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What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by VirtueDigest: 1:09pm On Aug 08, 2018 |
When you were young, what were you looking for in a husband? I hear ladies in their early twenties constantly getting into conversations with friends about what they want in husbands. And some of the things the girls and their friends come up with are quite funny. They have to be good looking. They have to be musical. They have to be tall. They have to have a sense of humour. But really, all these are beside the point, because after being married for a while now, I have come to the conclusion that you really only need few things in a husband to make him husband material. Everything else is extra. I have narrowed it down to 4 basic requirements. And what are those four things? He must love God and be totally and utterly committed to Him. When someone loves God, he’ll love you as his wife and be committed to doing God’s Will regardless of how he feels. In addition, he would make the marriage a priority knowing that it was instituted by God and not man. And when you do have disagreements (which you will), you know that he will take those disagreements to God. Ironically, I believe it is more important to marry someone who loves God than to marry someone who loves you (though obviously you want both). If you marry someone who loves you, but doesn’t love God, then when fights happen or struggles come and that feeling of love goes, he may go too. Marry someone who loves God, and the commitment to the marriage will be rock solid. You must be able to talk about God with him and pray with him. It isn’t enough to love God; that love has to evidence itself in your ability to talk about God as a couple and to pray as a couple. If you can bring God into conversation naturally, then God is an important part of both of your lives, and you’ll be okay. If he goes to church but never really talks to God or about God, then you have to wonder if that commitment to God is true. You must verify his commitment to God before taking the plunge because he’ll only amplify in marriage what he did as a single man... Read more at https://www.virtuedigest.com/what-are-we-looking-for-in-husbands/ |
Re: What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by weyreypey: 1:17pm On Aug 08, 2018 |
Truth is that no woman knows what she is looking for in a husband |
Re: What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by Cholls(m): 1:18pm On Aug 08, 2018 |
weyreypey:
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Re: What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Aug 08, 2018 |
Waiting for more response |
Re: What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by weyreypey: 1:22pm On Aug 08, 2018 |
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Re: What Are We Looking For In Husbands? by chiommy123(f): 4:00am On Aug 09, 2018 |
nice one op. the society has messed things up that most women consider mostly the financial status of their husbands to be. BTW just talking about God doesn't do the magic for me but practicing and living out a good Christian life style |
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