When my fiancee visited my apartment, see complained about how she did not like the colours of the paint used in my sitting room, also about my new glass centre table that she preferred wooden table to glass, about how she don't like my small Nokia touch light phone that she can't used such a phone that used bottons instead she preferred android phones. I got thinking if she can be a good wife material. My dear nairalanders, is this normal things to expect from a lady, what are your views to this topic.

Tell her you don't like it either. she should provide the money to change everything she doesn't like.

i hav nutin to say chioma baby hav said it all

You're fortunate that she is displaying her character while you're not yet married.

Many married men and women wish their partners were this open, they would have made better decisions.

Marry her if you like her, if you don't like her, don't marry her. It's your life.

It's very ok.

Change those paints.
Do whatever that makes her happy.
Let her happiness be yo aim.

Chi59 has something to say

chiommy123:
Tell her you don't like it either. she should provide the money to change everything she doesn't like.

Even if she can afford to replace th items she does not like, I will stick to my properties.


She needs to come to terms that she cannot change one over night. Her approach needs to be improved upon too.

bestme:
When my fiancee visited my apartment, see complained about how she did not like the colours of the paint used in my sitting room, also about my new glass centre table that she preferred wooden table to glass, about how she don't like my small Nokia touch light phone that she can't used such a phone that used bottons instead she preferred android phones. I got thinking if she can be a good wife material. My dear nairalanders, is this normal things to expect from a lady, what are your views to this topic.

The choice is yours really. Whatever you don't like now, tell her too. If it's excess and you cant manage it, its best to reconsider your choice

I hope you didn't mistake her expression of preferences for complaint - there's a tiny line between the two. If the latter was truly the case, sorry for you, because in her you've a domineering woman to contend with. However, if the former was the case, then sorry for her, because she's domineering man to contend with.

I bet she's the type that can't manage, already nagging b4 marriage. Smh

milemimi93:
It's very ok.

Change those paints.
Do whatever that makes her happy.
Let her happiness be yo aim.

please OP, do not consider this kind of advice. This is a perfect recipe for you to turn to a worthless tissue paper

Op go still marry d foolish gal

912:


please OP, do not consider this kind of advice. This is a perfect recipe for you to turn to a worthless tissue paper

If your fiancée's happiness ain't yo priority, what is yo priority then?

go and look for your class, I don't even see any prospect in this relationship. don't even call her your Fiancee ,pleaseyou are single

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chiommy123:
Tell her you don't like it either. she should provide the money to change everything she doesn't like.

You are always here

daughter of Jezebel spotted.... Oga run ooo

Hmmmm

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That girl you are being advised to discharge and the one you want to bring into your life who better pass

Does she give good reasons on why she doesn't like some of the things you have. In relationship, you bring entirely different person whom you don't share any bloodline with into your life and there's bound to be compatibility issues but your ability to tamper each other is what's going to give you a successful relationship.

And I don't see her as someone who's materialistic. Say you have a glass table and she said she prefers a wooden table shows you she looks forward into the future when children will come and the glass table becomes a weapon. And I don't see anything wrong with her asking you to upgrade your life from Nokia torch to something better. She carries a positive vibe around here and it's a good thing. Don't be acting poverty stricken when you can do better. Don't be a reason Therese May will say 86ml Nigerians are living in poverty