1. Many African ladies
will end up singles for
life because of media
exposure- it is so
disheartening how a
lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone
from morning to night,
only to raise it up to
focus on television to
watch another
celebrity entertainment channel.
Tell me, what else will
dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to
live a fake celebrity life
being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies
now dislike cooking
and home chores just
because they had been
totally brainwashed by
movies showcasing men playing the role of
women in a family, and
due to excessive
exposure to modern
media that promotes
gender-equality in a destructive way that’s
aimed at destroying
the unique African
family setting that
made our previous
African marriages everlasting and
envious to the
westerns. Now, with
this attitude, how do
you expect a African
man to desire to marry when he knows he is
only buying more
headache and trouble
than helper for
himself?

3. Excessive makeup
turns most decent and
serious-minded men
off- if you have
observed, you will
discover that most men dislike excessive
makeup, and more
don’t even like it at all;
reason they often
times discourage their
true loved ones to do away with it cos it
speaks ill of a lady even
though so many men
will applaud and
complement you for
looking like an Egyptian mummy. A
slight makeup is okay;
but if you are out for
marriage, try always to
look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded, except
you are still living in
your high school life
and not thinking
towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your
Number Out To Every
Dick & Harry! No man
would want to propose
marriage to a lady
whose phone is always talking and laughing
with unserious calls.
You may not be a
playgirl, but he would
judge you as one, and
will likely flee at the slightest chance or
disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any
Value Into The Life Of
Men You Date or Are
Dating- because your
best friend married
without contributing anything to the man
that finally married
her, doesn’t mean it
will work for you that
way. Think, work
towards equipping yourself so that you
can be a value and also
add value to his life to
convince him that you
are worth committing
to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him
money, or material
gifts, nope….good
counsels, being his best
friend, helping him
attain his goals in life, lending him moral,
mental and spiritual
support, and by not
just being a liability
that only bring
requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run
Your Life- how do you
expect to find a
husband when you still
allow your clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is
worthy of your love
and which is not? When
will you wake up and
face the fact that those
your best friends even though they cherish
you, wouldn’t want
you to marry before
them or to marry the
best man?

7. You Give Everything
Out During Dating- As a
single lady who has not
been taken to the altar,
you need to reserve
some things for your husband to be,
especially your body,
respect it and preserve
it at all cost. In the
past, men rushed to
marry to get certain things or privileges
they had been
constantly denied
while being single.
Such privileges include
and not limited to: constant sex and
companionship, good
food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single
man gets even the best
and of course more of constant sex, good
food and excellent
home-keeping more
than his married
counterparts, so tell
me how the hell you want him to desire to
marry you when you
have given him
virtually everything he
desires from a wife
while being his girlfriend? And the
most painful part of it
all is that he knows
that you are prepared
to cut down on sex
supply, cooking, home- keeping, etc once he
marries you, so why
would he not want you
to remain his girlfriend
for life?

8. You Package Yourself
Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy,
adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you
have derailed from appealing to appalling.
In fact you look more
whorish than modest;
more unatractive than
attractive, and more
disgusting than adorable. Your dressing
style determines who
gets attracted to you
most times. If you
dress high school, only
high school-thinking guys will be attracted
to you, and if you dress
excessively sexy and
provocative, only
randy men will come to
you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate sex urge, so
don’t be fooled by
media hyping of
certain kinds of
dressing, they are meant for certain set
of ladies you wouldn't
like to be associated
with, be careful.
Remember, not all
clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously
searching for a soul
mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner,
Character, Wisdom and
Good Home Upbringing-
definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’,
‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men;
both the good, and the
bad, but your inner
beauty, your character
and manner are the
things that will determine whether any
of those men would
stay or run after
accomplishing their
evil missions. In order
words, do away with nagging, being
possessive, challenging
with men in negative
ways, the mentality of
‘what a man can do a
woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so
many ladies today,
please do away with it:

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10. Most African ladies hates wise advice like this...