The internet is filled with a lot of things about how to have good sex, how to have an enduring sex life and the best position for sex. Yet, little is said of the aftermath of this pleasure involved in sexual intercourse.


There are lots of things married men ought to know about their women after sexual intercourse. They ought to know the pitfalls to avoid in their sexual connection with their wives.

To score high in your wife’s eye and stand a better chance of an intimate connection, Here are some things you must avoid after sexual intercourse:

#Fall asleep immediately

While this annoying habit can be avoided, it is not always the case because it extends to a chemical reaction. Orgasm releases a cocktail of chemicals that often work like a mega dose of piriton. Then again sex often takes place around bedtime, in bed, and after exerting themselves after a long day it is natural their body will want to rest. That, however, should not always be the case. Build some energy and get your partner a late drink or find something you can both enjoy.

#Turning on the TV

While it may sound like no big deal the truth is, it is. Turning on the TV or picking up your phone will leave your partner feeling abandoned and make her feel unimportant to you. According to Certified Sex Therapist and Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist Deborah Fox, by having sex with you, a woman has made herself vulnerable. If you disconnect, you’ll leave her feeling unsafe and insecure.


#Showering immediately

Not everyone enjoys the sweaty, sticky, smelly aspect of sex which is very understandable, and some people will scurry off to the bathroom to wash up immediately after. While there are some very good reasons why you should shower after sex, do not be in a hurry to do so. You will give her the impression that you’re washing her off. Linger for a while, hold a conversation, give her a massage etc. This will give her a clear message that you love all of her and you’re not in a rush to wash it all away.

#Asking her to leave

Nothing comes close to the humiliation a woman feels after having sex with you, you then ask her to leave your side. She will feel like a worthless piece of paper.

#Become physically distant

If you become distant, your wife will notice. Staying connected is very important to a woman according to the sex therapist, Deborah Fox. If you don’t touch, cuddle or say complimentary things to her, she’s likely to withdraw. Sex isn’t an event for her that ends in orgasm and it shouldn’t be for you either.

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