VERY IMPORTANT ADVICE TO ALL WISE LADIES WHO HAVE EARS : 1. When a lady has beauty without brains, the private part suffers the most. It's better to have a torn cloth than a torn brain, men will be coming and going out of your life like a hotel. Be wise. 2. Sex is not love, love is not sex. You can have sex with someone who doesn't love you. You can be in love but don't engage in sex. A man may hate you but still have sex with you. Be careful. 3. A man who doesn't love you will never change his mind even if you do "monkey style" on bed. If he tells you to prove your love for him by giving him sex, tell him you can't displease God to please him. 4. Open up to him and tell him the truth, don't be afraid of losing him, there are many Godly men who are ready to Marry you. 5. Stop making yourself a intimacy gadget to any man in the name of "I love you". It's foolishness and stupidity, that's not love my dear, it's lust. 6. Using sex to manipulate a man will eventually fail you. It's a self destruction thinking that giving him sex will make him love you. True love never forces you to punish your private part. 7. Allow him to get married to you if he loves you and honor you as a woman of substance because if anything, women needs respect. 8. You must stand with your decision and principles and if he doesn't agree with you, never beg him to stay, let him go. It's better to say that you are proud than to be used and dumped. AM I RIGHT?