PLS guy give me a reasonable advice. just started dating this babe 5mnth ago. no sex yet but im so madly in ;love with her and she feels madly the same way too. but she called me 2xplain 2me she found out after geting tested few month ago that she possitive to hiv. plssssss i love her so much. wat do i do

Both of you should go for hiv councelling

Look within youself and honestly think if you are cool with the fact that she is hiv+ and then decide what to do

you have to think about it very well  because sincerely,love conquers all but ths is a matter between life and death, also think that if  she were to be in your shoe will she continue?
plz  be wise  cos there are lots of ladies out there you can hook up with rather than playing with your life ,okay?
think of the fact that  we only have one life to live.sefini[color=#770077][/color]

selfmade:

you have to think about it very well  because sincerely,love conquers all but ths is a matter between life and death, also think that i[b]f  she were to be in your shoe will she continue?[/b]
plz  be wise  cos there are lots of ladies out there you can hook up with rather than playing with your life ,okay?
think of the fact that  we only have one life to live.sefini[color=#770077][/color]

Thank you jare, she will even be the one to run first.

190:

anytin concerning HIV
190 is hardly found around those parts~

hahahaha

back to the topic,

HIV is not a death sentence. you can decide to stay with her if you like. people marry positive people and live long lives. Educate yourself and when you have all the information then you can make your decison. i know people who live with the disease for years. However, listen to everyones advice on this and decide on what you want to do. you can become a good friend or lover. its up to you,

^^

Na u talk am oo
anyway im off

HIV ke
VIH ni

190:

^^

Na u talk am oo
anyway im off

HIV ke
VIH ni

thank you i think people should fear for their lives and run, why are some people talking about love? the girl will live with random illness for life which is manageable with money but you really dont want this, my heart goes out to surferers cos it must be a dreadful nightmare, i think everyone should cherish their life quality and not play with it. keep yourself alive people AIDS is real. keep a partner so it reduces the probability and wrap up

@poster.yes,you parties should go for Hiv counseling.this is a huge task,it really is.
@190,I can only say shame on ya.

I bet my mortgage that this is a test to see if you really love her, i bet if u pass this test then she is all yours body and sole and you will be d sole liker of the honeypot, tell her to give u d test result or take her to another lab, ve her do d test in ur presence, kachiko?

james1 shame on you too!

Shey u nova Bleep am if yes just forget her and move on but if u don Bleep am u beta go do HIV test sharp sharp

double08:

I bet my mortgage that this is a test to see if you really love her, i bet if u pass this test then she is all yours body and sole and you will be d sole liker of the honeypot, tell her to give u d test result or take her to another lab, ve her do d test in your presence, kachiko?

This is very possible, pulled that on a guy sometime ago and he fled!! If you really love her as you've claimed then walk through this with her (that is if it's true anyway).

@poster
U just made ths up cos i dnt believe dat a girl u just dated only for 5mts wld open up wt such secret to u,never.

RUN o!!!
Thank God u neva sleep with her.
She just spared u everlasting heartache and ur still talking love.
Breakup, cry and den move on.
In the next 5 yrs, she will no longer be dere and u would av contracted it and will still cry after wasting ur money.
Anyone who uses HIV to test someone, d person no love u.

You might want to get over the infactuation phase first before you make any rush decisions. Slow down.

African_queen:

Both of you should go for hiv councelling

counselling ke!!!!na u give am,
guy i just bought some travelling bags, i can lend u

kpolli:

counselling ke!!!!na u give am,
guy i just bought some travelling bags, i can lend u

Shame on you. . .

^^

why?

@ POSTER, calm down, take ur time n take a decision. PLWHA are still human beigns just like u. They shld not be discriminated, pls. They need ur love n care.  If i were in ur shoes, first, i'd test myself, if i'm negative, i wld have a reasonable 'think', i wld assess her, n ask myself can this person do the same if it were d other way round? If NO or YES , u know what to do. Cos i dont think ppl should die for ppl that cannot die for them. There's only one JESUS.

190, help me ask am oo

HIV ?? I think I clicked on a wrong icon

This is when she needs you most.

Do not listen to the ignorant comments of some uninformed respondents who are clueless about HIV/AIDS.

There are new developments in HIV/AIDS management and treatment and you and her can even have children.
Contact the WHO office in Nigeria.

I am a WHO trained HIV/AIDS Intervention Counsellor and I started the Redeemed AIDS Programme Action Committee (RCCG/RAPAC) in the office of the GO of the RCCG and another NGO in Nigeria. Therefore, I can tell you that you and her can be fine

Magic Johnson has been HIV positive since 1991, but he and his family are fine,

Read the following:
Magic Johnson: talks about: living 10 years with AIDS virus juggling family and business the LA Lakers
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1355/is_3_101/ai_81891707/

adaphik:

@ POSTER, calm down, take your time n take a decision. PLWHA are still human beigns just like u. They shld not be discriminated, pls. They need your love n care.  If i were in your shoes, first, i'd test myself, if i'm negative, i wld have a reasonable 'think', i wld assess her, n ask myself can this person do the same if it were d other way round? If NO or YES , u know what to do. Cos i dont think ppl should die for ppl that cannot die for them. There's only one JESUS.

Abeg, no listen.
Na u give am? Wetin concern dead body with overload?
PLWHA ni, PLWHA ko.
I f person wan die, why shld u involve urself with the person.

^^^^ leave that foolish poster before u who wants to do Enrique Iglisias, i can be ur hero

why don`t you ask your family this question?
Please this is not a sacrifice you make for a girl you only just met. If you were married and maybe she got infected through other means it is a different issue.
Whoever is advising you to stay does not really care for you-
Life brings enough problems with it, try to avoid the ones you can.
If it turns out to be a joke , to hell with her. That joke is too expensive. A woman that makes that kind of joke or leis about getting pregnant has a questionable behaviour.

^^
Gbam
Its babes like u i adore

Hey, can some ppl ever be civilized for once?? Gawd, IF u cannot make a comment without being insultive, u bera go to hell. Wetin dey worry una sef?Now let me ask u, r u being paid? Just incase u're not aware, we're here to make our individual opinon' as it suits us. You're not going to be shot for dropping an opinion n walking out quietly. For Christ sake, these kids shld grow. I suggest u children shldnt involve urselfs in adult conversation next time. , IS THAT CLEAR, NONSENSE

190:

^^
Sorry ma'
Please who precisely is pissing you off like this!

Hey one ninety, never mind mister. Just making sm folks here understand that opinions r required n not insults. For instance, if ur opinion is that u'd fly out. Thats absolutely ok, cos thats an opinion n not an insult. U get that?