Xavier5:
How in the world will somebody have sex with a someone he or she went out on a first date with. How does that sound to you.

It makes one cheap. No matter the chemistry, one shouldn't have sex on the first date. Come on, get to know the person first and also give it sometime, everything will fall into place.

#Xavier.

MissRaine69:
And not burden you with expectations ....

MissRaine69:

There are people who are still very wed despite all that. Let’s just say it’s not for everyone
Some people have no issues with it
We all have a different approach to things

vingeophysicist:
if such relationship leads to something serious, the man will always have trust issues with the lady. Having sex without knowing much about that person is really unhealthy. This is why most relationships don't last, friendship should come before sex.
Don't be deceived by the comments you see on nairaland. Every man will surely have an element of doubt if you allowed him to sex you on the first date.I repeat "every"

Xavier5:


Whatever, Doesn't make it right.

#Xavier.

Saff:
This is what you’ll say but 99.9% of you will never respect a girl who gives it up too quick. Why? There’s no value, thrill or chase that you’ll receive, and you’ll have this assumption that she gives it up like that to most guys she meets. I wish you guys would just be honest and not say things to get what you want, jeeeez.

Saff:
Yeah I have experienced it greatly in my life.

Xavier5:


Opening your legs for someone you just went on a first date with. How rational?

All this people saying there is nothing wrong with it, I bet you won't want/ let their daughters to do it.

#Xavier.

Xavier5:


I decided to use the "opening of legs" phrase and not "slotting of junior into the everlasting wound" not because I'm a sexist but because of the kind of society we leave in.

Babe, women are chastised more than men when it comes to sexuality courtesy of our sexist society. That's why women have to be up and doing.

By the way, everyone has the choice and right to leave the way they wanna leave. We are all free moral being courtesy of GOD. All we just damn need is tolerance. To others having sex on a first date is nothing and cool but to me it's bullshit. But what do I have to do, nothing but tolerate.

By the way, is that you in your dp

#Xavier.

Saff:
Absolutely not and if you can avoid it please do.

People do not understand the significance behind sex. The spirits, energies and fluids that exchange during intercourse is not a joke, and you can’t share that with just anybody. Some men/women have slept their destinies away, but let me not get too deep before someone calls me superstitious.

MissRaine69:

What about money? Asking for money?

Xavier5:


You apply it on people or you apply it on yourself?

#Xavier.

engrsyer:
yes asking money or financial assistance on first date is it good?

MissRaine69:

Happened to me once .....
Some women will ask regardless of the relationship

Xavier5:


I know. That's why I asked if you apply it on people or yourself.

#Xavier.