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10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:11pm On Aug 20, 2018
10 Simple Ways to Keep Your Lover In Love with You...

Whether you’re a new couple or you’re firmly in the long-term territory, it won’t hurt to get a little help to keep those sparks flying.

You could have found the perfect partner, developed the perfect home life and be living in perfect harmony, but unfortunately experience tells us that however perfect everything is now, it is unlikely to remain that way forever. The fact is that the way we feel about a loved one, no matter how deeply held and seemingly infallible those feelings may be, unless we make an effort to nourish them, they will in time fade and possibly even die.

The secret to staying in love

The secret to staying in love isn’t one that requires a complex understanding of human psychology, nor is it one that is complex enough to warrant apprehension. The secret is simply this: put the work in.

Love is not a static emotion. It needs time spent upon it to ensure it continues to thrive. You wouldn’t leave a potted plant to its own devices, would you? It’s the same with your relationship. It needs to be nurtured and cared for in order to thrive. So how exactly can you keep your love alive?

#1 Be romantic. Never let this one escape your list of priorities. Whether you’re male or female, please keep in mind that a little romantic gesture or two from time to time is something is necessary for your relationship.

It doesn’t matter how long you have been together, it doesn’t matter that you think you’ve outgrown that sort of thing. A bunch of flowers, a surprise trip or other romantic gifts and events can help steer your relationship away from the road towards tedium and complacency, which can result in a falling out between you and your lover.

#2 Bedroom fun. In any guide or advice column, you read regarding relationships, a healthy sex life always comes near the top of the list of tips for maintaining a loving situation. And there are many reasons for this. There are certain chemical reactions that promote a feeling of happiness and contentment that become associated with the other person involved.

There is the physical feeling of closeness that can’t be achieved with any other activity. Stress and tensions that may be threatening the relationship otherwise are alleviated by sex. There is no doubt as to its importance at all when it comes to the issue of staying in love.

In practical terms, however, this means not only making love but doing so, spontaneously and creatively. A regular Tuesday evening slot is unlikely to keep the flames of love burning, nor is a commitment to the same position time after time, with little or no pre-intimacy, carried out in darkness. Shake things up a little, avoid routine, try new things and watch that love you both have become stronger and stronger.
#3 Shape up. A long-term relationship is no excuse for letting things slide, and one of the reasons that half of a couple most often cites for playing away from home is that their partner, quite simply, has let him or herself go. And there really is no excuse for that.

It’s a sign of respect for someone, if nothing else, that you want to make your best effort to look good for them, and being that handsome chap or radiant beauty that first caught their eye can only help to keep the...Read More...

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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:11pm On Aug 20, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:47pm On Aug 20, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 3:10pm On Aug 20, 2018
this is something lovers should depend on
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 3:14pm On Aug 20, 2018
nobody but ur lover can do this
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 3:28pm On Aug 20, 2018
these ways aren't that simple
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 4:04pm On Aug 20, 2018
we all know that
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by Katier00(f): 5:07pm On Aug 20, 2018
No rules. Just be yourself and try not to pretend
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 5:26pm On Aug 20, 2018
this ain't simple
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 5:55pm On Aug 20, 2018
Katier00:
No rules. Just be yourself and try not to pretend
we believe in one thing

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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 10:42am On Aug 21, 2018
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 11:18am On Aug 21, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 12:19pm On Aug 21, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 12:42pm On Aug 21, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 12:58pm On Aug 21, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:03pm On Aug 21, 2018
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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:13pm On Aug 21, 2018
ways to keep us safe
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 4:34pm On Aug 21, 2018
we expected
Katier00:
No rules. Just be yourself and try not to pretend
such excuses from you
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 4:40pm On Aug 21, 2018
omablogs:
10 Simple Ways to Keep Your Lover In Love with You...

Whether you’re a new couple or you’re firmly in the long-term territory, it won’t hurt to get a little help to keep those sparks flying.

You could have found the perfect partner, developed the perfect home life and be living in perfect harmony, but unfortunately experience tells us that however perfect everything is now, it is unlikely to remain that way forever. The fact is that the way we feel about a loved one, no matter how deeply held and seemingly infallible those feelings may be, unless we make an effort to nourish them, they will in time fade and possibly even die.

The secret to staying in love

The secret to staying in love isn’t one that requires a complex understanding of human psychology, nor is it one that is complex enough to warrant apprehension. The secret is simply this: put the work in.

Love is not a static emotion. It needs time spent upon it to ensure it continues to thrive. You wouldn’t leave a potted plant to its own devices, would you? It’s the same with your relationship. It needs to be nurtured and cared for in order to thrive. So how exactly can you keep your love alive?

#1 Be romantic. Never let this one escape your list of priorities. Whether you’re male or female, please keep in mind that a little romantic gesture or two from time to time is something is necessary for your relationship.

It doesn’t matter how long you have been together, it doesn’t matter that you think you’ve outgrown that sort of thing. A bunch of flowers, a surprise trip or other romantic gifts and events can help steer your relationship away from the road towards tedium and complacency, which can result in a falling out between you and your lover.

#2 Bedroom fun. In any guide or advice column, you read regarding relationships, a healthy sex life always comes near the top of the list of tips for maintaining a loving situation. And there are many reasons for this. There are certain chemical reactions that promote a feeling of happiness and contentment that become associated with the other person involved.

There is the physical feeling of closeness that can’t be achieved with any other activity. Stress and tensions that may be threatening the relationship otherwise are alleviated by sex. There is no doubt as to its importance at all when it comes to the issue of staying in love.

In practical terms, however, this means not only making love but doing so, spontaneously and creatively. A regular Tuesday evening slot is unlikely to keep the flames of love burning, nor is a commitment to the same position time after time, with little or no pre-intimacy, carried out in darkness. Shake things up a little, avoid routine, try new things and watch that love you both have become stronger and stronger.
#3 Shape up. A long-term relationship is no excuse for letting things slide, and one of the reasons that half of a couple most often cites for playing away from home is that their partner, quite simply, has let him or herself go. And there really is no excuse for that.

It’s a sign of respect for someone, if nothing else, that you want to make your best effort to look good for them, and being that handsome chap or radiant beauty that first caught their eye can only help to keep the[urlhttps://grandmarketsquare.com/10-simple-ways-to-keep-your-lover-in-love-with-you-1/]...Read More...[/url]

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omablogs:
10 Simple Ways to Keep Your Lover In Love with You...

Whether you’re a new couple or you’re firmly in the long-term territory, it won’t hurt to get a little help to keep those sparks flying.

You could have found the perfect partner, developed the perfect home life and be living in perfect harmony, but unfortunately experience tells us that however perfect everything is now, it is unlikely to remain that way forever. The fact is that the way we feel about a loved one, no matter how deeply held and seemingly infallible those feelings may be, unless we make an effort to nourish them, they will in time fade and possibly even die.

The secret to staying in love

The secret to staying in love isn’t one that requires a complex understanding of human psychology, nor is it one that is complex enough to warrant apprehension. The secret is simply this: put the work in.

Love is not a static emotion. It needs time spent upon it to ensure it continues to thrive. You wouldn’t leave a potted plant to its own devices, would you? It’s the same with your relationship. It needs to be nurtured and cared for in order to thrive. So how exactly can you keep your love alive?

#1 Be romantic. Never let this one escape your list of priorities. Whether you’re male or female, please keep in mind that a little romantic gesture or two from time to time is something is necessary for your relationship.

It doesn’t matter how long you have been together, it doesn’t matter that you think you’ve outgrown that sort of thing. A bunch of flowers, a surprise trip or other romantic gifts and events can help steer your relationship away from the road towards tedium and complacency, which can result in a falling out between you and your lover.

#2 Bedroom fun. In any guide or advice column, you read regarding relationships, a healthy sex life always comes near the top of the list of tips for maintaining a loving situation. And there are many reasons for this. There are certain chemical reactions that promote a feeling of happiness and contentment that become associated with the other person involved.

There is the physical feeling of closeness that can’t be achieved with any other activity. Stress and tensions that may be threatening the relationship otherwise are alleviated by sex. There is no doubt as to its importance at all when it comes to the issue of staying in love.

In practical terms, however, this means not only making love but doing so, spontaneously and creatively. A regular Tuesday evening slot is unlikely to keep the flames of love burning, nor is a commitment to the same position time after time, with little or no pre-intimacy, carried out in darkness. Shake things up a little, avoid routine, try new things and watch that love you both have become stronger and stronger.
#3 Shape up. A long-term relationship is no excuse for letting things slide, and one of the reasons that half of a couple most often cites for playing away from home is that their partner, quite simply, has let him or herself go. And there really is no excuse for that.

It’s a sign of respect for someone, if nothing else, that you want to make your best effort to look good for them, and being that handsome chap or radiant beauty that first caught their eye can only help to keep the[urlhttps://grandmarketsquare.com/10-simple-ways-to-keep-your-lover-in-love-with-you-1/]...Read More...[/url]

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Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 5:55pm On Aug 21, 2018
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 6:02pm On Aug 21, 2018
no laathrel hopes
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 6:36pm On Aug 21, 2018
to prove u aren' jokking
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 7:26pm On Aug 21, 2018
cast it all
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by Katier00(f): 9:44pm On Aug 21, 2018
omablogs:
we expected such excuses from you
we?
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:06pm On Aug 22, 2018
simple in deed
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:10pm On Aug 22, 2018
grin grin
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2018
this are'nt really easy one's
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:28pm On Aug 22, 2018
aren't that obsessed
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:33pm On Aug 22, 2018
with petchs
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:36pm On Aug 22, 2018
never mind it's a goal
Re: 10 Simple Ways To Keep Your Lover In Love With You... by omablogs: 1:42pm On Aug 22, 2018
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