4601CE:
Op , don’t be emotionally attached to any girl again .
The average woman/girl is full of shit_

QueenBelle:
why are you this bitter?
I wonder what happened to you

Hidemyface:
Some Ladies are just wicked players. After playing me the first time because I was struggling, gave her another chance and when things got a little bit difficult, she came up with such nonsense statement. I was really heartbroken. This is someone I really love and care about. Later they say they want to marry a friend that understands them instead of a stranger. I'm just feeling dead inside.

#NeverAgain #GoodGuyDiesToday

Hidemyface:
Some Ladies are just wicked players. After playing me the first time because I was struggling, gave her another chance and when things got a little bit difficult, she came up with such nonsense statement. I was really heartbroken. This is someone I really love and care about. Later they say they want to marry a friend that understands them instead of a stranger. I'm just feeling dead inside.

#NeverAgain #GoodGuyDiesToday

Amakavula:


You people never listen..

Men desire female love. Your brain is wired to crave female love. Women do not want your love. What women truly want is value ; what you are or achieve. Telling a woman you love her without serious value is making her angry MN

She wants your value; your status, your wealth, your protection, your comfort. Only when you have value that can you excite a woman by telling her you love her. Only because it means that she is being given a gift, the transfer of your value. A king makes a Queen, a President makes a First lady. Musician, make baby mama, Famous

4601CE:

Define bitter

Amakavula:


You people never listen..

Men desire female love. Your brain is wired to crave female love. Women do not want your love. What women truly want is value ; what you are or achieve. Telling a woman you love her without serious value is making her angry MN

She wants your value; your status, your wealth, your protection, your comfort. Only when you have value that can you excite a woman by telling her you love her. Only because it means that she is being given a gift, the transfer of your value. A king makes a Queen, a President makes a First lady. Musician, make baby mama, Famous

Your love, as someone without value means precisely nothing to her. Quite the opposite, it disgusts her . She does not want your love. She doesn’t want to be loved. She wants to be validated by value, and the words “I love you” do exactly that for her, providing that you offer her some value.


It's not like women are evil, we aren't. We are desired that way so we pick the best fathers to protect our offsprings. A man can walkout tomorrow, but woman can't so we choose value to make sure we don't suffer. Sorry but you love without value is garbage.

folake4u:
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Hidemyface:
Thank you guys, guess I'm learning the hard way. Never had anything to do with love or serious relationship until I crossed 30 and getting to middle of it. Guess I'd just have to change my belief system or definition of love.

Hidemyface:


I disagree on the bolded statement. A virtuous woman can also make a man. A Queen can make a King out of a man.

What's the difference between what you just defined that women want and a gold digger?

That means when things go South, she goes Nut. If a Lady can't see beyond her nose then I'm sorry for her. A man wants a Lady he can trust in order to build a happy home. It's a long journey where I'm coming from and she knows. I even opened up my future plans and business investments that just needs time to mature which at first I was hesitant to do but just to give her a glimpse of the future and not to look at the present situation which is not that bad when I count my blessings.

Coming at me with I love you but I'm not in love with you, you're a great guy and we can still be friends BS talk just made me a fool. I don't keep female friends cos I am kind of emotional esp when they're married. This is someone I wanted something serious with her after she stylishly begged after I invited her over. Guess she is weighing her options now based on your definition of what women want and if so then Ladies should get ready to be heartbroken more cause guys like me will start doing 'Tunbo tunbo baskilaba ..'.

4601CE:
Op , don’t be emotionally attached to any girl again .
The average woman/girl is full of shit_

SixDividedByTwo:
of course! the same way you can love someone but not like them all the time. listen to this kid.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VfcQSjmhMlc

SixDividedByTwo:
of course! the same way you can love someone but not like them all the time. listen to this kid.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VfcQSjmhMlc

Hidemyface:


I disagree on the bolded statement. A virtuous woman can also make a man. A Queen can make a King out of a man.

What's the difference between what you just defined that women want and a gold digger?

That means when things go South, she goes Nut. If a Lady can't see beyond her nose then I'm sorry for her. A man wants a Lady he can trust in order to build a happy home. It's a long journey where I'm coming from and she knows. I even opened up my future plans and business investments that just needs time to mature which at first I was hesitant to do but just to give her a glimpse of the future and not to look at the present situation which is not that bad when I count my blessings.

Coming at me with I love you but I'm not in love with you, you're a great guy and we can still be friends BS talk just made me a fool. I don't keep female friends cos I am kind of emotional esp when they're married. This is someone I wanted something serious with her after she stylishly begged after I invited her over. Guess she is weighing her options now based on your definition of what women want and if so then Ladies should get ready to be heartbroken more cause guys like me will start doing 'Tunbo tunbo baskilaba ..'.

donjobill:



You should be glad that this experience is leading you to take a practical lesson towards emotional maturity.

Each person, as you are well aware, develops his or her values and priorities as he or she goes through life; changing some, discarding some or adding some. Often, many people share similar values and priorities.

No! it's not your belief system or your definition of love that you have to change. What you need, is to learn and cultivate the ability to identify a girl whose priorities and values compliment yours. Learn to discriminate how to choose the wheat from the chaff!

You chose the wrong one, and you should be glad she has fallen off when she realised you're getting too emotionally entangled with her, thereby saving you future serious heartbreaks. Her values and priorities are at variance with yours. Deep down, she's quite aware that her core vibration is not in unison with yours. And that's what she has made known to you.

We are constantly learning through the experiences that we pass through. We learn from setbacks just as we learn from the little progresses that we make.

Cheers!

nwachukwu9:
What she means is that she is not sexually attracted to you, but she loves the gifts you give her and other things, but i cant have sex with you.You would be suprised that the guy she is having sex with does nothing for her, To be sincere Sex is not love, It can be bought from any lady if you know how to purchase it, But True love cant be bought with Money

Amakavula:


You people never listen..

Men desire female love. Your brain is wired to crave female love. Women do not want your love. What women truly want is value ; what you are or achieve. Telling a woman you love her without serious value is making her angry MN

She wants your value; your status, your wealth, your protection, your comfort. Only when you have value that can you excite a woman by telling her you love her. Only because it means that she is being given a gift, the transfer of your value. A king makes a Queen, a President makes a First lady. Musician, make baby mama, Famous

Your love, as someone without value means precisely nothing to her. Quite the opposite, it disgusts her . She does not want your love. She doesn’t want to be loved. She wants to be validated by value, and the words “I love you” do exactly that for her, providing that you offer her some value.


It's not like women are evil, we aren't. We are desired that way so we pick the best fathers to protect our offsprings. A man can walkout tomorrow, but woman can't so we choose value to make sure we don't suffer. Sorry but you love without value is garbage.

Hidemyface:


Thank you very much. Will keep this in mind.

Ishilove:

You just have to love children and their brutal honesty. Completely guileless

Hidemyface:


but relationship is a two way street tho.