Flowers95:
principles of economics used in every aspect of your life sir. Good day!

Mizwisdom:


Oga, some men are already depriving their families of money, some squander their money in beer palor, they don't even give their wives adequate upkeep, some don't have reliable source of income to care for their family's financial needs

Flowers95:
If your husband cannot wait a few days to have sex, then that man is not your husband, he’s public property. Men of this generation will still say sex is cheap and useless, but cannot wait a few days without it. Walking contradictions might I say.

UmmuFareed:

Just because it works for you doesn't mean it would work for everyone.

If you deprive your man of sex and if he happens to be the impatient type he will get it elsewhere, which might likely leads to marital problem. Even those that ain't sex-deprived still get tempted to have extra marital affair how much more a deprived man.

Ivanmykel:
Your advice, your life, your problem. Ama give it to him any freaking way and style he so desires, it's new everyday. Enjoyment at both ends, 3years down, 100 more years...

Flowers95:
principles of economics used in every aspect of your life sir. Good day!

pryme:


The Op doesn't know to some men sex with a love one is like the first time every time.

Speaking from experience.

Ivanmykel:


She doesn't have an idea

Alennsar:



I think she's a frustrated divorcée. she should go and get a life.

Flowers95:
My dear if you’re listening to what these men are telling you, you’re on your own. These men w say a lot of things that do not correlate with their actions. It is well.

Ivanmykel:


Sorry, I'm not on my own. I have a beautiful family.

Flowers95:
Congrats dear. Let’s hope you make it to the 10 year mark successfully as it’s not easy.

frozen70:


True talk, the more you give them sex,
the more they think that's the only thing you have to offer

Be proud of your self, don't just give in any time they request for it

Keep them in suspense, it's your treasure protect it

After all they are the one that gets turned on, more than the women

Let them yawn and hungry for it,

nay you get am,
take am do shakara for them

Flowers95:
Have you ever bought a pair of shoes, that you saved up to get and was so excited to buy? The first time you wore it, you were filled with excitement and couldn’t get enough of it. However, the more you wore it, the less valuable it became and after a year of constant use it became practically useless to you. This is how men view sex with you.

To completely remove sex from the equation is not what I’m telling you young ladies to do. However, you must not give that man sex every time he wants it, the value of your sex decreases every single time you give it to him. Men will never tell you this, in fact they will tell you the more sex the better, however this is not how they think. You must make him yearn for it, tease him. If you’re married, having sex with your husband more than 3 times in a week without an issue, is disastrous. It will not be long before that man gets tired of you, this is just the reality. Deprive him, this is what he wants as long as it’s not excessive. Once a week or every two weeks is preferable. Men like to work for sex, because it’s rewarding for them. Even in marriage, you must have this mentality. Sex given to them freely is not valuable.

Young Wives in the house, stop texting or calling your hubby every minute of the day. If that man knows every single thing you do, your whereabouts, you become predictable and boring. Let that man wonder what you are doing, even in marriage. Men like thrill, confusion and unpredictable behaviour. As much as they tell you they don’t like it, they do.

All in all, use your feminine power to get the most out of marriage life. Good luck young ladies If you need advice on marital issues, feel free to send me a pm.

belcom10:
These words are very correct.
Some may not understand what the writer actually mean but that's just the true.
Some women will say ,my husband ,i must do every thing to satisfy him.This is a silence trick that men want but no overdo o.

bukatyne:


How long have you been married?

bukatyne:


How long have you been married?

Flowers95:
Have you ever bought a pair of shoes, that you saved up to get and was so excited to buy? The first time you wore it, you were filled with excitement and couldn’t get enough of it. However, the more you wore it, the less valuable it became and after a year of constant use it became practically useless to you. This is how men view sex with you.

To completely remove sex from the equation is not what I’m telling you young ladies to do. However, you must not give that man sex every time he wants it, the value of your sex decreases every single time you give it to him. Men will never tell you this, in fact they will tell you the more sex the better, however this is not how they think. You must make him yearn for it, tease him. If you’re married, having sex with your husband more than 3 times in a week without an issue, is disastrous. It will not be long before that man gets tired of you, this is just the reality. Deprive him, this is what he wants as long as it’s not excessive. Once a week or every two weeks is preferable. Men like to work for sex, because it’s rewarding for them. Even in marriage, you must have this mentality. Sex given to them freely is not valuable.

Young Wives in the house, stop texting or calling your hubby every minute of the day. If that man knows every single thing you do, your whereabouts, you become predictable and boring. Let that man wonder what you are doing, even in marriage. Men like thrill, confusion and unpredictable behaviour. As much as they tell you they don’t like it, they do.

All in all, use your feminine power to get the most out of marriage life. Good luck young ladies If you need advice on marital issues, feel free to send me a pm.

KevinDein:

The most hilarious thing about nairaland is that no matter how crazy and dumb a post is, you'll always find other nut jobs liking it.

Acidosis:

Don't mind the ignoramus.






So what's your advice for the married men madam marriage counsellor?

Men should deprive their wives and children of money? By going to bed hungry a few times in a week, the family will appreciate the value of food and money?