THREAT CANNOT SUBDUE A WOMAN: LOVE WILL(Worth reading for wise men)

THE LION INSIDE A MAN DOES NOT EAT A WOMAN.
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At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his 20 years’ old wife. His father called him inside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our threats could give fear but not the same to a woman, especially the one you call your wife. The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power and she is the one you are giving it to. Your threats make her stronger'.

Most men believe that when a woman is being threatened, she is subdued. Thats a lie! Let us not be blind and still feel we have our eyes wide open.

Why is it that the moment a man starts having sex even with a 15 year old girl, she stops fearing him. If she were used to running to hide before when she sees him, that stops?

I will tell you something about women we have never believed.

Eve first talked with serpent, the enemy of God. She never feared to meet with him. She was the one who brought Adam closer to the serpent. Adam must have heard things about serpent from God and he kept his distance, but the woman never did the same. Women are not changed with fear.

A woman may likely stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting, but she is not sitting down inside her. Instead, she is evaluating the man's weaknesses and how to subdue him.

Throw your mind back to those days you knew men that were beating their wives and now. The men are getting older, who is suffering it today? All those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today while their men are now at the receiving end.

Let it become clear to you men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to subdue her.

God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wives'. Do you need explaination about that?! Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and prove it, she submits to you without you saying a word, but when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, the spirit of rebellion takes her over.

She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup in her heart against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.

The lion in men does not, and cannot, live up to doing to women the things it does to their fellow men. Women naturally know how to survive pains. They have the wherewithal to walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands.

In 2nd kings 8:1-6, the Shunemite woman left her country with her family because of famine and returned seven years later. On her return, she discovered that her family valuables had been taken over by others. Her husband never stood up for his family. The woman, however, went straight to the king to ask for her things back. Where was her husband?

There are things women fear but not the lion inside men. They can submit and respect their men so foolishly that you will imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts; unfortunately, men don't have and they don’t realize this truth!!!
Men won't have compatible relationship with women by showing the lion inside of them. God knew women better than us and strongly advised that we show them love rather than threats. God knew that threat won't be the formula. The formula is: CONQUER YOUR WOMAN WITH LOVE and you will live long and enjoy it!

When a woman is loved, you ‘break’ all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with and submit to a man who is honestly in love with her.

Remember: Talk gently to your Woman. Don't shout. Refrain from arrogantly displaying your weakness as a Man. Restrai

In the first place don't hire who you can't fire. Not that you should divorce your wife, but before marriage you ought to have seen some things about your wife to be that should guide you.

The bottomline still, is to always be in control of yourself. Treat her how she deserves to be treated and above all ALWAYS BE THE ONE WINNING THE BREAD, COS THAT'S THE BEGINNING OF OTHER 'BEING IN CHARGE'. Beating your wife is vain if you know the power of silence, self respect and being a man in the true sense of the word.
Just loving her is not enough or else she will play you someday having seen you so sheepishly love her.
NB: IT IS WRONG TO SAY MEN DON'T HAVE GUTS. DO YOU KNOW HISTORY AT ALL? THE TRUTH IS THAT WOMEN NATURALLY HAVE THE ABILITY TO APPEAL TO MEN ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE IN DISTRESS, THAT'S THE NATURAL ORDER OF THINGS. PERSONALLY, MY DEFENCES GET BLOWN AWAY WHEN I SEE A PREGNANT WOMAN OR A WOMAN WITH A CHILD WHO NEEDS HELP. I LOSE EVERY RESISTANCE IN ME JUST TO OFFER HELP, THAT IS THE WAY WE ARE WIRED. Again, JUST loving your wife without being knowledgeable to attend to her many questions as well as providing for her and family has a limit. I know men who do not show excessive love to their wife, and of course they don't beat them too but their intelligence, power, self dependency, no nonsense approach etc makes them get all the respect they deserve from their wife. PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY, LOVE YOUR CHILDREN, DEPEND ON YOURSELF AND GOD, OTHER THINGS WILL NATURALLY FOLLOW.

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THREAT CANNOT SUBDUE A WOMAN: LOVE WILL(Worth reading for wise men)

THE LION INSIDE A MAN DOES NOT EAT A WOMAN.
......

At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his 20 years’ old wife. His father called him inside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our threats could give fear but not the same to a woman, especially the one you call your wife. The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power and she is the one you are giving it to. Your threats make her stronger'.

Most men believe that when a woman is being threatened, she is subdued. Thats a lie! Let us not be blind and still feel we have our eyes wide open.

Why is it that the moment a man starts having sex even with a 15 year old girl, she stops fearing him. If she were used to running to hide before when she sees him, that stops?

I will tell you something about women we have never believed.

Eve first talked with serpent, the enemy of God. She never feared to meet with him. She was the one who brought Adam closer to the serpent. Adam must have heard things about serpent from God and he kept his distance, but the woman never did the same. Women are not changed with fear.

A woman may likely stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting, but she is not sitting down inside her. Instead, she is evaluating the man's weaknesses and how to subdue him.

Throw your mind back to those days you knew men that were beating their wives and now. The men are getting older, who is suffering it today? All those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today while their men are now at the receiving end.

Let it become clear to you men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to subdue her.

God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wives'. Do you need explaination about that?! Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and prove it, she submits to you without you saying a word, but when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, the spirit of rebellion takes her over.

She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup in her heart against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.

Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.

The lion in men does not, and cannot, live up to doing to women the things it does to their fellow men. Women naturally know how to survive pains. They have the wherewithal to walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands.

In 2nd kings 8:1-6, the Shunemite woman left her country with her family because of famine and returned seven years later. On her return, she discovered that her family valuables had been taken over by others. Her husband never stood up for his family. The woman, however, went straight to the king to ask for her things back. Where was her husband?

There are things women fear but not the lion inside men. They can submit and respect their men so foolishly that you will imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts; unfortunately, men don't have and they don’t realize this truth!!!
Men won't have compatible relationship with women by showing the lion inside of them. God knew women better than us and strongly advised that we show them love rather than threats. God knew that threat won't be the formula. The formula is: CONQUER YOUR WOMAN WITH LOVE and you will live long and enjoy it!

When a woman is loved, you ‘break’ all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with and submit to a man who is honestly in love with her.

Remember: Talk gently to your Woman. Don't shout. Refrain from arrogantly displaying your weakness as a Man. Restrai

Try loving my ex... all your valuable stuffs will be gone in a twinkle of an eye