I usually don't check my fiance phone even though I know the password to his phone... but last night I did....reason been dat,,before he goes to bed he do tell me to help charge his phone,but last night he kept hiding d phone to d extent he place d phone under his pillow and slept... But u know how sleep does wonders, he roll away ND I was able to take d phone ND check... To my greatest surprise.... I saw a msg BTW him ND a lady, wia did lady is telling him dat ever since she had d abortion she hasn't seen her period since den.... ND I check d date on the convo it was dis year around January....i was so mad ND confused at the same time... Don't know if I should smash the phone on d floor last night or I should just leave ND never come back.... Fast-forward to dis morning, I asked him about it.... His answer shocked me.... He said yes it happened ND he told her to get rid of it cos he has a serious relationship... And I asked who I was to him, cos part of d convo BTW him ND d lady was bout me,cos d lady asked him who I was to him ND he told d lady am his EX.... When I asked him Dis morning he said same thing dat am his EX.... He ain't even remorseful.... Have not been myself since morning.... Jst crying and going nut here... Cos I don't know what to do anymore.... Feel like letting go.... Feel like staying... So confused

Sorry ma, d fact he wasn't remorseful says alot. U just have to let go and move on.
Stay blessed �

Let me advice you.Don't make a mistake you will regret after. For him not being remorseful speaks alot. Yes at this time it might be difficult but u just have to move on. Definitely he will come back begging. But will u like to remain in a relationship or marriage that is giving u an early warning sign. Nne just Bochaa and don't look back

Not all men will entertain sniffing around their phones. If you are lucky to be with a good guy, he would apologize to you when caught cheating, not to talk of impregnating another woman. But if you are with a bad guy, he would turn it upside down on you and ask you why you went sniffing. Since u don't want out, why go looking for what would break ur heart? At least you have seen that thing you were looking for in his phone, you can now officially become the Ex he called you to ur face. Wonder what advice u want when he has told u point-blank that u are his EX

what advice do you need again ...he called u an ex

Just carry yourself out of his nonsense, useless, hopeless, satanic house and never come back again no matter what.

You need no one to tell you to leave him ASAP..
BTW why do some peeps still need validation to quit a bad relationship