Ever since I was a little boy I have always been defined only by how I look. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere, once people stare at me for the first time they join the queue. They start judging me by how I appear, on days when I look streessed and my looks diminishes they don’t say hi to me and completely act like they don’t know me, on days when I’m glowing they act super friendly like I’m the love of their life. This shiiit has turned me to a loner as every potential “friend” has done same so I cut people off and stay alone. It hurts when I’m treated this way, it’s a very insensitive thing to do, to make others feel like their only relevant on days they look their best. My family, neighbors, “friends” , church members, landlords, strangers, everyone does this to me. I think it’s how I look, I have a face that looks extremely good on some days and somewhat weird and not too good on others and people just act accordingly and that shiit has really made me hate society. Do other people experience this or am I the only weird person in this world? (This is a shallow post I know but please it really makes me feel bad that’s why I made a thread about it, no insults please)

hmm

Easy Brother, try your possible best to move on and look beyond the past.

I was once like you.
The bad thing about your present state is that it's easier for you to become a tool against humanity.

Pishure or idonbilivit

Oga i advise you to adopt the mantra of "NOT GIVING A BLEEP ABOUT OTHERS PEOPLE'S OPINION OF ME".

Your life will get easier if you just dont care about what others think of you.

If them talk to you, be friendly and talk back, if them no talk to you mind your business and move on.


WTF is with insecure kids on nairaland this morning sef ah ahn

yuncka:
Easy Brother, try your possible best to move on and look beyond the past.

I was once like you.
The bad thing about your present state is that it's easier for you to become a tool against humanity.

I don’t know how to move past it bro, yesterday two guys I have never met in my life we’re pointing at me and I heard one say “this guy wet Dey your back so” and the other one turned to look at me and hissed and they kept saying stuffs that I didn’t hear. This is a typical day in my life, I mind my bizness but everybody has something to say about me, people I swear I have never seen before. Bro I swear if I don’t get mental help I may do something that may end me up on instablog soon.

Eglobalma:


I don’t know how to move past it bro, yesterday two guys I have never met in my life we’re pointing at me and I heard one say “this guy wet Dey your back so” and the other one turned to look at me and hissed and they kept saying stuffs that I didn’t hear. This is a typical day in my life, I mind my bizness but everybody has something to say about me, people I swear I have never seen before. Bro I swear if I don’t get mental help I may do something that may end me up on instablog soon.

Don't letter what they say define your next action. Live free yet...but try to make friends with some few good people around the neighbourhood.

You sound more like you are an introvert. Not far from my own personality. In my neighbourhood I don't have time for people I stay on my own.. just going out to work or wherever and back, I started going to watch football at the viewing centre and made friend with the owner there and the tailor in my side...

And very few other persons, I know the ones I don't relate with talks ...but I care less about it...

Once again dont let other people's perception towards you make you to do the unthinkable.

Peace.

Your life will be more meaningful to you when you stop giving a damn about people's opinion on you.

Eglobalma:


I don’t know how to move past it bro, yesterday two guys I have never met in my life we’re pointing at me and I heard one say “this guy wet Dey your back so” and the other one turned to look at me and hissed and they kept saying stuffs that I didn’t hear. This is a typical day in my life, I mind my bizness but everybody has something to say about me, people I swear I have never seen before. Bro I swear if I don’t get mental help I may do something that may end me up on instablog soon.

You're letting everyone live in your head rent-free. You must be a generous lad.