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5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by yusaze: 4:56pm On Jul 16, 2015
Men have many questions related to the female orgasm, one of the primary ones being: Why isn't she having them? While climax is the result of sex for most men nearly every time, women often don't get their rocks off from penetration alone, and some may also not get there, at least every time, through manual or oral stimulation. Along with practicing proper penis care, men can improve their sex lives by learning more about the female orgasm, the elusiveness of which may be causing them to lose confidence and fear that they are inadequate. The following information can help:

1. Most women need more than penetration.
Estimates vary, but something like 80% of women do not achieve orgasm from a penis (or other object) being inside them. A woman may thoroughly enjoy deep thrusts or shallower center of gravity stimulation, but these often aren't enough to get her there.

2. The clitoris is key.
The clitoris is the gateway to orgasm for most women. A woman may prefer to orgasm before, during or after sex with either oral, manual or toy-assisted clitoral stimulation. Manual and toy play can be mixed with penetrative sex fairly easily; a couple just needs to choose positions that afford access to the region. She may want to use her own hand, her partner's hand or a vibrator, the latter of which is probably the most likely to lead to release.

3. It's not a man's fault. Some men put a lot of pressure on themselves to "make" their ladies climax. If this does not result, they may blame themselves, but this isn't helpful or even accurate, at least not most of the time. While there are things he can do to up the odds that she'll finish, there are plenty of other factors that play a determining role.

4. It's not her fault, either. Some men espouse the troubling notion that women are withholding orgasm for some personal reason, and they may become frustrated, posing such questions as, "Why won't you cum for me?" Aside from inappropriately making it about oneself, such a line of thinking represents a lack of understanding about the many, many factors that can make it difficult for a woman to get there.

5. Don't pressure her.
One such factor is pressure from a partner. If a man is very eager to bring a woman to orgasm, his very eagerness could be causing her anxiety, which is a climax-killer for men and women alike. Ask her what she wants and how she wants it; don't demand a particular result.

Hopefully, one's partner has cultivated a level of familiarity with her own body so that she knows what she likes and can communicate that to a man. She knows where her hot spots are, and the couple can work together to find ways to hit them. Even if she requires clitoral stimulation to finish, it may be more likely to happen when she's being stimulated internally in her favorite ways. For some women, the center of gravity is key; for others, deep thrusts during which the penis tip slides in front of or behind the cervix are best.

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Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by falconey(m): 4:58pm On Jul 16, 2015

Oh boy!!
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by buzquet(m): 5:20pm On Jul 16, 2015
Make any lady try me if she want to get orgasm! caz am d best wen it cums to dis
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by LogoDWhiz(m): 6:12pm On Jul 16, 2015
Hmm!
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jul 16, 2015
thank you but I don't think I need this info.
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Campusser(m): 12:00am On Jul 17, 2015
Educative
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Mcowubaba: 12:22am On Jul 17, 2015
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Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Nobody: 6:19am On Jul 17, 2015
Some gals cannot cum even wit suckin d clit nd 2 hours pounding
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by kent79: 8:20am On Jul 17, 2015
Hmm.....
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Koolmexxi(m): 9:09am On Jul 17, 2015
buzquet:
Make any lady try me if she want to get orgasm! caz am d best wen it cums to dis
We know ur type... U wouldn't be looking for any lady if... U know the rest
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by mizkeleke(f): 9:52am On Jul 17, 2015
youngdude1:
thank you but I don't think I need this info.
Then why are you here
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by eyeon(m): 11:27am On Jul 17, 2015
Really?
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by prince2blinks(m): 11:31am On Jul 17, 2015
Serious
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Uchesis: 11:35am On Jul 17, 2015
buzquet:
Make any lady try me if she want to get orgasm! caz am d best wen it cums to dis
Pishure of u giving a lady orgasm or idontbelieveyou
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by uchebest2006(m): 12:36pm On Jul 17, 2015
Good for couples!!
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Stycon(m): 3:50pm On Jul 17, 2015
Yeah! "clitoral & G *spot* stimulation" works like magic wink


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Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jul 17, 2015
mizkeleke:
Then why are you here
I landed myself here by mistake
Re: 5 Things Men Should Know About Female Orgasm by Cately(f): 4:35pm On Jan 03, 2019
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