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The Great Gain by Daisy101: 10:47am On Apr 23, 2020
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Re: The Great Gain by zionmde: 10:51am On Apr 23, 2020
admin pls hide her identity
Nne have heard of iguedo goko cleanser?

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Re: The Great Gain by SweetCunt97(f): 10:52am On Apr 23, 2020
Atleast he was able to get you pregnant, that's a good start. He's probably stressed.

I'm sure there are herbs that will do the job though. .

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Re: The Great Gain by Nwodosis(m): 10:54am On Apr 23, 2020
Those against pre-marital sex during courtship are in better position and needed here to advice her.

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Re: The Great Gain by Olalan(m): 10:55am On Apr 23, 2020
Have an honest talk with him

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Re: The Great Gain by Iyiataata92: 11:07am On Apr 23, 2020
I think he's still trying to get used to having sex with a pregnant woman.
Like me that is not yet married, sometimes I find it disgusting when trying to imagine how sex with a pregnant woman would be. Maybe it comes with some physical and emotional stress.
Since he's able to get you pregnant less than 1 year after marriage, I'm counting out medical problems. Maybe he's taking those drugs to try to force himself against his emotions.
If you can, I suggest you leave him for now until your baby is born and see if there will be changes.

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Re: The Great Gain by aaking(m): 11:09am On Apr 23, 2020
Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if u reside in southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating

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Re: The Great Gain by Iyiataata92: 11:10am On Apr 23, 2020
Olalan:
Have an honest talk with him
You got nothing to say. What is honest talk in this situation now?

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Re: The Great Gain by TANTUMERGO007(m): 11:10am On Apr 23, 2020
Smiles, give am Adonko bitters before knack and pre-intimacy is so key, make sure your pussy is fresh suck and stroke his diick and make sure as he's sucking your pussy you squeezing his diick that man go Bleep you like an Hungry lion.

You need to know his fetish, like me I don't even need head just massage the diick while I chew the clitoris after my ADONKO its over. The key is knowing his turn on

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Re: The Great Gain by YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy: 11:10am On Apr 23, 2020
Nwodosis:
Those against pre-marital sex during courtship will have a better advice to give here.
So because of one case of mishaps which could have been easily avoidable if the hubby just made himself honest to his partner, we should now embrace premarital sex and fornication abi?

#SayNoToFornication

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Re: The Great Gain by YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy: 11:11am On Apr 23, 2020
And OP, you should know that some men have a thing against banging pregnant ladies.
Especially if its the first pregnancy undecided

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Re: The Great Gain by Iyiataata92: 11:12am On Apr 23, 2020
aaking:
Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if is southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating
She said he's a medical doctor.
So convincing him to take this medicine you are recommending will rank among the most difficult jobs in the world

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Re: The Great Gain by baralatie(m): 11:14am On Apr 23, 2020
do not give him any aphrodisiac.
your husband got you pregnant means that he does not have any erectile dysfunction.
rather he is not or he is holding back since you are pregnant. if so,it is his mind set as it surrounds having intercourse with a pregnant wife.
just relax

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Re: The Great Gain by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 23, 2020
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Re: The Great Gain by donbachi(m): 11:22am On Apr 23, 2020
Madam,if u no sey u go cheat on am.if no solution is found.walk out now..cos una wey be women,no dey use fvck play..i know wetin i dey talk...e come be dis period wey couples use sex dey baff.

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Re: The Great Gain by Dogalmighty17: 11:26am On Apr 23, 2020
You must be aware that not all men are sexually attracted to pregnant women. Your pregnancy might be a mental block for him. So don't over react. He is fine.

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Re: The Great Gain by Nwodosis(m): 11:29am On Apr 23, 2020
YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

So because of one case of mishaps which could have been easily avoidable if the hubby just made himself honest to his partner, we should now embrace premarital sex and fornication abi?

#SayNoToFornication

Advice her please

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Re: The Great Gain by Sadsoulnow: 11:52am On Apr 23, 2020
Daisy101:
I'm not pleased with what has been happening at home and I have been in a dilemma. My husband has lost sex drive and it's affecting me and our relationship. We're a young couple(1 year) and I'm pregnant. I've tried to seduce him. No change. It's been getting me sad and irritable lately.

Yesterday, I tried discussing the issue with him. I asked what I have done wrong and he said nothing. I noticed that he's been taking a drug called vigomax forte. He keeps d card in the car. I searched and found that it's for erectile dysfunction which got me shaking.

I'm afraid that he has this problem and has been hiding it from me. How do I confront him about the drug and his attitude? To even imagine that he's a doctor and acting up this way is disheartening.

Help give her advice esp medical professionals.
It's psychological, he will get over it with some food supplements. Ask if he masturbates,that could be a factor too.

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Re: The Great Gain by zexy2030(m): 12:17pm On Apr 23, 2020
sometimes knowledge interferes with emotion, communication is key, sex is good but put in mood learn his love language.

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Re: The Great Gain by Bola146(f): 12:35pm On Apr 23, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Atleast he was able to get you pregnant, that's a good start. He's probably stressed.

I'm sure there are herbs that will do the job though. .

Lobatan! What else does she want

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Re: The Great Gain by Nobody: 12:56pm On Apr 23, 2020
It feels kind of weird seeing women complaining of not getting sex. They don't seem like they need it, or even have sexual needs, unless pressured and pressed into it.

The husband is expected to be the worried one here.

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Re: The Great Gain by DEIFIED(m): 1:17pm On Apr 23, 2020
I would have follow what many people up there wrote. but seeing that he has been using that drugs which I believe has started failing him. it mean the problem has probably been there before you even knew him. try and ask him more to tell you what the problem really is.

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Re: The Great Gain by Globad: 1:18pm On Apr 23, 2020
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Re: The Great Gain by nickvanilla(m): 1:31pm On Apr 23, 2020
Patience Madam. Patience. He's the doctor and should know the right way to treat his problem.
Re: The Great Gain by Shormiey(m): 1:31pm On Apr 23, 2020
aaking:
Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if u reside in southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating
Stop attaching masturbation to his misdemeanour......masturbation doesn't cause erectile dysfunction.....dude, might be an artificial sugar consumption expert and that alone could knock his dick out....so what are you saying?....too much of everything we eat or do always have negative impact be it masturbation or excess sugar intake..

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Re: The Great Gain by aaking(m): 1:43pm On Apr 23, 2020
Shormiey:

Stop attaching masturbation to his misdemeanour......masturbation doesn't cause erectile dysfunction.....dude, might be an artificial sugar consumption expert and that alone could knock his dick out....so what are you saying?....too much of everything we eat or do always have negative impact be it masturbation or excess sugar intake..


Guy you de console yourself . If you are doing it continue don't stop but don't come and be writing history for us ooo

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Re: The Great Gain by AmbitiousDrama7: 1:48pm On Apr 23, 2020
Daisy101:
I'm not pleased with what has been happening at home and I have been in a dilemma. My husband has lost sex drive and it's affecting me and our relationship. We're a young couple(1 year) and I'm pregnant. I've tried to seduce him. No change. It's been getting me sad and irritable lately.

Yesterday, I tried discussing the issue with him. I asked what I have done wrong and he said nothing. I noticed that he's been taking a drug called vigomax forte. He keeps d card in the car. I searched and found that it's for erectile dysfunction which got me shaking.

I'm afraid that he has this problem and has been hiding it from me. How do I confront him about the drug and his attitude? To even imagine that he's a doctor and acting up this way is disheartening.

Help give her advice esp medical professionals.

he might not like banging a pregnant woman

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Re: The Great Gain by Stewart883(m): 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2020
Nwodosis:
Those against pre-marital sex during courtship are in better position and needed here to advice her.

Exactly my brother. Let's hear what they have to say
Re: The Great Gain by Stewart883(m): 1:57pm On Apr 23, 2020
baralatie:
do not give him any aphrodisiac.
your husband got you pregnant means that he does not have any erectile dysfunction.
rather he is not or he is holding back since you are pregnant. if so,it is his mind set as it surrounds having intercourse with a pregnant wife.
just relax

Oga it seems u don't understand the difference between "erectile dysfunction" and "low sperm count". Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve a hard erection for sexual intercourse, it has noting to do with fertility.

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Re: The Great Gain by Futurejoy(f): 2:07pm On Apr 23, 2020
The best thing to do is talk to him about it. Sit down and talk like two mature people, I don’t think he has erectile dysfunction cos if he does you won’t be pregnant. Prolly cook a nice dish, serve him well and just make him happy, after the food he will ask you what’s up and what the treat is for then you tell him you want both of you to discuss . That moment, ask him if he still feels attracted to you cos some men have the issue of having sex with their wives when they are pregnant while some don’t , some can have sex with their wives during pregnancy but detest having sex with their wives after she put to birth. It is something that can be discussed and sorted out without coming on Nairaland to degrade your husband. How do you think he will feel if he sees this post?

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Re: The Great Gain by baralatie(m): 2:17pm On Apr 23, 2020
Stewart883:


Oga it seems u don't understand the difference between "erectile dysfunction" and "low sperm count". Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve a hard erection for sexual intercourse, it has noting to do with fertility.
are you insinuating that she got pregnant from another man other than her husband?
Re: The Great Gain by Stewart883(m): 2:33pm On Apr 23, 2020
baralatie:

are you insinuating that she got pregnant from another man other than her husband?

What I am saying is that he isn't impotent but has erection problems which occur in older men from time to time.

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