The European brand Christianity was very successful in making polygamy unattractive to Africans & the world.

But, being that men seem to be natural polygamists, the resulting culture of one-man-one-wife has manifested so many problems (which is topic for another day).

One anomaly of this culture - and one that is very recent - is the incidence of babymamarism. You know what I mean; don't you? This is the most modernized manifestation of men's innate polygamist nature that is becoming a culture now.

To my fellow men I say: as we proudly turn baby papas, let's not forget that envy in the average lady out there would make her go to any length to take revenge on you when she feels you jilted her in favour of another. Imagine the gravity when a number of ladies are enviously after YOU! It's the reason many once-bubbling youngsters, have become a shadow of their former selves, and many have died prematurely.

Youthful exuberance won't let many of us listen to this until it happens.