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Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Nobody: 6:26pm On Sep 28, 2018
MariaLavina:
Toilet affection grin cheesy
what's wrong with you? Must you make fun of people's weakness.Moreover the op enunciated his inadequacy in written English.
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Nobody: 6:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
vingeophysicist:
what's wrong with you? Must you make fun of people's weakness.Moreover the op enunciated his inadequacy in written English.
Relax , take a deep breath.
You are starting to cry more than the bereaved grin
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 6:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
Oyindidi:
Pastor!

Hmm see my lov tongue
Oyin my lover how are u. kiss
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 6:31pm On Sep 28, 2018
yommyk222:


I know sir but it not an easy decision for me too

Alright, so forget the gal an move on,
There thousands out there better n more pretty.
So don't kill y'all self over a cheating one.
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 6:34pm On Sep 28, 2018
tossie101:


The guy said the truth now.
Aunty i thought u once told me u a mother. undecided
Mother indeed! ,He killed period

Lol na my wife she be Neva mind smiley
How are u dear?
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Oyindidi(f): 7:22pm On Sep 28, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Hmm see my lov tongue
Oyin my lover how are u. kiss
You too like troublegrin

NIGHTMAREOO7:


Lol na my wife she be Neva mind smiley
How are u dear?
Troll
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 7:27pm On Sep 28, 2018
Oyindidi:
You too like troublegrin

Troll

Hmm troll Kwa..
Anyway how u doing swthrt, hope say u don chop? undecided
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Oyindidi(f): 7:28pm On Sep 28, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Hmm troll Kwa..
Anyway how u doing swthrt, hope say u don chop? undecided
I never chopgrin
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 7:29pm On Sep 28, 2018
Oyindidi:
I never chopgrin

Why nau?.
And I Dey hereundecided.
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Oyindidi(f): 7:33pm On Sep 28, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:


Why nau?.
And I Dey hereundecided.
meaning?
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by lexotan(m): 7:36pm On Sep 28, 2018
Simply know that ur relationship with dat babe is inconclusive for now,u can later av a rerun if u wish.

Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by yommyk222(m): 8:17pm On Sep 28, 2018
lexotan:
Simply know that ur relationship with dat babe is inconclusive for now,u can later av a rerun if u wish.

Lolz, I actually feel less stress after some advice I got here

Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by prettyaura: 9:03pm On Sep 28, 2018
This is one of d problems we cause for ourselves....someone u love and care for so much got pregnant for someone else and u are here thinking abt some "good times" u shared together instead of finding a way to move on and be a better person for yourself....smh...d past is a prisoner, if u subject urself To it, u will be a slave to d past forever...and for ur job, continue till u get a better offer..being a better person is d best revenge ever!.my one cent.
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by donstan18: 10:31pm On Sep 28, 2018
Oyindidi:
meaning?

Your siggi
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Tonymegabush1(m): 10:39pm On Sep 28, 2018
Honestly I can't figure it out why do guys that are still struggling in life be releasing their cream inside a lady to me is an act of foolishness afterwards they will start looking for hospital to abort the pregnancy,

@ op honestly this you reasoning of abortion has erased every bit of an advice I have for although am not judging you but you should have done better
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Nobody: 12:25am On Sep 29, 2018
Some people can kill themselves because of bitches.
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Oyindidi(f): 4:26am On Sep 29, 2018
donstan18:


Your siggi
I no understand
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by NIGHTMAREOO7: 7:29am On Sep 29, 2018
Oyindidi:
meaning?

Why u Neva chop, my lov
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by donstan18: 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2018
Oyindidi:
I no understand

Is the corper a lady?
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by BrokenCock: 1:28am On Sep 30, 2018
Millenniumlady:
Don't make that mistake of quitting your job just because someone broke your heart.....Find a to start your graphic design lessons...... you'll be fine trust me smiley

Are you the cute babe on ur profile? Im tempted to want to chat wt you
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Oyindidi(f): 4:54am On Sep 30, 2018
donstan18:


Is the corper a lady?
Yes, are you in Asaba?
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by DateMynd44(m): 10:16am On Oct 03, 2018
donstan18:

Oboy wetin dey worry you? You no get shame?

Is she your wife or did you pay for her bride pice that you should expect much faithfulness from her?

I keep saying it; One cannot LOVE and be WISE at the same time.

-You lost your job[Waiter] because of her.
-You supported abortion because of her.
-You bought her a phone to impress her.
-You sacrificed your sleep just to wish her HBD, all to find out that another guy has been doing computer programming in her kpekus.

And you had the audacity, guts and impetus to come here crying that you love her, you can't concentrate and want to quit your job again?

Tufiakwa!!!

Just kill yourself and run away, because that's the only thing that can reset, retrieve and return your common sense from this bondage of Calabar toto.
bro you forgot the girl is a calabar magic pot?
their toto can reformat someone's brain grin
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by DateMynd44(m): 10:18am On Oct 03, 2018
Gomd:
Omo
This English has made me lose my ability to comprehend o
I can't understand
I don't know what to do
Got me losing my cool.
u read that Part where he made mentioned of "toilet effection" grin
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by DateMynd44(m): 10:20am On Oct 03, 2018
MariaLavina:
Toilet affection grin cheesy
oboy I swear I laugh die grin
Re: I Just Find Out That My Girlfriend Have Been Cheating On Me, What Is The Way Out by Nobody: 10:28am On Oct 03, 2018
yommyk222:
Please i am not a good writer, just read it the way I write it.

It all happen that since 2012 that I broke-up with my girlfriend because her mother did not approve our relationship, It was as if my life is disaster. I then vow not to engage in any relationship again until I am ready to settle down, Note: I become a deeper life member in 2014

It happen on February I meet this Calabar girl were we both work in a restaurant as waiter and waitress. And I was interested on her, but I always pull her leg by asking her how is her boyfriend doing and the reply she always give me is that she don't have a boyfriend. After many observation I decided to propose to her and she accept my proposal that very night it was as if that was the happiest moment of my life that I finally find what I have been searching for after 5years.

Along the line she got pregnant on April and I believe it my own then until I find out the truth recent so I doubt if that pregnant is really my own. I told her to abort it then because I am not planning to settle down at the moment and I don't have what it take to be a father yet, she insist that she will not abort it. After some weeks her mother find out and ask her who is responsible, she call me that her mother ask me to come over, I town it down without much thinking. After some weeks she suddenly agree to abort it which I give him money to do that and to treat her effection too because she was having toilet effection then, I spent almost all my salary on her then because what I earn them is 30k while she earn 20k.

The restaurant worker find out that we are both dating and they report the issue to the company management. To me it look like insult so I resign without much thinking, I spent roughly 2 weeks at home jobless before I got a security job that they pay me #17,500 per month. That is never my problem all I know is just to make her happy. She later fought with the restaurant supervisor over the same issue and they sack her...

To cut the long story short, along the line her birthday is close and I want to surprise her with something. Her phone is not good again, then come to think of it how can someone that earn just #17,500 monthly buy good for for someone, luckily before then I hit a small jackpot on bet9ja because i am a punter. I then contact bobo65 to help me order for a phone from AliExpress and the phone arrive 3 weeks after..

Tuesday was her birthday. I was awake till 12am just to be the first person to send her birthday wish which I finally did, she insist I should come to her place that very day, which I did I get there place around 7pm I meet her sister and mother there, I give her the gift I bought for her she seems so happy, but that day the way I see her she is pregnant because after we both left the restaurant we don't see like before again,

And finally after so much investigation and analysis as a Betting specialist, Lolz. I find out another guy at her computer school I have bleeping her. I feel so heartbreaking, so discouraged, betray I can't just control my emotions. I am planning to resign from my current job. And pursue my dream as a graphic design so that I can get better job. It look like this is my first break up but it not. Please help me I can I forget about the feelings I have for her and the time we have both spent together, this things keep flashing my mind. I am unable to concentrate with my work again. But 90% of my friends and family advise not to resign that is not the solution to my problem. Please were can I start cry cry cry
Sorry bro...

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