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This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by Okimski(m): 5:38pm On Sep 26, 2018
What do you look for in a man? Every woman has a list of things she expects the man she’ll love to have and do. Some of these lists are written while some are not but there’s always a subconscious checklist women go through when they meet someone new. Some women expect their man to be Tall, Dark and Handsome while others expect him to be funny, well spoken and fashionable.

There’s nothing wrong with all this, but they’re not the most important quality to look for in a man. Good looks and charm can feel great at the beginning of a relationship, but what happens when they wear off? What happens when you’ve read your man’s poetry and started to get familiar with his muscles? What then?

That’s why the number one quality you should look for in a man is kindness.

Kindness seems like such a simple thing. It’s underestimated and overlooked, but kindness is a major factor in making a relationship and even a marriage work. It takes a kind man to offer to drive you to work when it’s raining and all the streets are flooded. It takes kindness for a man to go out in the middle of the night and buy you something you are craving when you’re pregnant.
Kindness is the most beautiful quality a man can have, because only a kind man can treat you like the queen you are without making you feel like he’s doing you a favour. Biceps are awesome and good looks are great, but sisters it’s time to look beyond them and focus on what really matters. Get yourself a kind man today. Your heart will thank you for it.

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Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by Arkmanbuddy(m): 6:24pm On Sep 26, 2018
So on point. I just hope the today's women have the insight to recognise a kind man, they're all looking for tall, rich and handsome men to marry. Many are now regretting their actions.

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Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by Okimski(m): 8:06pm On Sep 26, 2018
A kind hearted man is a righteous man.
Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:25am On Sep 27, 2018
I agree. A kind man is naturally thoughtful. He knows when to step in without having to ask him.

It's always been one of the major qualities I look out for in a man.

Settling with someone who isn't kind and thougtful shall never be my portion, because I'll be so stressed! I hate to bother people.. I don't feel comfortable asking people to do things for me...asking them to go out of their way. So, a kind person would make life easy for me.
Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by bigpicture001: 3:44am On Sep 27, 2018
...u missed it...I think every thing is in bedded in a man that has " conscience "...with that he has it all
Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by Okimski(m): 8:23am On Sep 27, 2018
bigpicture001:
...u missed it...I think every thing is in bedded in a man that has " conscience "...with that he has it all
Conscience is one of the qualities of kindness
Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by bigpicture001: 8:45am On Sep 27, 2018
Okimski:
Conscience is one of the qualities of kindness
..no its d oda way round...

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Re: This Is The Number 1 Quality You Should Look For In A Man by Nobody: 8:56am On Sep 27, 2018
Make no mistake of judging his kindness by how nice he is to you but to his friends, neighbors, kids,elders and strangers.
You are the price, he may do anything to get.


Nice point op, but that number one spot remains relative grin

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