eph12:

Why you in the relationship if you can't trust her?

1: To gain more experience
2: Study your woman


You can trust but not available you give her your full trust. In case if she Bleep up you wouldn't feel it.

That third party relationship will inadvertently kill your relationship.

Frankicent:


1: To gain more experience
2: Study your woman


You can trust but not available you give her your full trust. In case if she Bleep up you wouldn't feel it.

Oh sorry, it comes with age

Prognose:


Wait o

And you haven't confronted Samuel about it once? You haven't warned Samuel to stay off

Why r u angry with your girlfriend when your 'best friend' is stabbing you in the back? Abi you dey fear d Samuel?

I am angry with her because at the end of the day, she is the one who allows the rappour to continue. Afterall do girls give face to every tom dick and harry that comes their way. Third parties break things only when someone from the inside allows it to enter

eph12:
Oh sorry, it comes with age

OK if you say xo.

Ignore both. Don't put too much effort in the relationship again. If your girlfriend call you answer. If she no call you don't ask why. Your chats and calls should be limited now. Look for another girlfriend.

AgentGoat:
Ignore both. Don't put too much effort in the relationship again. If your girlfriend call you answer. If she no call you don't ask why. Your chats and calls should be limited now. Look for another girlfriend.

True bro. I got to find more chats pf her with the guy talking about me. She doesn't know i ve seen it, but at this point I truly do not care again

Don't confront anyone just leave the girl and move on.she is confused

BrownCarton:

I am angry with her because at the end of the day, she is the one who allows the rappour to continue. Afterall do girls give face to every tom dick and harry that comes their way. Third parties break things only when someone from the inside allows it to enter

Do you want to know what to do?

Just withdraw and give her the silent treatment.
Go find yourself another girl and give your attention to.

Let me tell you. Nothing kills a woman like silent treatment.

A certain girl I met online took my niceness for granted and ended up calling me names while flaunting the chosen guy to my face.

She tried to break my psych and feed on me. Do you know what I did after everything she said to me that last day? SILENCE!

She aid a lot of shitz but I never said a word. I left her with the dude and stopped talking to her or texting or buzzing.

Few months later she is the one calling me and buzzing me now... Based on advice from my brother, I picked her call when she first called. My brother adviced I keep things cool.

I will advice you do same. Don't give her any reason why you left, don't call, don't text... Just move on with your life and get busy.

BrownCarton:

I am angry with her because at the end of the day, she is the one who allows the rappour to continue. Afterall do girls give face to every tom dick and harry that comes their way. Third parties break things only when someone from the inside allows it to enter

Well but aren't you the one that allowed third party to enter by discussing your personal business with him?

This is happening to me currently, my supposed best friend be flirt chatting with my gf I confronted her nd she assured me their is no p.

Just few days back we all met I could see the way he acts around her, the kind of questions he asks when shes around, the way he talks to me about her,the kind of advice he gives me about her, the way he reacts when he's upset, the way he treats people when shes around, even going to the extent of trying to make her laugh when I am around.

All discussions he brings up tends to be about a ladies body, if he is asked a question let's say about what he likes in a woman? He tends to refer it to her indirectly, he tries to show more care like he really cares about her too many to write down.

I am a very observant person it's like a gift to me I could tell 100 things about a person based on his/her body movement which 95% will be correct and guess what this said guy is actually dead to me in terms of besti shii I made him know we ain't best f anymore publicly by saying I ain't got no best friends so as to let him know I know and see everything. As for my gf shes on standby I currently fixed my life, started working on some other projects no time for nonsense #yourbestfriendswillkillyouifgiventhechance

Prognose:


Well but aren't you the one that allowed third party to enter by discussing your personal business with him?

I just learnt my big lesson bro. Trusting no one.I really thought he was a close friend. Infact, I remember when he had issues with his gf, where she put me in the middle, I made sure I wasn't caught in the web. I let the girl know from the onset that I won't be comfortable keeping any secrets from him, or partnering with her. I even showed him all the chats after their breakup, and it was all in good faith. In reverse, bro goes doing the opposite

Update...
I confronted the guy and told him to back off and stay away. He tried to lie, but simply let him know I know everything nd he fcked up. He called my babe nd spoke with her after which she told me she was apologising on my behalf nd he blocked/unfollowed her. I was mad nd told her she should never try that again. She caused it and should never interfer. She spoke to couple of her friends who made her realize how shes been behaving(cos there is a lot more to the story than I could put there) and she tried to apologise. However, in my head now, I ve already resolved that I will never bother myself if such happens again. I will simply move on quietly with no explanations.

BrownCarton:
Update...
I confronted the guy and told him to back off and stay away. He tried to lie, but simply let him know I know everything nd he fcked up. He called my babe nd spoke with her after which she told me she was apologising on my behalf nd he blocked/unfollowed her. I was mad nd told her she should never try that again. She caused it and should never interfer. She spoke to couple of her friends who made her realize how shes been behaving(cos there is a lot more to the story than I could put there) and she tried to apologise. However, in my head now, I ve already resolved that I will never bother myself if such happens again. I will simply move on quietly with no explanations.

Just take it easy bro... I realize relationship is not easy o.... imagine a girl will be making a grown man think... it's just sad....

FrostyButter:


OP, this guy said it all. I have been there before. I left them for each other. Later they came separately to beg cause they realized life was useless without me, or rather I was their fuel to fire their silly "friendship".

Life is short. Anyone that makes you feel bad or less than your self, just leave them alone and move on to better things. There are so many other nice Nigerian girls out there. Don't die on top someone that doesn't value you or realize what she is doing is hurting you.

As for the guy, I know their type. Just ignore him totally. The fellow is vane and empty. You don't need such energy around you.

I totally agree with this....
the Samuel Guy even if he isn't doing anything.. his trying to f**k Ur babe