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Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 6:31am On Nov 28, 2018 |
Dear Nairalanders, Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below 1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25) 2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student 3. Both seem to believe in each other 4. Both on the "short" side of height 5. Have known each other for one month 6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady 7. Both attend the same church The responses will be appreciated.... |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by duduade: 6:41am On Nov 28, 2018 |
Hiploko: As long as the lady will be loyal and submissive But shey the 38 year old man cannot toast by himself, even as ladies yaapa in Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 7:33am On Nov 28, 2018 |
duduade:Thank you |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by bigl: 10:52pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
Hiploko: 1. Well, 12 years isn't so bad but it would have been better if shorter. To ensure there is lil generational gap. Imagine marrying someone who is a die hard fan of nokia and believes they are still the best and u, a newer generation and lover of Samsung/Android? U feel me (Note: i'm 7 years older than my wife ) 2. 100k isn't bad to start with but where I have problem is the issue of the lady being a 200 level student: Will u still love him by the time you are done with your programme in school? Will he still appeal to u? 3. That's a good one as long as you are sure of it. 4. Em em ... short as in? 3.5ft? Or shorter? Or you are both ..... 5. Are u kidding me? Eskiss ma, allow the relationship to grow before you get worried o! One month is a bit short to just decide and dive into marriage. 6. That should also get u worried. You need the mum on your side for peace sake but nothing is impossible. 7. I don't give a f****k if u attend same school. Attending same church is not a guarantee for a successful marriage. I'll advise u finish your school and don't be in a hurry to "get ownership for a mr.dee". 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by babyfaceafrica: 11:07pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
there is absolutely no problem.. unless you want to create one for yourself age....doesn't matter just 12/years check tolu Jacobs and joke Silva age height...who height help...will you rather marry a tall and senseless fellow? both should give themselves at least three months and marry.. congrats 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by boredom: 11:34pm On Nov 28, 2018 |
Hiploko: |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by ifyalways(f): 12:50am On Nov 29, 2018 |
Hiploko:1. Twelve years age difference is too much . It wouldnt matter if it were Man 72, woman 50. 2. 200 levels in Nigerian SChool meaning 3 or more years of schooling plus or minus ASUU strike, NYSC and others? The man is just gonna pay school fees for another man 3. Even Judas at some point strongly believed in Jesus abi? 4,5 and 6. No comment. 7. Na dem sabi 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 4:03pm On Dec 10, 2018 |
Thanks to All for the advises... |
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