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Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by AmazingELixir: 10:50am On Oct 17, 2018 |
My friend stop being a spiteful misogynist...on one hand you are condemning feminism and on the other you aligning yourself as a male supremacist 5 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by opribo(m): 10:51am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Nature has made it such that a woman needs a man and likewise a man. The role of a woman is clearly defined naturally. Since nobody can cheat nature, i find it hard to understand this new clamour for feminism. When a woman wants to play the role of a man whatever she sees therein she should not complain. Yes, they should therefore stop crying that they were raped or beaten by men, they should fight back since they are feminist. Men hardly cry that they were raped by women. 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by BurningBlade: 10:53am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:my question to you is: who relegate girls/women to the kitchen and who make girls believe they have nothing to offer in society? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by kerry57: 10:55am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Na this feminist thing go swallow most of una. This is Afirica for God sake. |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Patrinus: 10:55am On Oct 17, 2018 |
LifestyleTonite: Dumb post! Stopped reading when I got to the bolded bit! So the moment you decide to empower women you automatically become a feminist |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 10:56am On Oct 17, 2018 |
BurningBlade:The society, then society believe a woman duty starts and ends at home. who are the society? you and I. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Mulatta(m): 10:56am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:Come I will flog you oh, which man doesn't want the best for his daughter or son. It's called performing his duties not feminism. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by King44(m): 10:58am On Oct 17, 2018 |
I totally agree, must a woman be a feminist to empower women or touch lives? I think they are trying to groom a new kind of women who would be biased toward humanity n they are always they would be the first to complain when men starts paying them in their own coin |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Chineke1stSon: 10:59am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:Funny..because here in eastern Nigeria more girls are in school than boys statistically speaking..I will never agree to the idea of gender equality..because it is a confusing term that goes against nature itself...gender equity on the other hand is the right term and ideology..equity means making provisions for those who are culturally, physically or financially disadvantaged to have a say and input in the society...this means a woman who wishes to serve and protect her father land can serve in the army in her own capacity..even though she might be physically/anatomically different or not as strong as the male soldiers in the battlefield she can still contribute her quota in intelligence gathering and the likes...now that is equity.. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by akinszz: 10:59am On Oct 17, 2018 |
dsocioemmy:those ones are fake feminists |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:00am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Mulatta:Lol, you said this because we are have accepted the true feminism. old days females are not allowed to go to school because it's believed that they will end up in kitchen, parents don't see the need to "waste" their money on them 2 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by BurningBlade: 11:06am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:not really. The society might expect such, but the onus rest with us to change society's expectation about our roles. A girl child who was sent to hawk on the road side without going to school, should society be blamed or her parents? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Chineke1stSon: 11:07am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:How come my mum who was born in the 50s went to school and her elder brother didn't? He had to drop so that his little sis can further her education..how come my dad's sisters all went to universities? Okonjo iweala and Dora nkọ? These women were all born 50 years ago! So when has the female child ever been subjugated not to go school? Are you referring to an age that even my grandfather wasn't even born? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:07am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Chineke1stSon:am talking about feminism and not gender equality. we are saying the same thing "this means a woman who wishes to serve and protect her father land can serve in the army in her own capacity..even though she might be physically/anatomically different or not as strong as the male soldiers in the battlefield she can still contribute her quota in intelligence gathering and the likes...now that is equity." Feminism is not gender war. It's about compromise and accepting the both genders to create impact in society 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:12am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Chineke1stSon:Feminism is a thing of ages, it didn't start today. stop twisting it |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Chineke1stSon: 11:14am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:Lol when you bring in the word "compromise" then it is no longer equality buy equity...you can't compromise if two parties are on equal footing in all aspects...you just reiterated my earlier point..gender equality is a farce because the two genders were never equal..nature made them physically and anatomically unequal..equity is what I (and every unbiased person male or female) support. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Chineke1stSon: 11:17am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:My dear you don't even have a full grasp of the discussion here..who gives a shyt about how societies a thousand years ago lived? Unless your culture historically subjugate women..because where I come from women have ALWAYS had a say in the society..a very strong say.. 3 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by SIRTee15: 11:21am On Oct 17, 2018 |
I think the feminist war in nigeria is more against chauvinism n misogynist than feminism itself.... The African woman is still far behind with regards to equity and social rights when compared to her contemporaries on other parts of the world... Economically and sociocultural, Africa is harsh but worse off for women...... Women are easily bullied and threatened in order to ensure their voice are unheard or force them out of the way.... Unfortunately, there's no system to check this abuse.... Imagine how Dino Melaye emotionally abused Remi Tinubu, yet those utterances received applause from a large segment of men.... A man can kick his wife out the house without a rethink even if the wife contributed towards the buildong of the house... The present nigerian man do not have the financial capacity to raise a family single handedly.... He wants a woman with a good career or steady source of income to assist him and really there's definitely nothing wrong with that... However the nigerian man demands absolute submission and almost zombie-like attitude from the same woman who contributes equally if not more towards the upkeep of the family.... I'm a man but I think it's high time we begin to face up to some realities.... Men build civilisation and any present civilisation that doesn't promote gender equity and protection of the vulnerables isn't sustainable..... 3 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by King44(m): 11:22am On Oct 17, 2018 |
BurningBlade:don't be too specific both girl and boy children are victims 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by tintingz(m): 11:22am On Oct 17, 2018 |
dsauce:The two so called Holy book were written by sexist, misogyny desert wandering men. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:28am On Oct 17, 2018 |
BurningBlade: The society might expect such, but the onus rest with us to change society's expectation about our roles." Thats why feminism come into play. Feminism is idea to change Societys expectations about our roles. Then a girl hawking on the street is the parents fault. Maybe she was sent to hawk because the parents couldn't foot her bills not because the parents are ignorant of child's education and empowerment 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by hustla(m): 11:28am On Oct 17, 2018 |
GOFRONT: The one wey Sabi do pass |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by hustla(m): 11:28am On Oct 17, 2018 |
tintingz: Eleyi ti ya were |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by King44(m): 11:33am On Oct 17, 2018 |
feminism reason why so many men of African descent kill their wives because they threatened to take their place n take over their lives n the law backs it up putting the men at disadvantage such can't happen Here cos it would leas to blood bath. but I believe women can be among the movers and shakers in the society without trying to take up the role of men in the name of gender equality |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Gerrard59(m): 11:34am On Oct 17, 2018 |
LifestyleTonite: Well, the judges are right. You cannot support the rights of women without being a feminist (at least practically). This is assuming the meaning of feminism was according to first wave feminists not the misandrists (third and fourth wave) we've around. 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:35am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Chineke1stSon:lol, detach emotions from your viewpoints. you will understand we are on same page. equity is aim of feminism. 2 Likes |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 11:37am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24: It's not feminism that got Iweala and Dora to school. Their parents didn't train them to be equal to men but contribute positively to their community as who they are and not as men 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Mulatta(m): 11:37am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Eberechi24:That's in the old days. but there are some annoying girls that use feminism as an excuse, God I usually feel like knocking them 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Slimmacho: 11:40am On Oct 17, 2018 |
einsteine: Yes, [color=#990000][/color] BEAUTY PAGEANT OPERATORS |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by doggedfighter(f): 11:40am On Oct 17, 2018 |
Alexreports, were you at this audition? What 's your take on this? |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by Eberechi24(f): 11:40am On Oct 17, 2018 |
InyinyaAgbaOku:Lol, thaat's feminism in play. ignore all the social media banter about feminism. feminism is not gender war. 1 Like |
Re: What I Noticed At A Beauty Pageant Audition In Lagos by enonche85(m): 11:41am On Oct 17, 2018 |
dsauce: God even said the woman should be a helper, a support to the man. |
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