barayeks(m): 10:45am On Aug 05, 2018
Lol, they keep talking of house chores like we didn't grow up doing them.

Cooking? The best chefs in the world are men.

It's silly to compare paying 100% of the bills to doing house chores

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Headlesschicken(m): 10:55am On Aug 05, 2018
undecided Dear nigerian ladies,Nobody owes u sh!t,n u r not entitled to having all yuh bills paid by a man,just because u r in a relationship,relationships r not career opportunities...

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by dingbang(m): 11:30am On Aug 05, 2018
Some Nigerian girls need redemption.

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by donbachi(m): 11:37am On Aug 05, 2018
And her fish brain did not also tell her,that a real woman takes and makes good use of the thrown money..... destiny killers everywhere.

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 11:45am On Aug 05, 2018
Barayeks:
Lol, they keep talking of house chores like we didn't grow up doing them.

Cooking? The best chefs in the world are men.

It's silly to compare paying 100% of the bills to doing house chores

Simple question and you can't give a straight answer?

Before you go off on an epileptic fit... some of us have being paying our own bills independent from our parents before our 18th birthday (let alone a strange man).
Sadly, because of the society in Africa women don't have that luxury because for her to move in to her own flat is near enough shameful! This society structure is a mind fvck because sisters in Africa are damned if they do (she called a hoe for living alone, some landlords won't even accept her rent and she hardly gets the respect owed to her) and she's damned if she don't because your type will haunt her upandown.

There's no winning and the fact that you don't see that fault in the system is unjust. It's a big picture, don't pick a part but see the full picture.
Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Barayeks(m): 11:57am On Aug 05, 2018
LivingFree:


Simple question and you can't give a straight answer?

Before you go off on an epileptic fit... some of us have being paying our own bills independent from our parents before our 18th birthday (let alone a strange man).
Sadly, because of the society in Africa women don't have that luxury because for her to move in to her own flat is near enough shameful! This society structure is a mind fvck because sisters in Africa are damned if they do (she called a hoe for living alone, some landlords won't even accept her rent and she hardly gets the respect owed to her) and she's damned if she don't because your type will haunt her upandown.

There's no winning and the fact that you don't see that fault in the system is unjust. It's a big picture, don't pick a part but see the full picture.

"Damned if you do, damned if you don't" Is not exclusive to females, you still go out and do what needs to be done anyway.

The problem I have with the so-called independent ladies is that as soon as a man comes along they start shifting responsibilities little by little.... "You like my hair you should pay to maintain it" "You think my skin just glows on its own? My cream is supper expensive and you don't contribute to it"

In the end the parasitic mentality is still there, it's just dormant in the mean time.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should spend on your girl from time to time, all I'm saying is don't be with a girl who never spends on you.

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 05, 2018
Barayeks:


"Damned if you do, damned if you don't" Is not exclusive to females, you still go out and do what needs to be done anyway.

The problem I have with the so-called independent ladies is that as soon as a man comes along they start shifting responsibilities little by little.... "You like my hair you should pay to maintain it" "You think my skin just glows on its own? My cream is supper expensive and you don't contribute to it"

In the end the parasitic mentality is still there, it's just dormant in the mean time.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should spend on your girl from time to time, all I'm saying is don't be with a girl who never spends on you.

I agree with you 100 but you also need to understand the culture that is at play... To me it comes across as men no longer want to contribute to the status quo but they still want the parts that benefit them... the financial issues is a back drop of the tight economic conditions, because a man will go to a strip club and literally throw his money at a complete stranger! So, spending money was a male ego feeding thing from time before time... what's changed now other than the economy grin

There needs to be a solution rather than gender wars! Men should stop judging women by their cooking abilities, and their looks and allow women to work like men and smell like men! It seems like you'll are just adding to the shi a woman has to do! Give a lil goddamn it embarassed
Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 05, 2018
She’s very right!

If you don’t want feminism to thrive then you gotta be ready to spend money, show her you own her
Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Barayeks(m): 1:17pm On Aug 05, 2018
mrAMG:
She’s very right!

If you don’t want feminism to thrive then you gotta be ready to spend money, show her you own her

Why would I not want feminism to thrive?
You don't want equal rights for women?
You don't want equal pay for the same jobs?

The issue is they must take the good with the bad, with equal rights comes equal responsibilities.

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by Nobody: 1:20pm On Aug 05, 2018
Barayeks:


Why would I not want feminism to thrive?
You don't want equal rights for women?
You don't want equal pay for the same jobs?

The issue is they must take the good with the bad, with equal rights comes equal responsibilities.

They want equal rights but don’t want equal life problems.

There are still feminists that expect you to foot all the bills when you take them out on a date

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Re: This Lady Thinks A Real Man Is Someone Who Throws Money At Women by COOL10(m): 9:31pm On Aug 06, 2018
Barayeks:
��� Potential pest here, guys watch out.
I've said if before and I'll keep saying it for as long as it takes to sink in. A woman can never tell a man what a "real man" should or shouldn't do, unless she was a man in her past life or she's a transgender who was originally born as a man. "Real man" is a gynocentric standard set by females who are potential parasites to shame men into doing things that favour them.If you doubt it do a research.
Anytime you her a female say "a real man should..... ", anything that follows always favours them.
What is a real man? A real man is a man who can hold his own. A man who can pay his bills without looking for handouts. A man who spoils his mum and dad rotten for all they've done for him even if they don't need your chicken change �. A man who spoils his nieces and nephews silly because they have the right to feel entitled. Finally a real man is a man who doesn't let broke-shaming get to him because in the end the females who broke shame are broke to stupor and just pissed they couldn't squeeze some money out of you. God bless�

#redpill #mgtow #colourblindEP #nov4th
. It baffles me how individuals called females who haven't lived ANY part of their physical lives as men for as little as a second suddenly feel they have the ability to know what a 'real man' should be like. Funny thing is there are still men out there who succumb to such manipulative means of extortion and selfishness. You couldn't have said it any better cool

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