chiommy123:
if you're not prepared why ask her out not overspending but at least make yourselves comfortable and enjoy your outing

Divay22:
He brought 3k to spend, i carried my own 3k that making it 6k..
I think with that we can have a nice date

lefulefu:
my brother there are ladies dat dont freak over food. Its not about forming.its just what they are. Then there are ladies that just cant control themselves when they are around food and there are those with bush girl mentality. The time that they want to munch a lap of chicken dats d time dey will do selfie with it and upload on facebook with the inscription that says, ' me munching friend chicken and rice' just to impresse their fellow bush girls following them on facebook.

Frankicent:



nawa ooo.. that pic for chicken and rice..lwkmd some gals worst gon.... I remember one day when me and my guy were going out. We our church singer in an eater with a guy... She didn't see us... We stop and watch her mood.. the mumu guy didn't even get himself anything. he bought her ice cream. He guy was just talking... mean while she was shaking her leg due to the ice cream sweetness.... We just laugh cause we know at that moment she's in another planet... The guy waste is cash and voice.

Frankicent:


hmmm.. no offense are you above 22 ?

IamLEGEND1:
Plate of rice for Mama Put na N150, small coke na N100. 250x2 = N500. make I see any broke bitch_wey go begin yarn dust say I no dey pay for date.
After we don chop, everybody go trek reach house.

Frankicent:


naso you indeed different ooo.. I pray I find someone like you oo... not cause of the spending na. Cause you understanding.


Most gals own is only to chop... nothing useful. no ambitious, no dreams.. no tin

lefulefu:
U can order for soft drink and light snacks while getting to know d girl. Its not a must u must order for fried rice,chicken and all the food on earth.order light snacks and u will spend less.

Divay22:
Don't be naive You're talking to your fellow man

Divay22:
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SO IT'S NOT A DATE IF PEOPLE DON'T EAT THINGS CARELESSLY AND TAKE PICTURES FOR FACEBOOK?
PEOPLE GO TO CHURCH AND SPEND OVER 4 HOURS ON EMPTY STOMACH AND DON'T BAT AN EYE.. BUT ON A 15MINS DATE TO TALK OR WHATEVER THEY REMEMBER ICE CREAM AND CHICKEN ARE THE MOST ESSENTIAL THINGS IN LIFE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU GOT TO MEASURE A PERSON'S WORTH BY HOW MUCH THEY CAN SPEND ON IRRELEVANT THINGS ON THE FIRST DAY YOU SPEND TIME. THE MENTALITY IS WHACK.
I'M HAVING THE BEST RELATIONSHIP THAT STILL FEELS LIKE I'M DREAMING AND FUNNY ENOUGH I NEVER PASSED THROUGH THIS PHASES. NOW THE DATES ARE COUNTLESS AND LADY SPENDS THE MONEY ON ME LIKE NO TOMORROW. IT'S LIKE A COMPETITION OR SOMETHING AND IT'S BEEN GOING ON FOR YEARS.
FIRST FEW TIMES WE HUNG OUT WAS BASICALLY AROUND THE BLOCK TALKING ABOUT SCIENCE, CONSTELLATION, RELIGION AND LIFE AND HERE WE ARE! I ONLY HAVE TO DO VERY EASY THINGS LIKE KILL BUGS AND EAT A** FOR PEACE TO REIGN. REAL BLESSING.
I DETEST HUNGRY PEOPLE, MAN. PEOPLE WHO ARE ALL ABOUT WHAT TO GAIN, WHAT TO TAKE.. AND NEVER ABOUT WHAT TO GIVE. SADLY THAT'S THE IDEA OF MOST PEOPLE THESE DAYS.

Wilfredpat22:
What stops the woman from paying for the guy on the first date and create a Good impression.

Honestly we ladies are useless

lefulefu:
hahahahahaha.. U cant blame her nah .. Its obvious its her first time of tasting ice cream. See guy there was this incident when i was in school then. One Sunday morning after service when i prepare my breakfast of fried eggs and bread. There is this my next door neighbour wich is lady. She's fond of coming to my room anytime i fry the eggs. She say she love the way d eggs taste. Ok there was this particular sunday another lady paid me a visit as i was preparing the eggs. Omo u need to see the anger on this other girl wey be my next door neigbour. She was just grumbling that my visitor will eat all d eggs. For food oo na im quarrel wan start. D other girl just took a little bite but when my next door neighbour come carry her share she will still grumbling underneath her breath. Some babes too like food dat dem go even dey embarrass themselves.

Frankicent:



lol shey you do shit with the gal

Frankicent:



Lol there is hunger in the land ooo.. Seriously you hunger. So you expect a guy to spend above 5k on a date.....

date is just a meet up place were you too can understand each other..

if I order sawarma or fried rice that one is not date again..

This gal talking am very sure she can't take a guy out.... chop chop.

lefulefu:
my brother i tire oo. Ppl do go to church in d mornings on empty stomach and dem no dey faint. See dat babe above us dat was saying how much is bottled water dat a guy will spend 3k on her on a first date. I still hold d believe dat ladies dat embarras demselves over food on a date are bush girls. A lady thats exposed will not freak over ordinary fried ri ce and turkey.she will even be d one that will even say soft drink will be ok for her when u make an order. Having said dis guys also should be firm on things they will order on a date if they know their pocket is not enuf cos its childlish for a full grown man to come on social media crying that he spent 10k for six plates of jollof rice and five laps of turkey for one babe on a date.dem no force am nau. Those babes u said u met dat spent on u without batting a n eye are probably classy ladies.

drkay:
I remember how I borrowed 10k from my friend 6yrs ago, to meet a lady I just met for the first time.
My transport, 1k was part of the expensis because I lived in another city.
I made her comfortable as I ordered same thing for us when she kept her option open. We both ate chicken and chips with water. I was very alert and serial calculation was going on in my head throughout our stay in d restaurant. She ordered some things for her kid sisters but I made it clear that I was on budget, she smiled and paid, no complaint nor anger.
She's my wife today and we are doing very great. It all started at chicken republic abk with a borrowed money but today....

Divay22:

Awww

chiommy123:
if you're not prepared why ask her out not overspending but at least make yourselves comfortable and enjoy your outing

zicoraads:

See your mouth like "Awwwwwwwww".

It's very easy for you lot to see all these stories like this and go "Awwwwwwwww". But the reality is something that is always very different. Most of you will not even act the way his wife acted.

Divay22:

Lol
Well, I can't speak for others , but for me i can.

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SO IT'S NOT A DATE IF PEOPLE DON'T EAT THINGS CARELESSLY AND TAKE PICTURES FOR FACEBOOK?
PEOPLE GO TO CHURCH AND SPEND OVER 4 HOURS ON EMPTY STOMACH AND DON'T BAT AN EYE.. BUT ON A 15MINS DATE TO TALK OR WHATEVER THEY REMEMBER ICE CREAM AND CHICKEN ARE THE MOST ESSENTIAL THINGS IN LIFE. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU GOT TO MEASURE A PERSON'S WORTH BY HOW MUCH THEY CAN SPEND ON IRRELEVANT THINGS ON THE FIRST DAY YOU SPEND TIME. THE MENTALITY IS WHACK.
I'M HAVING THE BEST RELATIONSHIP THAT STILL FEELS LIKE I'M DREAMING AND FUNNY ENOUGH I NEVER PASSED THROUGH THIS PHASES. NOW THE DATES ARE COUNTLESS AND LADY SPENDS THE MONEY ON ME LIKE NO TOMORROW. IT'S LIKE A COMPETITION OR SOMETHING AND IT'S BEEN GOING ON FOR YEARS.
FIRST FEW TIMES WE HUNG OUT WAS BASICALLY AROUND THE BLOCK TALKING ABOUT SCIENCE, CONSTELLATION, RELIGION AND LIFE AND HERE WE ARE! I ONLY HAVE TO DO VERY EASY THINGS LIKE KILL BUGS AND EAT A** FOR PEACE TO REIGN. REAL BLESSING.
I DETEST HUNGRY PEOPLE, MAN. PEOPLE WHO ARE ALL ABOUT WHAT TO GAIN, WHAT TO TAKE.. AND NEVER ABOUT WHAT TO GIVE. SADLY THAT'S THE IDEA OF MOST PEOPLE THESE DAYS.

IamLEGEND1:
Plate of rice for Mama Put na N150, small coke na N100. 250x2 = N500. make I see any broke bitch_wey go begin yarn dust say I no dey pay for date.
After we don chop, everybody go trek reach house.

93Miles:
How much is a plate of food?
3K cannot buy a good drink and meat talk more of food.


IMO: Minimum spent on first date should be 10k. Max 20k.

First impression matters..



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