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Re: . by StrongandMighty: 10:33am On Oct 06, 2018
RussianKGB:

You welcome, you can reach me via pm. As for the ban well it could be anti spam bot. Anyways take k and hope you're getting urslf back 2gether.
Yes am getting better.. Tnkz I'll reach you
Re: . by daviesblaze(m): 10:44am On Oct 06, 2018
StrongandMighty:

Please do you know how I can build that confidence.. It's really lacking in me

very easy, the summarized answer is Fake it till you Make it.

you should start by having interactions with strangers (Both Male and Female). A simple Hi, or how's your day going won't hurt.
stop viewing women as some celestial creatures that needs to be worshiped. you should start treating them the same way you would treat your Sister at home. if she says something stupid, tell her how stupid that sounds. if she is acting bitchy, ignore or tease her bitchy attitudes.

Set a target on the number of strangers you should approach in a day (say 5 or 10). if you follow this advice, you should start experiencing results and a big difference in your personality within 2 weeks.

Now about your girlfriend, you should consider implementing a triangle on it.
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:31am On Oct 06, 2018
daviesblaze:


very easy, the summarized answer is Fake it till you Make it.

you should start by having interactions with strangers (Both Male and Female). A simple Hi, or how's your day going won't hurt.
stop viewing women as some celestial creatures that needs to be worshiped. you should start treating them the same way you would treat your Sister at home. if she says something stupid, tell her how stupid that sounds. if she is acting bitchy, ignore or tease her bitchy attitudes.

Set a target on the number of strangers you should approach in a day (say 5 or 10). if you follow this advice, you should start experiencing results and a big difference in your personality within 2 weeks.

Now about your girlfriend, you should consider implementing a triangle on it.
Please what do you mean by implementing a triangle on it?
Re: . by kweenphavy(f): 2:36pm On Oct 06, 2018
[quote author=StrongandMighty post=71765437]Have you ever been in a relationship and you feel like your partner is cheating on you? Or perhaps your instinct keeps telling you that your partner is cheating on you or might leave you anytime soon? .. Anything your partner does makes your heart skip like not returning your texts on time, not calling you on phone or not even picking up your calls because of some reasons and your mood changes automatically and immediately ur partner replies ur texts or calls you back it immediately brightens up ur mood, Like you can't get the thought of your partner cheating on you out of your mind and you feel like you can't handle it if it happens .. You think about ur partner cheating on you every minute of the day, your heart is breaking already as a result of what your instinct tells you but you've no evidence to prove it.... This is the situation am in right now, it's like am drowning every day, I've totally lost my happiness because of a relationship not that I've an evidence of her cheating just that my instinct keeps telling me so.. Please guys nd ladies in the house help a brother, I need to get myself back, I never bargain for my happiness to depend on someone.. How can I get myself out of this mess...

How do you feel bringing up your relationship issue online, for this alone you need to tender an apology to her.
Re: . by daviesblaze(m): 3:43pm On Oct 06, 2018
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Re: . by daviesblaze(m): 4:47pm On Oct 06, 2018
StrongandMighty:

Please what do you mean by implementing a triangle on it?



Start making friends with tons of women, don't be afraid to pick female calls when in her company, flirt with different ladies that catches your fancy.

If she confronts you about it, simply dismiss her tantrums by teasing her about how silly she looks in making a big deal out of nothing, then proceed by assuring her about how she is the lucky one among women orbiting you web.

This way, you are creating an abundance mentality not only for yourself but also towards her. she would start getting the vibe that she is easily replaceable. This is where are emotions kicks in. it will keep her on her toes and get her more attached to you. she will start doing things to prove to you that she is the one for you.
This is where the opportunity of getting her more emotionally invested in the relationship than you do comes in. once she gets invested, it will become very difficult for her to break-up with you.

You see my friend, Love or whatever you guys call it, is like a game of chess, there will always be a loser and a winner. everything is fair. you don't want to walk out being the loser do you undecided ??

WARNING!!! Be ready for the side effects though (But what will a relationship be called, if there is no little bit of drama to spice the brew wink wink

Cheers!!! cool cool
Re: . by daviesblaze(m): 4:50pm On Oct 06, 2018
kweenphavy:
How do you feel bringing up your relationship issue online, for this alone you need to tender an apology to her.

Calm down lady.

This is all about him not her. you sure wouldn't want a murder prone individual as your boyfriend, do you? wink
Re: . by anayolity: 5:16pm On Oct 06, 2018
StrongandMighty:

I've asked her several times and she says no.. That there's no point cheating when she knows she can walk out of d relationship if the feelings re no longer.. She tells me abt guys that are after her.. The ones she feels like telling me oh and it makes matters worst

I know this feeling bro.... I can totally relate ... I'm this kinda person that hates getting emotionally attached but then I decided to go into this relationship with a girl I love so much .....She feels same for me too... Just this week I felt a strong feeling that something is wrong... I summoned up courage and asked her " What are you not telling" babe opened up that she's liking someone (kinda) and they have kissed twice ... I felt an AFRO on my skincut ... Distance has a way of tearing relationship apart....she's coming to Lagos next week where I'm based.... although will be visiting me often and spending some days with me while staying with her family but that thought ruined everything ... she's a good girl and have some qualities I desire... even though she apologized and promised to cut ties with the guy.... I don't believe it at all, Its making go back to being old person I used to be till I find someone better again .... But I'll find a way to build the relationship, I'll rather be the one to end it!!!

Right now I just hang out a lot with a very nice female friend..... Guys can't do the magic sometimes!!!
Re: . by anayolity: 5:17pm On Oct 06, 2018
StrongandMighty:

I've asked her several times and she says No.. I don't even know how to go abt the investigation
I know this feeling bro.... I can totally relate ... I'm this kinda person that hates getting emotionally attached but then I decided to go into this relationship with a girl I love so much .....She feels same for me too... Just this week I felt a strong feeling that something is wrong... I summoned up courage and asked her " What are you not telling" babe opened up that she's liking someone (kinda) and they have kissed twice ... I felt an AFRO on my skincut ... Distance has a way of tearing relationship apart....she's coming to Lagos next week where I'm based.... although will be visiting me often and spending some days with me while staying with her family but that thought ruined everything ... she's a good girl and have some qualities I desire... even though she apologized and promised to cut ties with the guy.... I don't believe it at all, Its making go back to being old person I used to be till I find someone better again .... But I'll find a way to build the relationship, I'll rather be the one to end it!!!

Right now I just hang out a lot with a very nice female friend..... Guys can't do the magic sometimes!!!
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 5:58pm On Oct 06, 2018
daviesblaze:



Start making friends with tons of women, don't be afraid to pick female calls when in her company, flirt with different ladies that catches your fancy.

If she confronts you about it, simply dismiss her tantrums by teasing her about how silly she looks in making a big deal out of nothing, then proceed by assuring her about how she is the lucky one among women orbiting you web.

This way, you are creating an abundance mentality not only for yourself but also towards her. she would start getting the vibe that she is easily replaceable. This is where are emotions kicks in. it will keep her on her toes and get her more attached to you. she will start doing things to prove to you that she is the one for you.
This is where the opportunity of getting her more emotionally invested in the relationship than you do comes in. once she gets invested, it will become very difficult for her to break-up with you.

You see my friend, Love or whatever you guys call it, is like a game of chess, there will always be a loser and a winner. everything is fair. you don't want to walk out being the loser do you undecided ??

WARNING!!! Be ready for the side effects though (But what will a relationship be called, if there is no little bit of drama to spice the brew wink wink

Cheers!!! cool cool
I so much love this bruh there's so much wisdom in it ... Am feeling a lot better now I'll strt doing as you said..
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 6:00pm On Oct 06, 2018
anayolity:

I know this feeling bro.... I can totally relate ... I'm this kinda person that hates getting emotionally attached but then I decided to go into this relationship with a girl I love so much .....She feels same for me too... Just this week I felt a strong feeling that something is wrong... I summoned up courage and asked her " What are you not telling" babe opened up that she's liking someone (kinda) and they have kissed twice ... I felt an AFRO on my skincut ... Distance has a way of tearing relationship apart....she's coming to Lagos next week where I'm based.... although will be visiting me often and spending some days with me while staying with her family but that thought ruined everything ... she's a good girl and have some qualities I desire... even though she apologized and promised to cut ties with the guy.... I don't believe it at all, Its making go back to being old person I used to be till I find someone better again .... But I'll find a way to build the relationship, I'll rather be the one to end it!!!

Right now I just hang out a lot with a very nice female friend..... Guys can't do the magic sometimes!!!
Thank you
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 6:02pm On Oct 06, 2018
[quote author=kweenphavy post=71837150][/quote] U re a terrible person.. Dats all I've 2 say 2 you
Re: . by Nobody: 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2018
StrongandMighty:

U re a terrible person.. Dats all I've 2 say 2 you
You're a very deluded person.. an ignoramus... She only gave an advice, why attack her?
Re: . by Toluensdollars(m): 11:22pm On Oct 06, 2018
I understand ur feelings very well and have ones been in dat situation before. let me outline d reasons y u are feeling dis way to u and then tell u d way out. D very first reason of u feeling dis way is just becos u are so much in luv with and u also have no other or don't wish to cheat on her, it practically leaves u in a state whereby u feel insecure in d relationship and kind of suspect every of moves, calls, texts and chats. Buh d best way to tackle these is u getting urself involved in some activities that will get ur attention and make u forget abt her @ least for some hours during d day, sit her down and talk to her. Tell her ur fears buh make sure u don't let her know u scared of loosing her cos she's gonna take u as a weak guy. Then hear her response and see her reactions to it, her actions will either clear ur doubt or proof that ur instinct were right initially. Goodluck!!!
Re: . by StrongandMighty: 11:31pm On Oct 07, 2018
Toluensdollars:
I understand ur feelings very well and have ones been in dat situation before. let me outline d reasons y u are feeling dis way to u and then tell u d way out. D very first reason of u feeling dis way is just becos u are so much in luv with and u also have no other or don't wish to cheat on her, it practically leaves u in a state whereby u feel insecure in d relationship and kind of suspect every of moves, calls, texts and chats. Buh d best way to tackle these is u getting urself involved in some activities that will get ur attention and make u forget abt her @ least for some hours during d day, sit her down and talk to her. Tell her ur fears buh make sure u don't let her know u scared of loosing her cos she's gonna take u as a weak guy. Then hear her response and see her reactions to it, her actions will either clear ur doubt or proof that ur instinct were right initially. Goodluck!!!
OK tnk you
Re: . by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 2:24am On Oct 08, 2018
You’re your problem! Grow up and use that your instinct to Make $$$.
Re: . by Toluensdollars(m): 9:59pm On Oct 08, 2018
[quote author=StrongandMighty post=71881072] OK tnk you[/quote welcome sire
Re: . by Toluensdollars(m): 10:00pm On Oct 08, 2018
StrongandMighty:
OK tnk you
Welcome sire
Re: . by Toluensdollars(m): 10:21pm On Oct 14, 2018
StrongandMighty:
OK tnk you
welcome
Re: . by Suleletul: 1:09pm On Oct 31, 2018
Hello guys! I do not know why people still stay with someone who is cheating them. There is no way to stay with a cheater. I want to advise you here that the world would not stop if some one leaves you. The world is vast and you will surely find a real person who will take care of you with real emotions. Thanks!

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