what do you think? which is best?

Just call

wow so sweet! make sure you are the first to call her.

Acknowledge the presence of her birthday, (text) and nothing more.

well, if she's the one that ended the relationship

Then as a gentleman, all you should do is send an sms at about half 9 on a weekday and half 11 on a weekend

shows although, we split up, i am a honourable guy and wish you well

Dnt u dare buy a gift or call her!!!!!

valacious:

Hello house, had this girl was dating b4, and all a sudden we broke, she said she wasnt feeling me again? and i simply freed her.

Her b'day is around, i wont deny d fact that i still feel something for this girl, but am not one that forces situations, what do you suggest? simply call

her, and wish her happy bday or get a little gift to add and maybe initiate d process again, or simply let things be the way they are.

what do you think? which is best?

Make sure that she still single b4 calling or txting.

justwise:

Make sure that she still single b4 calling or txting.

. . Well, if you did not break up with a bad taste in your mouth, then I say it is ok to call her and say happy watever but don't get too nice by getting her any gift, chances are that she left you for sb else. Buying her gifts will only portray you as a wimp that is still stuck in the past, move on and let it go.

dont call her JARE
fashee the babe that sm1 else is digging now

I go with the idea of sending her a gift.It shows you still regard her without being clingy, even if you still want her back

Just call her and wish her a happy B day

odiaero:

how far 190?

im ok
will send u a msg later on FB

A call is no bad idea.
but when are we going to let bygones be bygones? Forgotten what happened to Lot's wife in the Bible? Okay i'll tell you: SHE LOOKED BACK AND SHE TURNED INTO A PILLAR OF SALT.

Call and wish her happy birthday.

Then you let her know you have the keys to her dream car and dream home. Deliver them before midnight.

Carolece:

Call and wish her happy birthday.

Then you let her know you have the keys to her dream car and dream home. Deliver them before midnight.

you will be a laughing stock in her eyes if you call. she broke up with you and you want to call her for her b-day or you are even thinking of sending a gift hommie don't do it to yourself. just fashee her she broke it off now let her be.you will eventually forget her.

remember that rkelly song: when a womans fed up there aint nothing you can do about it

hello house,

thanks thanks so much for the bunch of advice, looking at d vote count, quite a lot of respectable ppl here suggests a simple call, well here is what i did.

1)first, let me ans. some questions asked by pokerface-- we stopped communicating after d break-up. not once at all,

2) definitely she isnt single after d break-up, cos she said she wasnt feeling me enuf. again(i dont need a soothsayer to know what that means)

3) my motive--wanted to call to say hi, then look at d possibility of maybe a comeback.


Her bday came, and i vanished all tots of d past, simply acted gentlemanly and called her by 9:20pm. She was suprised and asked how i

remembered her bday, told her she's always been on my mind, even wanted me coming down to get her bday cake, i politely declined, we

exchanged niceties, within 2mins call, and dats all, no gift, no luvvy duvvy, just let things be, and had peace at the end of d day!!!

Many thanks to everyone in the house!!!

@ poster

my guy forget about all those maturity talk my other broda don talk and forget that girl, dont think of paying her back or any revenge also dont think of wanting her back because she will just disregard you and throw you into a trash can, even if that might get her back i think she doesnt worth it man, why would you have to go that lenght, i wonder what you are going through now, maybe you are a worker and her thought is making you sick and therefor you can not go to work,

there are many fishing in the river, then next time watch before you dive because love is hard to find at a young age so just have it in mind that you are playing game. When you are ready for marriage, things will get better, on that day of her birthday just go out clubbin fishing other hookers or whatever. dont forget to play safe too,

secondly, your goal in life is to discover where the treasure is and be a real man, remove women as no1 that to be a man is being responsible in term of money and other home upbringing, as i growup i began to understand,

THIRDLY- FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND SEE THE OUTCOME BECAUSE EXPIRIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER