Double celebration for September, congrats to woman for safe delivery.

I don't get it, they are married already so what's with white wedding again?

Except if it's to get the govt issued marriage certificate.

Gkemz:
How is a product of premarital sex a blessing from God who abhors premarital sex?

God bless you for this piece. Honestly I don't know how bad this world will be in the next ten years., the only thing i can say is that, May God help us all.

agboghai:

Thank you my broad. Some persons for nairaland are too quick to judge others, forgetting about themselves. I have always stand for one thing regarding pregnancy through pre marital sex. The sex is the sin, not the pregnancy. So, if sister A & B are both having pre marital sex leading to both being pregnant, sister A aborts hers and sister B keep hers. Sister B cannot wed in the church because of that. That is hypocrisy of the highest order and some Nigerian churches no dey try. How many Nigerian pastors truly wed their wives for church? I am not promoting pregnancy before marriage here oo, I am only saying that in the event of a Lady getting pregnant and the man responsible wants to marry her, the church should not deny them that or go by saying it is a blessed marriage.

Yes i totally agree with you,the sex is the sin and not the baby or the pregnancy but people don't understand and that's why girls abort alot, i don't understand why after a man has paid bride price in the traditional marriage and on the wedding morning the bride is found pregnant,the wedding would be canceled. The bride price has legalised the pregnancy,whether she got pregnant before the traditional marriage or after it,and if the couple have confessed their sins of premarital sex prior to that wedding morning to God and asked for forgiveness ,then what's the need cancelling the wedding.

Zinny25:
please is there any cash gift attached to being the FTC

I just got an alert from seun, send your account number with bank name in order to deposit a token amount from me

Gkemz:
How is a product of premarital sex a blessing from God who abhors premarital sex?

inasmuch as the man has paid her Bride price, she is legally married (in the presence of God)

Livealways:



Yes i totally agree with you,the sex is the sin and not the baby or the pregnancy but people don't understand and that's why girls abort alot, i don't understand why after a man has paid bride price in the traditional marriage and on the wedding morning the bride is found pregnant,the wedding would be canceled. The bride price has legalised the pregnancy,whether she got pregnant before the traditional marriage or after it,and if the couple have confessed their sins of premarital sex prior to that wedding morning to God and asked for forgiveness ,then what's the need cancelling the wedding.

some people are getting it wrong here
Since the BRIDEPRICE of the wife has been paid, it is already a legal union. What they did was the "Church Blessings" in order for them to be receiving Holy Communion in the Catholic Church. The only clause that makes the children to be b**tards is that IF THE DOWRY OF THE WIFE hasn't BEEN PAID before they were born

fascowilly:

I just got an alert from seun, send your account number with bank name in order to deposit a token amount from me

are you serious? That's good ooo cos I keep wondering why people are always happy when they are the FTC... So how much did you get for that It seems I will build a house here on Nairaland to monitor the posts

Zinny25:
are you serious? That's good ooo cos I keep wondering why people are always happy when they are the FTC... So how much did you get for that It seems I will build a house here on Nairaland to monitor the posts

So so funny.

mubeela:
Haba... she go wear pampers na

Pampers kwa! No be pad she go wear?

Livealways:
I'm tired of all these people that don't read, the post said they have been married under native law and customs for 7 years,but couldn't have any English wedding due to financial constraints? So how is it premarital sex again or baby born out of wedlock?

I tire o