dingbang:
I wouldn't even seek the opinion of a pastor regarding any woman I want to marry

NuclearWeapon:


Why?

dingbang:
cuz they aren't qualified to give me such advice

oluwatodimu1:
Pls dont let others push u into making decisions u may or maynot later regret.
It all depends on your personal relationship wit God. i'ld say u shld get 2 knw d mind of God on issues that concern you

Biglittlelois:
I know of someone who didnt heed pastor's advice and regrets till today, i also know of people who listened to pastor's advice and also regrets, so it's a dicey situation really.

NuclearWeapon:


Mind sharing what the pastor saw or was it an advice based on physical things the pastor observed?

Biglittlelois:


Not physical things, she went for counseling, pastor told her she wont enjoy her marriage cos of her mother in law, and that is exactly what happened, her husband's mother virtually controls the air he breathes, now they are seperated.

The other lady listened to her pastor not to marry her man, the man later married the pastor's daughter(he is wealthy) she's still single till today.

Biglittlelois:


Not physical things, she went for counseling, pastor told her she wont enjoy her marriage cos of her mother in law, and that is exactly what happened, her husband's mother virtually controls the air he breathes, now they are seperated.

The other lady listened to her pastor not to marry her man, the man later married the pastor's daughter(he is wealthy) she's still single till today.

gloria34:
I luv my church, aside genotype and other health issues, nobody advice u or see any funny vision against ur spouse. I will marry who I want to marry, if things don't work out (which I am not looking forward to), I'll know its my decision, if it does, thank God.

gloria34:
about d mother-in-law, that's something the girl ought to have noticed, it was an advice not a vision. d oda girl was just being stupid, d kind of people that worship their pastors and takes their word as final says

gloria34:
about d mother-in-law, that's something the girl ought to have noticed, it was an advice not a vision. d oda girl was just being stupid, d kind of people that worship their pastors and takes their word as final says

DanDeeBoss:
Lol... I won't go to any pastor for advice on whom to marry... I will pray myself and get directions one on one.... No come pour sand inside my garri

Biglittlelois:


There was nothing to notice, the woman was super nice and welcomed her with open arms, and he is not the only son, she is extremely close to all her children, everyone thought her children listens to her out of respect, after marriage she noticed her husband calls her to ask permission for everything, tells her everything, she told them to have just one kid, like wtf!! i know this cos she's a close cousin.

As for the other one yeah she was stupid.

Biglittlelois:


There was nothing to notice, the woman was super nice and welcomed her with open arms, and he is not the only son, she is extremely close to all her children, everyone thought her children listens to her out of respect, after marriage she noticed her husband calls her to ask permission for everything, tells her everything, she told them to have just one kid, like wtf!! i know this cos she's a close cousin.

As for the other one yeah she was stupid.

gloria34:
see one chance bus! that's bad

IamPlato:
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Depends On The Pastor... If Na Tithe and Offering Pastor better Run

gloria34:
see one chance bus! that's bad

Wilfredpat22:
You don’t need to go to a pastor to marry a lady in this our present 3rd world country

Tips you guys you need to know

1) if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are merely putting a ring to a woman that is tired of sleeping with numerous men. An average girl by 26 must have slept with a minimum of 22 guys and some she cannot even remember. Now imagine you marry someone of 32.


2) Thé economy is not smiling. If she is not independent or shows no signs of working or earning. She is going to be useless and a burden to you. You spent millions on that wedding and yet you will feed a full grown adult with no disabilities for the rest of your life?

3)when she has different boyfriends that she keeps regularly by chatting on WhatsApp, facebook, instagram. And you don’t cut it while you guys are courting. Sorry is your case

4) Don’t spend on a woman more than what you will give your own sister or mother. It’s obvious you can’t sleep with your sister or mother but don’t let our push overcloud your sense of thinking and investment ideas. The truth still remains We have nothing to offer or bring to the table. Treat every relationship as a contract or business deal. We give you the pussy, you give us the money. Once you are satisfied with the woman’s body counts of 70, you can now proceed with the marriage rites


It is a known fact men in Nigeria have shorter life span than we ladies. Why is it so? Have you thought about it? Won’t you like to see your great grand children and break that spell.



Catch them young and leave 25 - 30 years to be lesbians