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Please Help A Young Girl by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 25, 2018
Hello everyone;

I really need your candid advises, am in my very early twenties. Currently, I work as a cashier in a betting center and i have plans of quitting by the end of this year so by next year i will start acquiring a skill {sewing}. Am currently dating my boss who is a single guy about 33 years and we have plans of getting married but the problem is am scared of being a liability in the sense that i have no professional skills and am just a ssce holder. Though we already talked about this and we agreed to shift everything till next year but am still not comfortable with it cos i believe once am married nd kids start coming,then i wont have time for myself anymore and he is no longer happy as a bachelor. He is financially stable but i need to generate my own income too. He said he loves me so much few months after i started working for him and its almost 2 years since i have been working for him nd its not up to 6 months since we started dating but he wants marriage which am not ready for.

What should I do

Should I just break up with him and build something for myself or should i just go on with everything and accept his support??
Please if u have better ideas, help me its really needed.

I believe there are experienced and matured minds here so help. please.
Re: Please Help A Young Girl by adoniza(m): 8:23pm On Oct 25, 2018
Being independent and self sufficient should be your top priority, marriage is nothing. You can spent a very happy and fulfilled time on Earth without getting married.

Focus on building yourself.

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