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Scared Of Disappointing Her by Folabimi(m): 1:48pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
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Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by ednut1(m): 1:55pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
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Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by thorpido(m): 2:07pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Do you have savings?Can you rent at least a self-contained apartment? MOST importantly,does she work,have a source of income?Is what she earns appreciable? I think you should give it a shot.Keep hope alive. Just plan towards holding off pregnancy for a while. 1 Like |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by edgeP(m): 2:13pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
GBAM! I was discussing same topic with one of my lawyer friend yesterday. OP you are a realist 3 Likes |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Mekenz(m): 2:26pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
at oops I can relate with your story,my own is that she is doing one petty business like that, infact she is the one doing virtually all the spending in the relationship, giving me the assurance that we will cope,if we got married,but I still insist that iam not tieing the knot,till I attain some level of financial buoyancy, please be real,dont succumb to her rush,if you are ready,then be ready. 3 Likes |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Folabimi(m): 2:30pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
thorpido: I've savings, enough to have a small wedding and rent an apartment but as they say, no be to marry be the problem, na to sustain the marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by thorpido(m): 2:46pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Folabimi:If both of you can agree to a small wedding,then I think it can work. She has shown she will not put you under financial pressure which is a good thing. Go ahead with the introduction this december and have hope for next year.There is still time, so see how it pans out. 1 Like |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Brytaboy(m): 3:03pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Op, marrage gives open doors, i dnt knw if u knw. My inlaw is a living example, after there marrage things turned well for them. |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by donbachi(m): 3:45pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
A happy mind listens to music.but,a sad mind listens to the lyrics...what to listen,is decided by you...the only mistake,is when you decide a song.whose lyric you can't sing along with. |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Wilfredpat22(f): 3:57pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Brytaboy: Don’t listen to this crap 1 Like |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by abdeiz(m): 4:10pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Some will say marry her as she could be the blessing in your life, others will differ and say make it first before putting someone's child in your care. Its really complicated since we cannot see the future and we are scared of doing things that will make us regret. I hope you make the best decision for you both. |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
.what can I say.... OP follow your heart Cheap data available |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Stevengerd(m): 5:24pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Brytaboy:Lol.. What you see as a blessing to you, make not be a blessing to me.. If you knw, You know! |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by franchasng: 5:53pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Folabimi:eh yaah, in fact, a lot of guys seems to be in your shoe. Because a guy I barely know who usually see me at a barber shop worked up to me someday and bared his heart to me, I felt bad because I couldn't give him a good job instantly His story is just like yours. He doesn't want to disappoint his girl who he said is 32yrs and he too 33yra but no good job and no good income and still squatting with a relative, I felt so bad. My little advice to u; while u apply for jobs, make up yor mind and dive into business with all your energy, it will pay off and if at the end a better job comes and u are more cool with it, u can turn your Biz to a part time one or make your woman the manager while u take up the job. Honestly speaking, I wont advice u to marry without a stable income even if its 80 - 100k monthly for a start because the present economy of Nigeria and the world at large isn't as friendly as some years back and human demands and needs have quadrupled in our time. Don't let her push u into marriage unless she can provide enough finance to enable u start a lucrative business or if she can help u secure a nice paid job, if not, pls don't marry her yet cos u may regret it later and it will also make u to hate her later if things turn bad after u guys settle down. Think wisely and pray too about it with faith. Wish u the best. This is why u guys need to come together and vote for me to become the president or even governor, cos if I was, would have given u instant job right away 3 Likes |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Folabimi(m): 6:02pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
franchasng: Thanks. You have my vote 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by tosyne2much(m): 6:33pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
I think franchasng has said it all 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by stubbornman(m): 6:37pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Mekenz: Mehn, my girlfriend was like that , she just wanted marriage so quick, until i sat her down one evening and talked sense into her head... she saw reasons with me and apologised deeply for being too hasty about the whole thing... she is an amazing woman, tho not working yet but gives me every motivation i need as a man while she tries her hands on other things too... I love her so much.... I just need an income a little bigger than my present take home.... 2 Likes |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Brytaboy(m): 12:40am On Aug 18, 2018 |
Wilfredpat22: pls speak so he'd listen.... [quote author=Wilfredpat22 post=70365374] |
Re: Scared Of Disappointing Her by Mekenz(m): 9:20am On Aug 18, 2018 |
stubbornman:lucky you bro that's what we are saying, a man must always be a man. |
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