what we have in nigeria now is something unimaginable, girls have made it feel like if you don't have money you cannot be in a relationship.
well we can estimate this to ill treatings of careless guys who only remember their loved ones in hard times, therefore making the females have the impression that they have to 'dig deep' that is 'chop his money' as they normally claim while it lasts. seriously a real relationship doesn't require funds to operate. the kind of girls we have today are 'materialistic' greedy ones, also we have cheating fake boys of nowadays but because I blame it on 'lack of exposed idea', 'lack of understanding' you tend to get all manners of results all in the name of relationship.
a girl visits you and the next thing she's looking at is your surroundings, how glittery it looks, how costly it appears rather than focus on the hearts or minds of men they chill with.
some girls even say that 'no money no love', love if I may help you is not found in money or on the platform of cash, if any man doesn't have that much should he kill him self?, I understand the needs of cash to run daily needs but women of today generally are after money that's why ritualist all over keep using them. just because your boyfriend can't buy you an 100k phone, the next thing is to switch!, you keep terminating your lives by doing so.
is life about cash only, do a flashback, how much did your dad have before getting things started with your mum, how much back then was your dad worth?, you all just want the gold but how many are willing to extract it.
I hope you all should have a new mindset towards this, the ignorant guys who gives out even their own house rents just to please a girl,you are also contributing to the fact of making every minute with you and your girl look materialistic but because they know the consequences of making a 'don't have' statement, they go extra miles just to pay dues to greedy girls.
it is not about living glamorous lifestyles but living a peaceful worth respectable life. money answereth all things I know,money can it buy your life?, the one you have with you as a boy or guy, spend and the one you haven't acquired yet why kill your self?, ladies will never have great homes until they stop building,decorating houses through out their lives.

I stopped at "focus on the heart/mind of the men" you're not talking about Nigerian men sha?

When you focus on the "heart/ mind" of most of you, all we see is why you don't deserve our loyalty.

If you have peace of mind

You will care for your mother
Care for your sisters
Care for your Aunts and Female cousins
Care for your Grand mother.

Use the Naija GF poverty alleviation funds and travel outside of Nigeria.
You will end up happy.

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